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When You Need to Know You are Forgiven and Loved

I  mess up every single day! I need to know that through God's grace I am forgiven and loved.

I need God’s forgiveness!

No matter how hard I try, I  mess up the obedience and love part of my life every single day!

I don’t obey God the way He wants me to. I don’t even obey Him the way I want to.

I tell Him how much I love Him but with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength … I fall short again and again.

Remember Paul’s words…

I know that good itself does not dwell in me, that is, in my sinful nature. For I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out.  Romans 7:18

Yeah, that’s me!

Maybe, like me, you ask God for His forgiveness but continue to beat yourself up over your weaknesses and failures … especially those things you keep on doing even though you know better and desperately want to stop.

If so…

Let’s take a look at God’s word of truth…

When You Need to Know You are Forgiven and Loved

I  mess up every single day! I need to know that through God's grace I am forgiven and loved.

The first thing you and I need to remember is God is the perfect Father…

♥ God made you and loves you so very much!

He does not hold your sins against you. He wants to forgive you … so much so, that He sent Jesus to suffer your punishment and mine. He suffered and died to pay the price that set us free!

“I, the Lord, made you, and I will not forget you. I have swept away your sins like a cloud. I have scattered your offenses like the morning mist. Oh, return to me, for I have paid the price to set you free.” Isaiah 44:21b–22

Forgiveness is the divine miracle of grace.  The cost to God was the Cross of Christ. 
Oswald Chambers

♥ God wants us to surrender our failures to Him.

Why?

Because when you and I confess and repent…

  1. We agree with God that our failures are sins that go against His will.
  2. We take an honest assessment of our lives and realize our need for Him.
  3. We acknowledge our sorrow for what we’ve done or what we’ve failed to do.
  4. We ask Him to give us the desire and help we need to obey Him in the future.
  5.  We admit that we are totally dependent on God … we need Him.

Confession and repentance are the flat-out falling of the sinner before the Savior. It humbly recognizes that He is King of kings and Lord of lords, that He is God and well, we are not.

And the good news is…

If we confess our sins to Him, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all wickedness. 1 John 1:9

And it’s not only a washing away the marks of sin, but it’s also … the power of the Holy Spirit to change stony, stubborn hearts into kind, responsive hearts.

 I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh. And I will put my Spirit in you and move you to follow my decrees and be careful to keep my laws. Ezekiel 36:26–27

How cool is that?!

♥ You and I are more than just forgiven; we are new creations!

Through Jesus death and resurrection and through the power of His Spirit, you and I have a new perspective and a new heart.

This means that anyone who belongs to Christ has become a new person. The old life is gone; a new life has begun!
2 Corinthians 5:17

We are being made new every day. We have a new covenant … a promise, written on our hearts that gives us a personal relationship with the God of the universe.

We belong to God!

See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! 1 John 3:1a

If you’re like me, though, you still have past failures/sins that haunt your thoughts and wear you down.

If so, this is the best news of all…

♥ Sins that have been confessed and repented are forgiven and gone for good!

We don’t need to wallow in self-loathing and memorialized guilt.

Even when our faith is weak, our conscience is sensitive, and memories haunt us God’s word affirms that through Jesus every confessed sin is gone for good!

I confessed all my sins to you
    and stopped trying to hide my guilt.
I said to myself, “I will confess my rebellion to the Lord.”
    And you forgave me! All my guilt is gone.
Psalm 32:5

His love is as high as the heavens and His forgiveness is as far as the east is from the west.

He does not punish us for all our sins;
    He does not deal harshly with us, as we deserve.
For His unfailing love toward those who fear Him
    is as great as the height of the heavens above the earth.
He has removed our sins as far from us
    as the east is from the west.
Psalm 103:10–12

I love this quote!

“Forgiveness is the giving, and so the receiving, of life.” ~ George MacDonald

That’s it! LIFE! NEW LIFE! REDEEMED LIFE!

When You Need to Know You are Forgiven and Loved by Deb Wolf @ Counting My Blessings

♥ You and I can LIVE  celebrating God’s forgiveness and love.

Jesus is both willing and able to forgive us. It’s not some reward He holds in front of us trying to get us to do better.

It’s a gift of love.

Love confirmed on a cross two thousand years ago.

“For this is how God loved the world: He gave His one and only Son, so that everyone who believes in Him will not perish but have eternal life.” John 3:16

Love so complete it has one desire…

“The desire of His heart is always restoration – not condemnation. When we truly repent, God will forgive us.”  Mary Southerland

When you and I struggle with guilt. When it’s hard to let go and move on … stop and remember just how much God loves you.

He is greater than your feelings.

He is your loving, forgiving, heart changing Giver of LIFE!

That my friend is a reason to celebrate with joy!

Oh, what joy for those
    whose disobedience is forgiven,
    whose sin is put out of sight!
Psalm 32:1 and Romans 4:7

And if for just a moment you’re thinking…

You don’t understand. You don’t know what I’ve done. You don’t know how far I’ve fallen away. How I’ve ignored and neglected Him.

Read these words from Charles Stanley…

“When you stray from His presence, He longs for you to come back. He weeps that you are missing out on His love, protection and provision. He throws His arms open, runs toward you, gathers you up, and welcomes you home.” ~ Charles Stanley

One of my favorite parables is the story of the Prodigal Son.

The image of the Father watching and waiting for His son to return home. The picture of Him running to embrace the child who had rejected His love and squandered His blessings.

While he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him. Luke 15:20

That’s the Father who loves us!

May you and I keep returning home in humble repentance knowing we are forgiven and loved … the celebration of LIFE is just beginning!

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2 Members – 1 Church – Helpful Truth You Need to Know

The church is full of all kinds of people - what kind of church member are you? #LoveGod #Faith #Blessings

It’s been years, but I can still picture them well.

They were members of our small church in St. Louis.

For my story today, I’m going to call them members A and B.

Member A –

A was a slightly built man with a wisp of silver hair. He had a huge smile and a bear hug that wrapped around you and well, you just knew he meant it! Both A and his wife were humble servants … faithfully doing the unheralded jobs that few others wanted to do. They were always there early and they stayed late.

I picture A standing near the entrance welcoming everyone who walked in with a handshake or a hug and the following simple sentence:

Do you know how much Jesus loves you?

Rev remembers how he would bring his 5’8″ frame right up to his 6’6″ one, grab him by the collar, look him in the eye and say, “I pray for you every single day!” And we knew he did!

Member B –

Member B was a taller more distinguished looking man. He always held leadership positions and knew how the church should run. He liked tradition and was outspoken and unhappy about most changes. He served that church and gave generously. He was doing it right and felt it important that he should help others “do it right,” too!

I remember one exchange with B’s wife …

Rev and I had struggled with secondary infertility for 7 years. One particularly bad hormone swing day, I shared with her that I was hurting and sad. She stepped in close, shook her finger in my face, and told me I should be ashamed of myself. I was blessed with two healthy children and I should stop feeling sorry for myself and be thankful.

I was thankful for my children! Very thankful. I just had an exceptionally powerful mom gene! And at that moment, more than anything I needed love, kindness, and compassion.

Two members – One Church

One full of love the other full of self righteousness.

I believe A and B and their wives loved Jesus and that they were trying to follow Him to the best of their abilities.

I also believe there is a little A and B in each of us.

The church is full of all kinds of people - what kind of church member are you? #LoveGod #Faith #Blessings

I wrote the following as part of Mondays’ post…

God selected Abraham and his descendants as His chosen people not to exclude the other nations but because He wanted to draw all people to Himself through them. Had the Israelites followed God’s will they would have shown surrounding nations the blessings of living as God’s children.

God wanted His people to be “holy” or “set apart” … to look different from everyone else because as He blessed their obedience, others would want what they had.

Then on Tuesday morning, I read the following in Ezekiel…

 I gave them my decrees and regulations so they could find life by keeping them. And I gave them my Sabbath days of rest as a sign between them and me. It was to remind them that I am the Lord, who had set them apart to be holy. Ezekiel 20:11–12

Decrees and regulations so they could find life.

A day of rest as a sign of the covenant … that they were set apart as His. A day to refocus their priorities and remember all He had done for them.

Why?

Love!!!

God gave His commands and the Sabbath out of love. He knew obedience would make their lives better.  And He set them apart so the people around them would see the blessings of living in relationship with the one true God.

And yet, time and again, like you and me … God’s people failed to trust and obey completely.

They chose idolatry, power, prestige, popularity, and personal comfort over obedience. They wanted what the non-believers had. It looked good. It sounded good. It felt good.

It was self-focused and selfish.

I want to be like Mr. and Mrs. A! I want my love for Jesus to bubble out of me all over everyone who meets me. I want to serve humbly as an offering of gratitude for all God has done for me.

Work with enthusiasm, as though you were working for the Lord rather than for people. Ephesians 6:7

Unfortunately, I recall times when I’ve been more like Mr. and Mrs. B than I’d like to admit. Times when I was critical and judgmental, and yes, maybe even a little self-righteous.

So today, I asking God to forgive me. I’m also asking Him to help me keep my focus on Jesus.

Let us strip off every weight that slows us down, especially the sin that so easily trips us up. And let us run with endurance the race God has set before us. We do this by keeping our eyes on Jesus, the champion who initiates and perfects our faith. Hebrews 12:1b–2a

I’m asking Him to help me love Him through obedience … not to win His pleasure or gain His blessings but to glorify and thank Him for all He has given me and done for me through Jesus.

Two Members - One Church - Helpful Truth You Need to Know by Deb Wolf @ CountingMyBlessings #Blessings #Faith #Church

John the Baptist said, “He must become more important while I become less important.” John 3:30

I like to say it this way…

Less of me! More of Jesus!

I want people to see Jesus in me. I want them to want what I have. I want them to love the One I love!

This Week’s Friday Favorites

Highlights from the Week!


El-Roi the God Who See You in Your 7 Painful Needs

by Diana Abe

@ Diana’s Diaries

El-Roi the God Who Sees You in Your 7 Painful Needs by Diana Abe @ Diana's Diaries


A Community that Motivates

by Nylse Esahc

@ Life Notes

Community the Motivates by Nylse Esahc @ Life Notes


Too Tired to Fight

by JD Iana

@ Dotted Lines

Too Tired to Fight by JD Iana @ Dotted Lines
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Why You Need to Seek the Truth About Obedience and Love

The Bible makes a connection between obedience and love but there are so many rules and traditions, I want to seek the truth.

I’ve studied the books of Isaiah and Jeremiah.

And I have to admit, I feel bad for the prophets. I’ll bet they didn’t get invited to many parties! They spent their lives proclaiming God’s impending judgment on His people for their failure to trust God through obedience and love.

The more I read and studied, the more God lit this fire in my soul as He showed me verse after verse that could apply to our culture today.

A few verses that hit me hard are…

What sorrow for those who say that evil is good and good is evil, that dark is light and light is dark, that bitter is sweet and sweet bitter. Isaiah 5:20

Then the Lord gave this message to Jeremiah: “This is what the Lord of Heaven’s Armies, the God of Israel, says: Go and say to the people in Judah and Jerusalem, ‘Come and learn a lesson about how to obey me.'” Jeremiah 35:13

“Again and again I sent my servants, the prophets, to plead with them, ‘Don’t do these horrible things that I hate so much.’ But my people would not listen or turn back from their wicked ways.” Jeremiah 44:4–5a

These and other verses like them started my spirit squirming and I felt the Lord prodding me to write about the connection between obedience and love.

This is the deal…

I know you and I live under the New Covenant. We are saved by God’s grace through faith in Jesus.

Still, throughout the Bible, God says an important part of living our faith is doing our best to obey God’s commands and follow His will in loving response to who He is and all He’s done. In response to His love! 

You see, the thing I keep thinking about is this…

Much of what the people were doing that brought about God’s punishment was passed down from one generation to the next. They listened to the wrong voices and when God sent them prophets like Isaiah and Jeremiah, they ignored them and continued to do what they’d always done — worshipping idols and ignoring the Sabbath.

And I wonder about the idols I might be serving without even realizing it and if I’m honoring the Sabbath the way God wants me to.

Because I love God and I want to love Him through obedience. 

Something else Jeremiah called out – is that the people followed a worship ritual but maintained a sinful lifestyle. It was religion without a personal commitment to God. (Life Application Bible Notes Jeremiah 7:2–3)

I keep wondering if we’re worshipping God the way He wants … not only in honoring the Sabbath by going to church but by the way we spend that day and every other day of the week.

Again, remember … I’m not throwing out grace here. I am totally dependent on Gospel grace. 

It’s easy to view the Old Testament as all “Law” and the New Testament all “Gospel.” But all of Scripture from Genesis through Revelation points to Jesus and He is the Gospel … obedience and love in human flesh!

God selected Abraham and his descendants as His chosen people not to exclude the other nations but because He wanted to draw all people to Himself through them. Had the Israelites followed God’s will they would have shown surrounding nations the blessings of living as God’s children.

God wanted His people to be “holy” or “set apart” … to look different from everyone else because as He blessed their obedience, others would want what they had.

Isn’t that what God wants for Jesus’ followers today?

When people see us enjoying the blessings of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control … they should want what we have.

That’s the backstory of God’s prompting and prodding me to write this new series.

It fits with my word for the year – SEEK.

And my verse, which is…

Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and He will give you everything you need. Matthew 6:33

There’s another one found just a few verses later:

“Keep on asking, and you will receive what you ask for. Keep on seeking, and you will find. Keep on knocking, and the door will be opened to you.” Matthew 7:7

The Bible makes a connection between obedience and love, I want to seek the truth.
So, you and I are going to ASK, SEEK, and KNOCK as we take a closer look at some of the hard questions facing Christians today about obedience and love.

Things like:

Is the Bible the Inspired and inerrant Word of God?

What does it mean to have NO OTHER GODS?

Does God care how I REMEMBER THE SABBATH?

How should I honor my parents when they make me crazy?

And then we’ll look at some of the hard sayings of Jesus like:

“Love your enemies.”

“Why do you keep calling me ‘Lord, Lord!’ when you don’t do what I say?”

And with each post, we’re going to ASK, SEEK, and KNOCK.

We will…

  1. ASK – Ask hard questions and ask God to reveal His truth and wisdom to us.
  2. SEEK – Seek answers by searching through Scripture.
  3. KNOCK – Knock down lies and walk through the door Jesus opens into freedom.

You and I serve an awesome and amazing God!

I want everyone to know, love, and trust Him.

Yet, for some reason, followers of Jesus are represented as judgmental and hypocritical.

Maybe we can change that!

Shouldn’t we try?!

This is important…

I’m on this journey with you!

I don’t have all the answers. I will never preach at you. I will only ask questions with you and I hope you’ll join me as we search for answers together. You see, although you and I may not have the answers now … we know the One who does and I believe, He wants us to know them.

Also…

I need your help with a couple of things and would love to hear from you…

I want to know your hard questions. What do you want to talk about?

And… I want to know your stories about the ways God is revealing the importance of loving Him through obedience.

Why You Need to Seek the Truth About Obedience and Love by Deb Wolf @ Counting My Blessings
Why seeking the truth about obedience and love is important to me…

I spent much of my life trying to be a “good girl.” I obeyed the rules and wore myself out trying to please God and people.

More recently, I’ve realized that some of the rules I was trying to obey were based on tradition not necessarily God’s will as He revealed it through His Word.

I want to know the difference. I want to know what’s important and what isn’t. Don’t you?

Jesus said:

Those who accept my commandments and obey them are the ones who love me. And because they love me, my Father will love them. John 14:21

“All who love me will do what I say. My Father will love them, and we will come and make our home with each of them. Anyone who doesn’t love me will not obey me. And remember, my words are not my own. What I am telling you is from the Father who sent me.” John 14:23–24

And He promised:

“I am leaving you with a gift — peace of mind and heart. And the peace I give is a gift the world cannot give. So don’t be troubled or afraid. John 14:27

I love Jesus. I want to know His commands and obey them.

And…

I want people to see the blessings of Jesus in my life and want what I have.

I want them to know the blessings of loving Jesus, too.

Are you ready to ASK hard questions, to SEEK God’s will, and KNOCK on the door that Jesus will open … the one that leads to blessed freedom, joy, peace, love, and so much more?

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5 Verses to Pray that will Bless Your Day

It's not easy to live one day at a time. There 5 prayers will bless your day and help you trust God's will for today!

I had no idea how many of you, like me, struggle to live one day at a time. Trusting and following God’s will for today without dwelling on the past or the future may be one of our greatest challenges. 

Truthfully, I shouldn’t have been surprised! 

I don’t know anyone over the age of five who hasn’t occasionally experienced feelings of regret and worry. If you throw in a little selfishness and the desire for instant gratification … well, that starts even younger, doesn’t it?

Your reactions to  5 Things that will Help You Live within God’s Will Today reminded me again that one day at a time living doesn’t align well with our sinful human natures.

We don’t really want to repent and forgive.
And worry comes so easily.
We love God but obedience is His will can be hard.
And loving imperfect people … well, I don’t even have to explain that one.
Keeping an eternal perspective isn’t easy either. 

These things aren’t part of our natural human nature…

But when you and I follow them they make every day better!

God is like that, isn’t He?

He gives us His commands because He knows that when we follow them we will enjoy more peace and joy in general and our relationships will be strengthened and blessed.

The question is — How do you and I get to the place where living within God’s will one day at a time becomes second nature even if it’s not in our human nature?

I believe it begins with prayer followed by trust and obedience.

So, today … let’s pray and bless your day! 

5 Verses to Pray that will Bless Your Day

Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. #Prayer #Blessed #Faith

Psalm 118:24

This is the day the Lord has made.
We will rejoice and be glad in it. 

Father, Help me remember this day is a precious gift from You. Whatever this day brings, You are with me. You promise to give me strength when I’m weak and courage when I’m afraid. (Deuteronomy 31:6) Please help me “Be still.” I want to know You better. I want to obey Your will as You reveal it to me. I need more of You! Please give me everything I need to trust Your love and follow wherever You lead. By the power of Your Spirit, help my attitude. May I live each day with joy and gladness in ways that bring You glory. Amen.

Philippians 3:13

I focus on this one thing:
Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead.

Father, it can be so hard not to look back. The enemy hisses reminders of my past and I cower in shame and regret. But by Your grace, I am forgiven! Yes, the moment I repented through Jesus, I became clean, healed, and whole. Through Jesus, I am set free. I am Your child. I have Your Spirit of Truth living within me. Please help me forgive others as I have been forgiven. May I let go of past hurts that I might enjoy the fruit of Your spiritual blessings today. 

Father, thank you for speaking Your will to me through Your Spirit and Your Word. Thank you for hearing my prayers. Thank you for giving me everything I need to follow You today. Amen. 

Philippians 4:6

Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything.
Tell God what you need, and thank Him for all He has done. 

Father, I’ve wasted so much precious time worried and fearful. Forgive me. I lay my burdens at the foot of the cross. You have shown me Your grace, mercy, and love countless times. Remind me of all You have done in the past. 

Thank you for Your still small voice that said, “You have no idea of all the ways I’ve protected you.” Even in what you allow, Your hand of protection is with me. When I remember all the times you have walked through valleys beside me … I have nothing to fear. You will give me everything I need when I need it! I will trust in You and I won’t be worried or afraid of tomorrow. Amen. 

Colossians 3:23

Work willingly at whatever you do, as though you
were working for the Lord rather than for people. 

Father, I need Your help to do today well. I love my people … the ones You have given to me. But Lord, I’m tired. People are exhausting! That is no surprise to You though, is it?

Help me put You first today. Help me love You best.

By Your grace, help me know when to say “yes” and when to say “no.” Please help me love my people as You wish. Keep me from getting in the way of the things You are doing in their lives. Keep me from setting myself up as a “small g” god in their lives. Forgive me. 

Please Father, may people see You in me. More than anything I want them to know, love, and trust You completely through faith in Your Son, Jesus. Amen. 

5 Verses to Pray that will Bless Your Day by Deb Wolf @ Counting My Blessings

Hebrews 13:6,9

So, we can say with confidence,
“The Lord is my helper, so I will have no fear.
What can mere people do to me?”
Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever. 

Father, “faith shows the reality of what we hope for; it is the evidence of things we cannot see.” Hebrews 11:1 and “this truth gives them confidence that they have eternal life, which God—who does not lie—promised them before the world began.” Titus 1:2

Because of Jesus, I have not only the hope of eternal life, I have confidence. Because of Jesus I am forgiven and have nothing to fear. Because of Jesus who is the same yesterday, today, and forever … I have everything I need to live one day at a time. Because of Jesus – this is a day to rejoice and be glad! In His name, I pray. Amen. 

I’m praying for you today, my friend! May you live today with the joy and gladness that is found in Jesus. 

He is with you. You are loved more than you know.

You have all you need to live this day! 

Okay, now it’s time for…

This Week’s Friday Favorites

Highlights from the Week!


You are the God Who Sees Me

by Tiffiney Holmes

@ Welcome Home

You are the God Who Sees Me by Tiffiney Holmes @ Welcome Home

 Life of Harmony – Establishing the Melody

by Emily Wood

@ Splashes of Joy

Life of Harmony - Establishing the Melody by Emily Wood @ Splashes of Joy


Finding Answers in the Midst of Suffering

by Leslie Newman

@ Journey to Imperfect

Finding Answers in the Midst of Suffering by Leslie Newman @ Journey to Imperfect
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Faith ‘n Friends Link Party

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When You Need to Know God’s Will for Today

You have been given a gift of 24 hours. What does God want you to do with it? What is God's will for today?

Some days I get up and I’ll admit, I’m thinking big picture wondering what God wants me to do with however many years I have left? 

But most of the time, I just want to get through today. 

This is the day the Lord has made. We will rejoice and be glad in it.  Psalm 118:24

Rejoice, be glad, and live today. 

Sounds simple, doesn’t it?

If only I could do that consistently. 

I worry about the mess I made yesterday and the possibilities of tomorrow even though Jesus said…

So don’t worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will bring its own worries. Matthew 6:34a

Did you know the verse before is the what we should do instead of worrying? And it’s my verse of the year…

Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and He will give you everything you need. Matthew 6:33

Seek God’s will for today and live! 

Why is that so much harder to do than it is to say? Because I’m prone to second-guessing yesterday and fretting about tomorrow. 

I want to do better. 

I want to seek God’s will and live today. 

That’s it! So, I’m fleshing it out and getting specific. 

When You Need to Know God’s Will for Today

 

You have been given a gift of 24 hours. What does God want you to do with it? What is God's will for today?

I need to start with the following… 

1. Let go of yesterday!

♥ Ask God to forgive my sins, failures, mistakes, and messes of the past.
♥ Forgive the people whose sins, failures, mistakes, and messes have hurt me.

I focus on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead. Philippians 3:13

On my own, whew, it’s hard to let go of yesterday … but with God’s help, I can do His will even when it’s hard. 

2. Don’t worry about tomorrow!

I know worry robs me of today’s peace and joy, and truthfully it doesn’t improve tomorrow at all! I can’t live today well if I’m fretting about tomorrow. 

“If you want to be happy, do not dwell in the past, do not worry about the future, focus on living fully in the present.” ~ Roy T. Bennet

Okay – being free of guilt and worry is a great start… what else does God want for my day – today?

3. Love Him – Heart, Soul, Mind, and Strength 

But what does that mean? How do I make that more than just words?

♥ Heart – I will make God my heart’s desire.
♥ Soul – I will trust God and surrender my will (attitudes and intentions), my emotions, my thoughts and feelings, and my body to the truth of His Word.
♥ Mind – I will use my knowledge, my reason, and intellect to know God better each day.
♥ Strength – I will honor God with my abilities, my resources, my service, and the way I love the people around me.

You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, all your mind, and all your strength. Mark 12:30

4. Love Others

Love your neighbor as yourself. Luke 10:27b

I believe God wants us to serve Him right where we are. That doesn’t me we can’t pursue new goals or move toward new opportunities.

But today…

You and I should simply do what He has given us to do. Be the best spouse, parent, child, coworker, neighbor, and citizen we can be. We’re not called to “do it all.” We’re called to do our best and love the people in front of us.

For me, that often has more to do with my attitude than my actions; so, I need to remember…

Work willingly at whatever you do, as though you were working for the Lord rather than for people. Colossians 3:23

When You Need to Know God's Will for Today by Deb Wolf @ Counting My Blessings

And do it…

5. All with an Eternal Perspective

I believe keeping an eternal perspective is the hardest part because everything else is right in front of us. 

The messes I need to confess and forgive, the problems I worry about, the challenges that keep me from loving and serving well, and … well, you get the idea.

Life is hard! 

Which is why you and I need an eternal perspective.

Most of the hard things of life lose their power when I ask myself a few important questions:

Will this matter ten years from now?

Will I even remember next year?

What is God’s view of today’s trouble? How does He want to use this in my life?

What do I need to do to live this moment for God’s glory?

It’s funny my attitude changes when I turn my focus from the problem to the problem Solver – to God Himself.

Two verses keep running through my heart and my head. 

Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek His will in all you do, and He will show you which path to take. Proverbs 3:5–6

Whatever this day brings, good, bad, or somewhere in between, I don’t have to face it alone. God invites you and me to trust Him, to turn to Him, to ask, seek, and knock. He knows the way. 

He is the way. He is eternal, the First and Last … the beginning and the end. And He’s given us a glimpse of His eternal plan so we can live today with His eternal perspective. 

You and I can live today without guilt – when we know we are forgiven; without resentment – when we forgive; without worry – when we trust God’s promises for the future; with love – when we focus on the love He gives us to share with others. 

It’s just a better way to live. 

Today is a new day. A beautiful gift. It holds 24 hours of opportunities, choices, and attitudes. God has given us everything we need to live it for Him. It is precious and full of hope and promise. 

I want to make today the best day possible; after all, it’s a one of a kind opportunity.  24 hours, 1,440 minutes, 86,400 breath receiving seconds. 

I want to live it for God and for His glory! 

I want to…

Love God and His people, all of them.

Know God and make Him known.

Trust Him, seek His will, and follow where He leads.

So, with His help, I will…

1. Repent and forgive.
2. Don’t worry.
3. Love God.
4. Love my people.
5. Keep an eternal perspective. 

That’s it! God’s will for today! 

What do you think? What is God’s will for living one day at a time?

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5 Verses to Pray When You Want More of Jesus

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“He is a portion that exactly and directly suits the condition of the soul. The desires of the soul, and the necessities of the soul, and the wants of the soul, and the longings of the soul, and the prayers of the soul.

The soul can crave nothing, nor wish for nothing, but what is to be found in Christ. He is light to enlighten the soul, wisdom to counsel the soul, power to support the soul, goodness to supply the soul, mercy to pardon the soul, beauty to delight the soul, glory to ravish the soul, and fullness to fill the soul.” ~ Thomas Brooks

More of Jesus

There is nothing our souls need more than Jesus. 

Nothing you and I can wish for or crave can fulfill us more than a relationship with Jesus. 

Yet, even though you know that truth, if you’re like me, you are still so easily distracted and discouraged by life. 

So many of you tell me how you are struggling with discouragement. 

It is said that discouragement is caused by the following:

  • Fatigue
  • Failure
  • Frustration
  • Fear

Wow, I agree with that list! 

When I’m tired. When I’ve made a mess of things. When everyone and everything is getting on my last nerve. When I focus on “what ifs” and “what could be’s” … yep, then I’m in danger of becoming discouraged! 

So, when my soul is distracted or discouraged I need more of Jesus, the One “who exactly and directly suits the condition of my soul!”

5 Verses to Pray When You Want More of Jesus

When I'm distracted and discouraged, I need more of Jesus. Praying these five verses helps...

Jesus answered,
“I am the Way, and the Truth and the Life.
No one comes to the Father except through me.
John 14:6

Dear Jesus, thank you! You not only show us the way to the Father, You ARE the way to the Him. You not only show us the truth, You ARE the Truth. And yes, You ARE Life itself.

Please forgive me for being so shortsighted. I am so easily distracted and discouraged by what’s in front of me. I need more of You, Lord. Help me focus on who You are even more than what You do. Give me an eternal perspective as I live out this day. Guide me by the power of Your Spirit. Amen. 

We do this by keeping our eyes on Jesus,
the champion who initiates and perfects our faith.
Because of the joy awaiting Him, He endured the
cross, disregarding its shame. Now He is seated
in the place of honor beside God’s throne.
Think of all the hostility He endured from sinful
people; then you won’t become weary and give up.
Hebrews 12:2-3

O Jesus, I want to keep my eyes on You. Your love. Your life. Your sacrifice. Your glory! Thank you is not enough. Praise is just the beginning. You took my punishment to give me life. You are my future and my hope. With You, I will not grow weary and I will not give up. By the power and with the help of Your Spirit, I will live today for Your glory. Amen. 

There is salvation in no one else!
God has given no other name under heaven
by which we must be saved. 
Acts 4:12

Your name alone, dear Jesus, is the promise of salvation. You fulfilled every prophecy and promise. You are my Savior, my Redeemer, my Lord. When I’m tempted by all the world has to offer, guard me by the power of Your Spirit. When I’m discouraged, remind me of Your heavenly promises. By Your grace, grant me the spiritual blessings of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Thanks and praise now and forever. Amen. 

If you openly declare that Jesus is Lord and believe
in your heart that God raised Him from the dead,
you will be saved. For it is by believing in your
heart that you are made right with God, and it is
by openly declaring your faith that you are saved.
Romans 10:9–10

Lord, I believe. Please give me courage and strength to trust You completely even when I can’t see what you are doing. Help me surrender every distraction and discouragement to You.

Help me tell the story of all the ways You have delivered me and made Yourself known in my life. You forgive each sin and heal my heart. You restore me when I’m broken and give me courage and strength to follow where You lead. You meet every need and fill me with hope. You are my promise and I give you my all. Amen. 

5 Verses to Pray When You Want More of Jesus by Deb Wolf @ Counting My Blessings

Therefore, God elevated Him to the place of highest honor
    and gave Him the name above all other names,
that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow,
    in heaven and on earth and under the earth,
and every tongue declare that Jesus Christ is Lord,
    to the glory of God the Father.
Philippian 2:9-11

Dearest Jesus, You are the name above all names.  The glory of the Father in human form. People instinctively flatten before You when You reveal Your glory. And yet, when You lived here among people, You claimed no glory of Your own.

Jesus, thank you for showing us the Father’s perfect love. You are Lord of all. You are my Lord and Savior. Help me fulfill my heart’s desire to humbly bow before You and boldly declare Your Lordship every day of my life. Thank you, Lord Jesus. Amen. 

What verse do you pray when you’re distracted and discouraged and you need more of Jesus?

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What is the One Word You Need to Explain Your Faith?

What if someone asked you to explain your faith in one word. What would it be?

I recently wrote the following about my faith:

If I’m wrong and there is no God, if Jesus isn’t the Way, Truth, and Life … I wouldn’t change a thing. 

My life has been full of hope, unexpected joy, impossible to understand peace, indescribable strength when I needed it most, and miraculous healing. I’m blessed. My life is good.

And if I get to the end of my life and I discover there is no life after this one … I can’t imagine having lived my life any other way. The things I chose to sacrifice out of obedience to God protected me from so many problems and potential consequences. I didn’t miss out on a thing.

You and I just remembered and celebrated Jesus life, death, and resurrection as people of faith.

That’s what we call ourselves, isn’t it?

People of faith.

But what exactly does that mean? How would you and I explain our faith?

Or simply put…

If someone asked you to describe or explain your faith in one word what would you say?

Stop for a minute … what words come to mind?

If you have your word or two in mind, keep reading and see if your word is on my list.

Words that Can Help You Explain Your Faith

Hope

Worship Christ as Lord of your life. And if someone asks about your hope as a believer, always be ready to explain it. 1 Peter 3:15

Peace

Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank Him for all He has done. Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:6–7

Grace

God saved you by His grace when you believed. And you can’t take credit for this; it is a gift from God. Salvation is not a reward for the good things we have done, so none of us can boast about it. Ephesians 2:8–9

Truth

Jesus said to the people who believed in Him, “You are truly my disciples if you remain faithful to my teachings. And you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” John 8:31–32

And each of those words describes my faith but there truly is only one word that explains the source of my hope, peace, grace, and truth.

What if someone asked you to explain your faith in one word. #CountingMyBlessings

What is the One Word You Need to Explain Your Faith?

Jesus

When Rev and I talked about this the other night his first reaction took me back to my years of teaching five to eight-year-old students in school.

I know you’ve been there … listening to a children’s message at church or teaching a Sunday School class and the answer to every and any question is Jesus! 

Maybe the children are right. Maybe we should rest there.

Jesus is the answer to every question.

Think about it.

Jesus is … God, Savior, Christ, Redeemer, Deliverer, The Word made Flesh, King of kings and Lord of lords, the Resurrection and the Life, the Prince of Peace, and Yahweh.

My faith is in Jesus.

I believe He is the Way, the Truth, and the Life.

The Apostle’s Creed written by Roman Christians in 180 AD to preserve what the Apostles taught says the following about Jesus…

I believe in Jesus Christ, God’s only Son, our Lord.
He was conceived by the Holy Spirit
and born of the Virgin Mary.
He suffered under Pontius Pilate,
was crucified, died, and was buried.
He descended into hell.
On the third day, He rose again.
He ascended into heaven,
and is seated at the right hand of the Father.
He will come again to judge the living and the dead.

And Martin Luther wrote this in 1529 as further explanation of the 2nd Article of the Creed:

I believe that Jesus Christ, true God, begotten of the Father from eternity, and also true man, born of the Virgin Mary, is my Lord, who has redeemed me, a lost and condemned creature, purchased and won [delivered] me from all sins, from death, and from the power of the devil, not with gold or silver, but with His holy, precious blood and with His innocent suffering and death, in order that I may be [wholly] His own, and live under Him in His kingdom, and serve Him in everlasting righteousness, innocence, and blessedness, even as He is risen from the dead, lives and reigns to all eternity. This is most certainly true.

And the Bible says the following about Jesus:

So the Word became human and made His home among us. He was full of unfailing love and faithfulness. And we have seen His glory, the glory of the Father’s one and only Son. John 1:14

Let us look only to Jesus, the One who began our faith and who makes it perfect. He suffered death on the cross. But He accepted the shame as if it were nothing because of the joy that God put before Him. And now He is sitting at the right side of God’s throne. Hebrews 12:2 (NCV) 

My old self has been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me. So I live in this earthly body by trusting in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me. Galatians 2:20

Those are just a few specific verses. The Bible itself from beginning to end points to Jesus  – the One who began our faith and who makes it perfect. 

Jesus – the only word I need to explain my faith.

I wonder if we tend to make sharing our faith too complicated with too many words. We want to walk a person to the gates of heaven in one brief conversation.

Going forward, I want to go back to childlike faith.

Faith that simply speaks the name of…

Jesus!

And if I’m asked for more, and I hope I am, I will tell my story of how Jesus changed my life.

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John Piper wrote…

Consider Jesus. Know Jesus. Learn what kind of Person it is you say you trust and love and worship. Soak in the shadow of Jesus. Saturate your soul with the ways of Jesus. Watch Him. Listen to Him. Stand in awe of Him. Let Him overwhelm you with the way He is.

And my faith prayer lately has been the chorus of Natalie Grant’s new song, More Than Anything:

Help me love the Healer,
more than the healing.
Help me love the Savior,
more than the saving.
Help me love the Giver,
more than the giving.
Help me love You, Jesus.
More than anything.

What one word, what one name … explains my faith?

Jesus!

There is salvation in no one else! God has given no other name under heaven by which we must be saved. Acts 4:12

One word.

One name.

Have you ever asked yourself, how would I explain my faith in just one word?

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7 Prayers Inspired by Jesus Words on the Cross

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It’s hard to think about the reality of Jesus’ suffering and death on the cross.

I’ll never forget the first time I watched The Passion of the Christ. I’d read Scripture and knew the story well but it was always easier to imagine the scene through cleaned up artwork and Sunday School drawings.

I don’t want to let myself settle for images that make me feel better. So I’m taking this week to spend more time at the foot of the cross and humbly pray to the God who suffered pure torture to endure the punishment I deserved.

I would love it if you would join me.

7 Prayers Inspired by Jesus Words on the Cross

Jesus said, “Father, forgive them,
for they don’t know what they are doing.”
Luke 23:34

Dearest Jesus, It’s hard for me to picture myself in the crowd shouting, “Crucify Him!” I want to believe I would have stood with John, your mother, and Mary Magdeleine … but I know the truth. You hung on that cross because of me. My sins condemned you and yet, through pain, You asked Your Father to forgive me. I am humbled and overwhelmed by Your gracious love. Thank you isn’t enough. Today, I give you my all as I prayerfully ponder how You gave Your all for me. Amen.

And Jesus replied, “I assure you,
today you will be with me in paradise.”
Luke 23:43

Jesus, Like those being crucified beside You, I deserve to be punished for my sins. I want to believe my sins aren’t that bad but all sin, any sin, my sin deserves to be punished. Yet, You not only suffered my punishment but You promise me a forever future with You in heaven. I can’t earn it. I don’t deserve it. You simply give it. Once again, I fall at the foot of the cross asking for Your forgiveness through tears of gratitude and a heart full of love and look forward to the day when You will come and take me home to paradise. (John 14:3) Thank you, Jesus! Amen.

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When Jesus saw His mother standing there
beside the disciple He loved, He said to her,
“Dear woman, here is your son.”
And He said to this disciple, 
“Here is your mother.”
And from then on this disciple
took her into his home.
John 19:26–27

Jesus, Your tender words to Your mother and John touch my heart and remind me that You care about every detail of our lives. Your ministry included feeding the hungry and healing the sick both physically and spiritually. You gave sight to those who could not see and sound to those who could not hear. Nothing in my life goes beyond Your care and compassion. Lord Jesus, when my days are hard and I feel like no one understands … You do! You’ve been here. You’ve lived it. Thank you, for encouraging me to bring it all my struggles to You and for offering to help and comfort me in times of need. Amen.

Jesus called out with a loud voice,
“Eli, Eli, lema sabachthani?” 
which means 
“My God, my God, why have you abandoned me?”
Matthew 27:46 and Mark 15:34

Oh, dearest Jesus, this must have been the most difficult thing to endure. Was this what caused You to sweat drops of blood as You asked the Father to “remove this cup of suffering?” I can’t imagine how it must have felt to anticipate all You knew You would endure.

David prophesied these words generations earlier and like every prophesy promised … You faithfully accomplished it. Jesus, I believe that You are the Christ, the Son of God! I give my life to You. By Your grace, may I live each day for Your glory and proclaim Your name to all who will listen. Amen.

Jesus knew that His mission was now finished,
and to fulfill Scripture He said, 
“I am thirsty.”
John 19:28

Jesus, You spoke these three simple words so that Your people might know and believe You can identify completely with our humanity. You were tempted, yet You never sinned. You experienced life through Your senses just like I do. You laughed and cried. You felt anger, joy, and love. Oh, how You love. Thank you, Jesus, for allowing me to know that nothing in my life is beyond Your understanding. When I am sad and lonely, rejected and betrayed, uncomfortable and tired … You understand. I can come to You, knowing You will help me carry my burden of the day, big or small. Amen.

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He said,
“It is finished!” 
Then He bowed His head and gave up His spirit.
John 19:30

Was this Your victory shout! Jesus, You did everything You came to do. You testified to the truth. Proclaimed the Good News. Fulfilled the Law and the words of the Prophets. You showed people how very much God loves them. You gave Yourself as a sacrifice to save people from their sins. And You died to give God’s people eternal life. I can imagine You gathering every bit of strength You had to shout, “It is finished!” Victory! The plan promised in the Garden was accomplished and by Your grace … it is well with my soul. Thank you! Amen.

Then Jesus shouted, 
“Father, I entrust my spirit into your hands!” 
And with those words, He breathed His last.
Luke 23:46

No one took Your life from You. You gave it willingly for sinners … like me. Perfect love! Please Jesus, help me to love like You. My heart’s desire is to “love You, my God, (Father, Jesus, and Holy Spirit) with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength. I want to love my neighbor as I love myself.” I want to obediently follow where You lead and carry out Your will as You reveal it to me. I believe I can do whatever You ask of me when You give me strength. (Philippians 4:13)

Lord Jesus, I surrender this day to You. Help me. Strengthen me. And by Your grace, give me all I need to live this day for Your glory. Amen.

As I read and reread Jesus words on the cross, I am overwhelmed by His love.

Whatever is going on in your life today … give it to Jesus. He wants you to know that by God’s grace nothing in the world can separate you from God’s love given in and through Jesus.

Paul wrote:

I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love. No power in the sky above or in the earth below—indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 8:38–39

It’s so easy for me to let busyness distract me and problems discourage me but today I’m setting everything aside to sit at the foot of the cross. I’m listening to Jesus and resting His miraculous life-giving grace.

How blessed we are to KNOW that as we focus on Jesus suffering and death – Sunday is coming. His resurrection is a reality and so is ours!

Additional Posts for Holy Week and Easter

Jesus and How to Know if You Have Righteous Anger

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An Important Good Friday Question – How Do You See Jesus?

15 of the Best Quotes to Celebrate Jesus’ Resurrection

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How Many Facebook Friends will You Have in Heaven?

Have you ever wondered if there will be technology in heaven? #BlessingBloggers #Heaven #Blessings

One of our pastors recently asked us — “What do you think heaven will be like?”

What do you think?

There are a few things we know from Scripture about The New Heaven and the New Earth.

He [Jesus] will take our weak mortal bodies and change them into glorious bodies like His own, using the same power with which He will bring everything under His control. Philippians 3:21

Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth for the old had disappeared … I heard a loud shout from the throne, saying, “Look, God’s home is now among His people! He will live with them, and they will be His people. God himself will be with them. He will wipe every tear from their eyes, and there will be no more death or sorrow or crying or pain. All these things are gone forever.” Revelation 21:1, 3–4

Jesus said, “Don’t let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God, and trust in me.   There are many rooms in my Father’s house; I would not tell you this if it were not true. I am going there to prepare a place for you. John 14:1–2 (NCV)

Wow! I can only imagine! Right?!

Maybe you’ve imagined streets of gold, a city wall made of Jasper, Onyx, Sapphire, and Emerald, and gates made from a single pearl. Maybe you think about walking and talking with Jesus or seeing the splendor of God Himself.

Amazing and awesome!

Some people believe heaven will be the restoration of paradise, like the Garden of Eden.

I’ll admit when I have stopped to think about heaven, I tend to focus on being with Jesus and my loved ones without pain and suffering. I don’t spend much time thinking about the rest; although, I do imagine us living well in community with things to do. And although I believe our lives will be full of joyful gratitude and praise, I don’t believe heaven will be an eternal church service. (Picture me smiling here.)

So, why the title…

Have you ever wondered if there will be technology in heaven? #BlessingBloggers #Heaven #Blessings

How Many Facebook Friends will You Have in Heaven?

Because our pastor’s question prompted a thought I’d never had before.

Will we have technology in heaven?

Think about it … for thousands of years no one would have even considered the possibility but now maybe you wonder. I mean really, if you’re like me, you can’t imagine a day without technology. In fact, I’ll be honest with you, I get a little cranky when the I can’t get online. And what about phones, television, microwaves … well, you get the idea.

So, I asked Rev and my dad what they thought about technology in heaven.

And their immediate reaction was an absolute – “NO!”

They both felt that although there are some good things about living in the age of instant information and entertainment, they didn’t believe it would be part of God’s new heaven and earth.

Which took my “stream of consciousness” brain to the idea for this post and I started wondering about the vast amount of time I spend on things that are so very temporary.

I thought about all the time I spend on social media and asked myself – WHY?

Don’t get me wrong, I love social media and…

I believe there are a lot of good things happening on the various platforms.

  • Bloggers use social media to let people know about their latest posts or projects.
  • Followers of Jesus use it to share their faith and glorify God.
  • We use it to ask for prayer and to tell people we are praying for them.
  • And make close friends in parts of the world we may never visit in person.

But it’s also a place where we can…

  • Boast and brag.
  • Impress and persuade.
  • Compare and criticize.
  • Judge and bully.
  • Reject and block.
  • And that only touches the surface – right?

Honestly, I don’t have any real answers … I’m not even sure what I think but I do believe God wants me to stop and think about it!

So, I’m going to take some time to pray and wonder… if technology and social media aren’t things God wants for my eternity, are they things I should be making so important now?!

I want to question the tension between using technology and social media for God’s glory and the possibility of it becoming an idol for self-glorification.

I need to consider whether or not I’m spending too much time on the unimportant and not enough time on the eternal because…

Heaven is real! 

One of my favorite verses is John 14:3

Jesus said, “When everything is ready, I will come and get you so that you will always be with me where I am.”

Jesus, the Way, Truth, and Life promises to personally come and take me to live with Him eternally. It’s a promise He’s made for everyone who loves and trusts in Him.

I didn’t give anything up for Lent this year but I am giving up Facebook for Holy Week.

I want to spend the week ahead thinking about heaven and the sacrifice Jesus made to make it possible for you and me to spend eternity there with Him.

What do you think? What is heaven going to be like?

How many Facebook fans you’ll have in heaven?

If the answer is – we won’t have Facebook in heaven…

Then maybe you and I need to do a better job of making Facebook, our cell phones, and all the other technology “idols” we depend on, a little less important here on earth.

A Facebook Fast for Holy Week

If you are part of my Blessing Bloggers group on Facebook, I will be scheduling our daily threads in advance so you can still share your posts and prayers.

I need this break to spend more time with Jesus; so, I won’t be hosting our Link Party next week but I’ll be back here two weeks from today … so excited to catch up with all of you.

I will also be here with my regular Monday posts – have you subscribed yet?

May your Holy Week and Easter celebration be blessed!

Praise God – we have so very much to celebrate!

Okay, now it’s time for…

This Week’s Friday Favorites

Highlights from the Week!

 

When You’re Stuck in a Muddy Pit

by Dianne Thornton

@ Sweeter Than Honey

When You're Stuck in a Muddy Pit by Dianne Thornton


What Does it Mean to Wait Upon God

by Dawn Klinge

@ Above the Waves

What it Means to Wait Upon God by Dawn Klinge


5 Obstacles to Your Time with God

by Esther Dorotik

@ Chosen and Cherished

5 Obstacles to Your Time with God by Esther Dorotik
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Faith ‘n Friends Link Party

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Why You Need to Seek God’s Help When You Worry

Flowers don't worry. Birds don't worry. Maybe you and I need to seek God's help for a better way.

I can’t even begin to tell you about the many nights I’ve spent with eyes wide open, worrying about everything.

Rather than bore you with the details, I hope to bless you a truth I wish I’d not only learned but that I’d applied years ago.

I was a chronic worrier which really isn’t surprising.  Worry is the natural byproduct of fear and I’ve been pretty honest about my struggle with fear. So yes, I worried.

I worried about…

  • Our Children
  • Rev
  • Illness/Injury
  • Death
  • Rejection
  • Life

I worried about the things that happened yesterday … things that might happen tomorrow and everything in between. I worried about things I couldn’t change or control. Seriously, what’s the point of worrying if you can do something?

I was a worry addict and like many addicts, I had to hit bottom before I could accept that worried living—ain’t no way to live!

The Apostle Paul gave us great advice about worry – well, not about worrying but about not worrying.

Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank Him for all He has done. Philippians 4:6

 It sounds simple, doesn’t it?

Don’t worry … go to God, thank Him, and…

Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. Philippians 4:7

But I spent hours praying when I was worried and I still kept worrying.

Paul said, “Then you will experience God’s peace.” Why didn’t I experience God’s peace when I prayed?

Because my prayers were short on faith.

Even though I prayed,”Father, please help me.” I continued to worry because deep down, I believed lies like…

  • My problem is too trivial for God to get involved.
  • My fear is too real, my “what ifs” too great to let go of them.
  • If my worry happened to someone else, it can certainly happen to me.
  • What if God chooses to allow this in my life as a lesson or discipline.
  • I can’t go on if __________.

And then…

Some of the things I’d worried about most often … happened.

All my worrying had not prevented my worries from becoming my reality.

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I had to answer a very important question…

Was I going to trust God completely, not just with my eternal future but with my today and with every other day going forward?

I cried, “Lord, I believe. Help me overcome my unbelief,” and I went searching for promises to hold.

Two of my favorites were verses from Isaiah…

Have you never heard?
    Have you never understood?
The Lord is the everlasting God,
    the Creator of all the earth.
He never grows weak or weary.
    No one can measure the depths of His understanding.
Isaiah 40:28

The depths of His understanding.

The New Century version says – No one can understand how great His wisdom is.
The Message says – He knows everything, inside and out.
The New Life Version says – His understanding is too great for us to begin to know.

He created us. He knows us inside and out. He understands us. He cares about even the tiniest details of our lives. Nothing is too trivial for Him to care and nothing is too big for Him to handle.

The enemy loves to tell us lies. But they are LIES!

The truth is … God loves you. He cares. And if He allows something; well, He has a promise for that, too.

Don’t be afraid, for I am with you.
    Don’t be discouraged, for I am your God.
I will strengthen you and help you.
    I will hold you up with my victorious right hand.
Isaiah 41:10

He will never leave us alone and He will strengthen us.

I was living through something I had worried about for a long time. Something I truly believed would break me forever … it didn’t. I was devastated. Yes, even broken at first, but God was with me. I felt His love and care as I began to feel His strength and help.

Why You Need to Seek God’s Help When You Worry

I’ve learned two important truths about seeking God’s help when I’m tempted to worry.

1. I can and should take any worry to God immediately.

As soon as I start to worry, I go to God.  When “what ifs” start spinning around in my head I remember all God has helped me through in the past.

The enemy loves it when you and I worry because when we’re worried we’re not focused on God and all that He is able to do in our lives.

He loves to murmur, “God can’t. God won’t. God’s holding out on you. You’re on your own.”

It’s the spiritual battle we’re in and it’s real but you and I don’t have to fight it alone … ever!

The Holy Spirit is with us and within us willing and able to provide us with all we need to fight and win every spiritual battle, even our battle with worry.

The Spirit who lives in you is greater than the spirit who lives in the world. 1 John 4:4

God is greater. He has won the ultimate victory and will equip us to fight every battle.

So humble yourselves before God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. James 4:7

We can resist the devil. We don’t have to listen to his murmuring.

I’m trying to get better at that. Better at using the Sword of the Spirit/God’s Word to defeat the enemy’s lies and make him flee.

Which means I need to…

2. Keep growing closer to God through His Word.

Peter wrote:

May God give you more and more grace and peace as you grow in your knowledge of God and Jesus our Lord. 2 Peter 1:2

And Paul wrote:

Just as you accepted Christ Jesus as your Lord, you must continue to follow Him. Let your roots grow down into Him, and let your lives be built on Him. Then your faith will grow strong in the truth you were taught, and you will overflow with thankfulness. Colossians 2:6–7

I need to be in the Word every day. It’s where my roots grow. It’s where lies are replaced with truth and it’s where I get what I need to resist the devil when he tempts us to worry.

I’ve also learned I can’t just not worry. I have to replace not worrying with something else.

What is that something else?

Hope!

Hope in Jesus!

Through Jesus, God met our greatest need. He conquered sin, death, and the power of the devil.

Sin can no longer defeat us. Death is not the end. And by His grace, the devil has no power over us.

We have Jesus and God’s promise…

So God has given both His promise and His oath. These two things are unchangeable because it is impossible for God to lie. Therefore, we who have fled to Him for refuge can have great confidence as we hold to the hope that lies before us. This hope is a strong and trustworthy anchor for our souls. It leads us through the curtain into God’s inner sanctuary. Hebrews 6:18–19

Read that again … slowly!

God has given us His promise. His oath. When we run to Him for refuge He will shelter us. Our hope is secure because God is trustworthy and true and He will give us the everything we need to get through today … we have nothing to worry about. Absolutely nothing!

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I’m guessing if you’re still reading this … you worry too! 

I would love to tell you it’s like flipping a switch … one holy moment where I learned the truth and never worried again.

I can’t.

Please be patient with yourself. It takes time to break free of habitual worry.

But — imagine your life without worry. Imagine doing what you can and trusting God to help you with the rest.

Imagine running to God in prayer, holding onto His promises, trusting His love, and knowing without a doubt that God is always at work in your life for your good and for His glory.

You can do this.

Believe me, if God can deliver this worrier He can deliver you!

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7 Simple Prayers that will Help When You Have No Words

7 Simple Prayers that will help you when you're overwhelmed and don't know what to pray.

Do you ever go into your prayer time at a loss for words?

I can remember times when I felt so overwhelmed by life that I didn’t know where to begin. I wanted to lean into the Lord in prayer but I just had no words.

Since I thought there might be a possibility you occasionally find yourself without words when it’s time to pray, I thought I’d write 7 simple prayers to help us both.

7 Simple Prayers that will Help When You Have No Words

1. Lord, Help me trust You. 

Proverbs 3:5–6

Trust in the Lord with all your heart;
    do not depend on your own understanding.
Seek His will in all you do,
    and He will show you which path to take. 

Father, forgive me. I’m quick to ask my friends for advice and quicker to worry; yet, I’m slow to turn to Your Word or come to You in prayer. Maybe trusting with all my heart is the problem. I’m sorry. I want to surrender myself completely and trust that Your will for me always comes from Your love. Thank you for using this time to remind me just how very much I need You. And I do need You, Lord. Help me, by the power of Your Spirit. Amen.

7 Simple Prayers that will help you when you're overwhelmed and don't know what to pray.

2. Lord, I praise You. 

Psalm 86:12

With all my heart I will praise You, O Lord my God.
    I will give glory to Your name forever,
for Your love for me is very great.
    You have rescued me from the depths of death.

Father, Even if You never did another thing that blessed my life … the amazing gift of Jesus is my everything. You took my punishment and suffered for my sins. You created a beautiful home for us here that is full of wonder. A home so beautiful that we can only begin to imagine the one You describe as our eternal home. Father, I praise You for who You are … the Great, I AM; El Shaddai, Savior, and Lover of my Soul. I will give glory to Your name forever! Amen.

3. Lord, please help my loved one. 

1 Timothy 2:1

I urge you, first of all, to pray for all people. Ask God to help them; intercede on their behalf, and give thanks for them.

Father, I lift up my loved one to You. Please help them. They are hurting and I am anxious for them. This season of their lives is such a heavy burden to carry. I ask that You would remove this illness/problem. I ask that you will heal and restore them. Please Lord, be with them. You promised that You would help us carry our burdens. “Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest.” (Matthew 11:28)  My loved one is weary and needs You. Draw them close by the power of Your love. Amen.

4. Lord, Please forgive me. 

Psalm 86:5

O Lord, you are so good, so ready to forgive, so full of unfailing love for all who ask for your help.

Father, I’m so very sorry. I messed up … again! Forgive me for the countless times I’ve confessed and asked You to forgive this same sin! I try so hard to follow Your will for me. I want desperately to honor You with my life. Please help me. Grant me Your mercy and grace. Cover me with Jesus’ righteousness and grant me the strength I need to reject temptation as I completely trust Your perfect promises. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

5. Lord, please help me forgive _________.  

Ephesians 4:26

And “don’t sin by letting anger control you.” Don’t let the sun go down while you are still angry, for anger gives a foothold to the devil.

Father, You know _________ has gotten on my last nerve. I am so angry! But I don’t have to let my emotions to control me. Feelings are a gift from You and so many of them help me enjoy and experience life. Love, happiness, and enthusiasm make each day better. The truth is, I also experience fear, hate, grief, and anger … feelings that are the result of sin in the world. Please forgive for letting anger control me. Help me, choose my words carefully and by your grace, help us work through this problem with grace and understand. In Jesus name. Amen.

7 Simple Prayers that will Help When You Have No Words

6. Lord, Heal and restore our nation. 

2 Chronicles 7:14

Then if my people who are called by my name will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, I will hear from heaven and will forgive their sins and restore their land.

Oh, Father, our nation needs You. Please forgive us. We sacrifice our children at the altar of selfishness. We have distorted the meaning of freedom and eliminated Your will from so much of our lives. We have turned from Your commands and doubted Your promises. We fail to love our neighbors as You desire. And that’s just the beginning. Help us turn away from all wickedness. Forgive us. Heal us. Bless us with leaders who follow You and by Your grace restore our land. In Jesus name. Amen.

 

7. Lord, Increase my faith! 

Ephesians 3:17

Then Christ will make His home in your hearts as you trust in Him. Your roots will grow down into God’s love and keep you strong.

Lord, by the power of Your Holy Spirit, give me deep roots into Your grace. Thank you for making Your home in my heart. Please help me love You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength. May I study Your Word faithfully and trust Your promises. “Lord, I believe. Please help me overcome my unbelief.” (Mark 9:24) I surrender my life to You Lord. Help me live each day for Your glory. In Jesus name. Amen.

Please feel free to copy these simple prayers as you’d like. Write them in your prayer journal. Post them on your War Room wall.

With the Lord’s help and by His grace … we will lean into Him and pray simple prayers even when life is overwhelming and we can’t find the words.

This Week’s Friday Favorites

Highlights from the Week!

 Above All Else … Guard Your Heart: Identity Collaging

by and @ Crystal Twaddell

Above All Else ... Guard Your Heart: Identity Collaging by Crystal Twaddell

Because Our Stories are More Powerful than Our Shame

by Lisa Murray

@ Peace for a Lifetime
Because our Stories are More Powerful than Our Shame by Lisa Murray


The Quest for Real Rest {Plus a Printable)

by Laura

@ Fantastcally Four

The Quest for Real Rest by Laura @ Fantastically Four


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Faith ‘n Friends Link Party

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The Best Secrets and Advice that Will Help Your Marriage Last

A cute older couple who took some advice to help your marriage last. #BlessingBloggers #CountingMyBlessings #Marriage

And they lived happily ever after.

You read the stories as a little girl. The ones that ended with the beautiful wedding and those six words that stuck in our hearts and filled our dreams.

Walk down the aisle and your good to go.

Right?!

Maybe. Maybe not. Marriage is full of blessings but it also takes lots of work and wisdom.

I’m thankful for the wisdom we received from friends with more experience who mentored our marriage and ministry.

And guess what?

Rev and I celebrated our 46th Anniversary yesterday!

Seriously?! How did that happen?

How did 46 years go by so fast?!

Just for fun, I thought I’d share some of my favorite tips from friends and a few quotes I found out there to help encourage you whether you’ve been married for 5 minutes or 50+ years.

So, I started with the question…

What is the best marriage advice you’ve ever given or received?

And here are their answers.

The Best Secrets and Advice that Will Help Your Marriage Last

What is the best marriage advice you've ever given or received? How to help your marriage last!

I received a wise word on my wedding day from my best friend’s mom. She told me, “Always remember that love is a choice.” Feelings come and go but when I make the choice to love in word or deed (regardless of how I feel), God has always honored it. We reap what we sow, so sow love. – Arabah Joy

“Real love isn’t just a euphoric, spontaneous feeling—it’s a deliberate choice—a plan to love each other for better and worse, for richer and poorer, in sickness and in health.” ~ Seth Adam Smith

 My favorite marriage advice that I ever received was to speak highly of my husband in front of others. We’re a team and I think this is a great way to show that we’re united. Plus, I know it feels good when he speaks highly of me in front of others, so I try to do the same for him. – Dawn Klinge @ Above the Waves

“Let the wife make the husband glad to come home and let him make her sorry to see him leave.” ~ Martin Luther

When I am feeling frustrated or upset with my husband my best practice is to go to prayer and ask God what’s going on inside of ME! The majority of the time it isn’t really about him at all. – Patti Krank @ Old Things New 

“God doesn’t want me to be a ‘fix him’ wife, God wants me to be a ‘love him’ wife.”– Lysa TerKeurst

Don’t be lazy in your relationship.  Remember all those things you used to do when you first met him?  Keep doing them! (Proverbs 20:4)

Do go on dates with him – Dates don’t have to cost anything!  A walk and a picnic is a perfect time to reconnect.  Or, serving dinner in front of the fireplace or adding a few candles turns boring into romantic. (Song of Songs 1:2) – Joan Davis @ The Beauty in His Grip

Most important of all, continue to show deep love for each other, for love covers a multitude of sins. 1 Peter 4:8

1- Talk to each other about your problems instead of everyone else. (My mom turned me away as a young newlywed who wanted to complain about my husband. As a mom now I can imagine how difficult that was.) 2-Never stop laughing with each other. In fact, I tell my girls to keep an eye out for the one who makes them laugh (among other things, of course.) – Christi Gee at The Cheerio Trail

“Great marriages don’t happen by luck or by accident. They are the result of a consistent investment of time, thoughtfulness, forgiveness, affection, prayer, mutual respect, and a rock-solid commitment between a husband and a wife.” ~ Dave Willis

Vulnerability invites vulnerability. Be humble, forgive freely, serve deeply, and laugh together often. – Jennifer Schackelford at Chaos 2 Peace

“A good marriage isn’t something you find; it’s something you make and you have to keep on making it.” ~ Gary Thomas

One of the best things we can do for our marriages is to let go of the small stuff: all those little quirks and things about our husbands that drive us crazy. When we focus instead on our husbands’ positive qualities and express appreciation, it creates a more positive atmosphere for our marriages. – Betsy DeCruz at Faith Spilling Over

Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love. Ephesians 4:2

Give loads and loads of grace. And, when you think you have given enough, give more! (Brush things off. Don’t take offense. Don’t be so sensitive. Assume the best with your spouse – always.) – Melanie Redd

“A Christian marriage is [not] one with no problems or even a marriage with fewer problems. (It may well mean more problems.) But it does mean a life in which two people are able to accept each other and love each other in the midst of problems and fears. It means a marriage in which selfish people can accept selfish people without constantly trying to change them—and even accept themselves, because they realize personally that they have been accepted by Christ.” ~ Keith Miller, Taste of New Wine

Put God first in your marriage, always. Seek wisdom and counsel from the Bible first, older, wiser couples (or a Pastor) second. When you feel like casting blame, ask the Lord to show you how your own sin is contributing to the situation and focus on that. Let the Lord work on the other party involved, just keep praying. God is so good to us when we come to Him and ask Him to be part of our marriage. – Nicki Schroeder @ Showered in Grace

Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. 1 Corinthians 13:4–7

My best advice is simple “never let go.” – Shannon Geurin at Fiercely His

“It’s not the love that sustains the promise, it’s the promise that sustains the love.” – Jefferson Bethke

The best marriage advice we received was the reminder that as husband and wife we are on the same team. That stayed with me so much that now we pass on that advice to our children. Because at the end of the day, as family our team’s goal is to know God and make Him known to others. I’m just happy I get to partner with my husband and children in doing so. I shared 5 tips on making my husband feel significant here: – Marva Smith at Sun Sparkle Shine

The Best Secrets and Advice that Will Help Your Marriage Last by Deb Wolf @ Counting My Blessings

You may be wondering about my favorite “help your marriage last” advice…

It’s simple – never stop flirting! No, not with other people. Only with each other. Remember all those playful little things you said and did while you were dating to get each other’s attention and keep things fun. Don’t stop! Flirting says, “You’re still the one for me!”

But the very best advice that will help your marriage last…

Three are even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken. Ecclesiastes 4:12

Trust the Lord with all your heart, and do not rely on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths smooth. Proverbs 3:5–6

There are countless examples that the 15 to 50-foot walk down the aisle and promised “I dos” are not guarantees of the happily or the ever after. Our marriages need God’s help and direction!

Flirting may be my favorite advice but I believe the true secret that will help your marriage last is . . . stay close to God. We need God’s help to remind us when we forget – how to listen, how to serve, how to work together, how to be patient and kind, how to forgive, how to keep a promise . . . how to love.

A huge thank you to my friends for sharing their best advice.

Now it’s your turn. What’s your favorite “help your marriage last” advice?

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Practical Things to Do When You Just Can’t People

A child walking away because she just "can't people" today! Do you have days like that? Me too! Here's help!

What do you do on those days when you feel like it’s too hard to deal with people.

Nope, you just can’t people today!

Most days are full of people.

You have your family, they’re your HAVE TO people. Your coworkers. The people with whom you do ministry and the random people you cross paths with when you’re out running errands.  People are everywhere!

If you’re like me, you have days when every one of them is getting on your last nerve. Those are the days I wish I could stay in bed and avoid people altogether.

Yes, I have them too!

Days when I’m in a mood and I find everyone frustrating, annoying, agitating, and just plain exhausting.

Admit it, you know you have those days, too!

What do you do when you can’t people? Can’t … nope, you got nothin’ for nobody.

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I have to admit it’s not really what I want to hear on my “I can’t people” days but Paul wrote:

Since God chose you to be the holy people He loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. Make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others. Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds us all together in perfect harmony. And let the peace that comes from Christ rule in your hearts. For as members of one body you are called to live in peace. And always be thankful. Colossians 3:12–15

Yep, like me, you’re thinking … that is so not what I needed right now!

You might even be thinking . . . that’s easy for Paul to say, he didn’t have to put up with my people!

If you’re having one of those days where tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness,  and patience feel impossible, I’d like to offer some practical to-dos that will help you through today and maybe even give you some hope for tomorrow.

Some days it's hard to love your people well ... when you feel like you just "can't people" today!

Practical Things to Do When You Just Can’t People

1. PRAY

I know, it’s always the first thing to do. Isn’t it a blessing to know that God welcomes our prayers even when we’re whining about the annoying people in our lives.

He’s not surprised. He knows about your yesterday and what the rest of today looks like. Oh yeah, tomorrow and the next day too. He knows. Talk with Him, be honest, and get ready to listen. Confess your frustration. Admit you’re exhausted. Ask Him to give you strength and help you love like Jesus. AND ask Him to help you find peace in your chaos.

2. Be Honest

I’m guessing your people love you! Tell them you’re having a bad day.

I like to give Rev fair warning when I’m cranky.

People can’t tell you’re struggling if you don’t tell them and I’ve always believed it’s better to “use my words” than it is to express my full-blown emotions.

It’s okay to ask for help. You might be surprised at the people who would love to help you if they knew you needed a reprieve.

Share each other’s burdens, and in this way obey the law of Christ. Galatians 6:2

3. Be Thankful

Even if you don’t feel like it! Your people are your people for a reason … even when they’re annoying you.

I remember a time early in our marriage when Rev neglected to do something I’d asked . . . again. It wasn’t a big deal. It was just annoying. I was pregnant, hormonal, and very irritated. As I took care of the truthfully unimportant task myself with full-blown annoyance, I heard God’s quiet whisper. “Would you prefer he wasn’t here?”

It wasn’t a threat. Just a question. What’s more important the relationship or being right? It’s a question that still blesses our marriage.

Practical Things to Do When You Just Can't People by Deb Wolf @ Counting My Blessings

4. Forgive Yourself – Forgive Your People

Ask God to forgive you for your less than loving attitude, forgive yourself and then, forgive your people!

I can’t do this one on my own. I need God’s help. When I remember the countless times God has forgiven me and think about the many times my family and friends have forgiven me … even when I don’t feel like it, I can choose forgiveness.

Love prospers when a fault is forgiven, but dwelling on it separates close friends. Proverbs 17:9

5. Do Things to Fill Your Emotional Tank

I am always more easily agitated when I’ve strayed from my normally healthy diet and fail to get enough rest. I also notice that too many hours at the computer makes my body ache.

All those things make it harder for me to be loving and kind.

So, I’m keeping a list of tank-filling things I love to do. Things like: listening to great music, reading a good book, taking a walk, playing with the dog, etc.

What do you do to fill your emotional tank?

Finally – Thank God for His Help

Isn’t it awesome that you and I don’t have to deal with people alone?

God wouldn’t ask us to be merciful, kind, and loving if He were not willing and able to help us.

I love knowing I don’t have to be strong on my own. God promised His all-sufficient grace for every trial. We can lean into His abundant supply any time we need it.

O my Strength, to You I sing praises, for You, O God, are my refuge, the God who shows me unfailing love. Psalm 59:17

Do you ever wonder if there were days when Jesus got tired of dealing with people?

We don’t know.

What we do know is Jesus took time to be alone with His Father, trusting the Father to strengthen Him and give Him everything He needed to accomplish what He came to do.

So, I’m ready. 

With God’s help, I can do this! And you can do it, too!

This Week’s Friday Favorites

Highlights from the Week!

What Billy Graham Means to Me

by Rebekah

@ Ready to be Offered

What Billy Graham Means to Me by Rebekah @ Ready to be Offered

How to Grieve the Losses the World Doesn’t See

by Maree Dee

@ Embracing Life in the Midst of the Unexpected

How to Grieve the Losses the World Does Not See by Maree Dee

What I Need to Remember When My Shoulders Ache

by Carlie Lake

@ From Dust Towards Heaven
What I Need to Remember When My Shoulders Ache by Carlie Lake


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The Important Truth You Need to Know About Guilt

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Guilt.

Everyone has it.

We all have something, maybe multiple somethings, that makes us cringe and want to hide.

I thought about putting a list of examples here but that then I decided it would be a distraction because all that really matters is … what’s on your list.

I know what’s on my list. Some of the items on my list only haunt me occasionally. Others — well, the enemy likes to bring them to mind all the time.

My worst guilt is about something that for years I didn’t even think was a sin. But when the Holy Spirit convicted me with the truth … I was flattened.

And you know what?

The enemy immediately started taunting me with labels working to defeat me with despair.

I hate that, don’t you?

Satan tempts us, entices us to sin and then calls us by the label of the very thing he made seem so appealing earlier.

Liar. Thief. Murderer. Adulterer. Fool. Or something else.

And you and I wear our label like it’s branded on our foreheads. We hate it, but still … we wear it.

Guilt!

It’s nothing new. We’re not the first to experience it.

In fact, let’s go back to where it all started. …

The Garden of Eden. Picture yourself there with me. (Not as an observer but as a participant.)

Visualize the snake hissing and telling you, “God is holding out on you. If He really loved you, He would…”

You know you should walk away, fight him with the truth of God’s Word. You should resist him…

Take the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God. Ephesians 6:17

Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. James 4:7

But this time, you don’t. You listen.

He knows exactly what to say . . . every word you want to hear. He nudges you to take charge of your life and do it your way, to go after what you want even though you know God said “no” or at least “not now.”

You look at the fruit. It looks awesome and you go for it.

She saw that the tree was beautiful and its fruit looked delicious, and she wanted the wisdom it would give her. So she took some of the fruit and ate it. Genesis 3:6

In those first moments, it feels good. You got what you wanted. It’s sweet and it tastes great.

But then, it starts to sour in your mouth and you feel … guilty.

You try to hide as the enemy sneers and snarls shaming you from the background.

But God…

God loves you so much … He immediately comes looking for you. And when He finds you, He shows you the truth.

He’s right. He’s always been right! You should have trusted Him! You should have obeyed Him.

And you know…

You deserve His punishment. You are guilty!

 

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The Important Truth You Need to Know About Guilt

Then in an instant . . . in a heartbeat, God changes the scene for you.

You’re transported to the foot of the cross.

Now you cry out to Jesus, “Lord, forgive me!”

And… it’s done!

All is forgiven.

Your guilt is gone.

God in His grace and mercy removed your guilt and ‘sin’ label and replaced it with words like…

Chosen. Child. Friend. Masterpiece. Treasure. Beloved.

Through Jesus, God calls you His own.

Why? Because you’re good. Because you deserve it. No!

Because He is good! 

Taste and see that the Lord is good. Oh, the joys of those who take refuge in Him! Psalm 34:8

And because God is good, He wants good things for you.

Things like:

Love. Joy. Peace. Patience. Hope. Contentment. And Life with Him Forever.

David wrote in Psalm 32:

Oh, what joy for those whose disobedience is forgiven, whose sin is put out of sight! Yes! What joy for those whose record the Lord has cleared of guilt. v. 1–2

Because of His amazing grace and perfect love God wants to replace your guilt with His the blessings of His better truth!

That through Jesus, you are…

Blameless.

Yet now He has reconciled you to Himself through the death of Christ in his physical body. As a result, He has brought you into His own presence, and you are holy and blameless as you stand before Him without a single fault. Colossians 1:22

Fought for.

What shall we say about such wonderful things as these? If God is for us, who can ever be against us? Romans 8:31

Friend. 

Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If you hear my voice and open the door, I will come in and eat with you, and you will eat with me. Revelation 3:20

Blessed.

I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full. John 10:10

Strengthened. 

 I begged the Lord three times to take this problem away from me. But He said to me, “My grace is enough for you. When you are weak, my power is made perfect in you.” 2 Corinthians 12:8–9

His forever.

There is more than enough room in my Father’s home. If this were not so, would I have told you that I am going to prepare a place for you? When everything is ready, I will come and get you, so that you will always be with me where I am. John 14:2–3

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Through Jesus, your guilt is gone! 

Why should you and I imagine ourselves in the Garden and at the Cross?

Because it’s easy to blame this sinful world for our failures. Or blame Eve and then Adam for messing things up in the first place.

The truth is … you and I don’t sin because we live in a sinful world. We sin because we are sinners who can never be free of the label of guilt and shame on our own.

But God…

God loves so much He wants to take us from the shame of the Garden to the healing of the Cross.

There we stand we are — humble, broken, and in need of forgiveness.

David also wrote in Psalm 32:

I confessed all my sins to You and stopped trying to hide my guilt … And you forgave me! All my guilt is gone. v. 5

The truth about guilt is … you don’t have to carry it one minute longer. You can stand with David and countless other forgiven sinners who joyfully shout, “ALL MY GUILT IS GONE!”

And the next time Satan tries to taunt and shame you, remind him of God’s promises…

I’m forgiven. I belong to Jesus.

So now there is no condemnation for those who belong to Christ Jesus. And because you belong to Him, the power of the life-giving Spirit has freed you from the power of sin that leads to death. Romans 8:1–2

I’m clean. 

If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness. 1 John 1:9

My sin is gone . . . as far as the east is from the west! 

He has removed our sins as far from us as the east is from the west. Psalm 103:12

My guilt is replaced with joy! 

Oh, what joy for those whose disobedience is forgiven, whose sin is put out of sight! Psalm 32:1 and Romans 4:7

So, what do you think?

Are you ready to embrace the truth about guilt?

Stand in the Garden. Fall before the cross. Ask Jesus to forgive you.

Then…

Celebrate! You are guilt-free! You are forgiven.

Through the death of Christ on the cross making atonement for sin, we get a perfect standing before God. That is justification, and it puts us, in God’s sight, back in Eden before sin entered. God looks upon us and treats us as if we had never sinned. ~ A.C. Dixon

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5 Verses to Pray that will Help You Win the Spiritual Battle

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I should have known it would happen. It happens almost every time.

And when I anticipate it, I seem to handle it better.

But this time, I wasn’t paying attention. I wasn’t prepared.

What’s “it?”

A spiritual battle!

I’ve been in a battle ever since I published the post — This is for You – the One Exhausted by Life. 

Seriously, I felt pretty good when I worked on that post and yet, shortly after it went live I felt like I had the weight of the world on my shoulders. I was in a funk.

The funny thing is … my life is good. I don’t have any obvious reasons to feel this heart heaviness.

Sometimes it’s the little things that start the funk. Things like…

Winter going on and on and on. Why in the world can’t the groundhog see his shadow when you’re counting on him?

The news is well, the news.

Fatigue makes it harder to cope with physical and emotional aches and pains.

And sometimes … the enemy just works overtime to steal our joy.

If you can relate … please join me as I pray Scripture against your spiritual battle because this fight needs Holy Spirit help and the full-on armor of God.

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5 Verses to Pray that will Help You Win the Spiritual Battle

Satan is real and he loves to go to war against God’s children. The battle is real but the Good News is … you and I never have to fight alone.

John 10:10

The thief’s purpose is to steal and kill and destroy. My purpose is to give them a rich and satisfying life. 

Father, Satan is at it again. It feels like he’s working overtime trying to discourage me. I need your help. I have so many reasons to be thankful and rejoice and yet, I feel disheartened and bothered. And I don’t know why! It’s easier when I can come to You for help with a specific problem but this time the problem is me and I don’t know what to ask for. Please work on my heart, Father, and help me turn my thoughts to You. Jesus said His purpose was to give me a “rich and satisfying life.” And He has! I am Your child. I have everything I need. Thank you! Amen.

2 Thessalonians 3:3

But the Lord is faithful; He will strengthen you and guard you from the evil one. 

Father, thank you for Your faithfulness. Thank you for Your strength and protection. You are on my side in the battle, fighting for me. Guide and direct me by the truth of Your Word and help me anticipate and prepare for every spiritual battle. And Father, help me obey Your will for me. You are always trustworthy and true. I can count on Your promises. You are with me. I will trust You to arm me with the weapons I need to fight and win this battle. Amen.

Ephesians 6:12–13

For we are not fighting against flesh-and-blood enemies, but against evil rulers and authorities of the unseen world, against mighty powers in this dark world, and against evil spirits in the heavenly places. Therefore, put on every piece of God’s armor so you will be able to resist the enemy in the time of evil. Then after the battle, you will still be standing firm. 

Father, the truth is … I cannot fight this battle on my own. But with the strength and protection You give in and through Your spiritual armor, I am fully equipped. You give the truth, the covering of Jesus’ righteousness, the peace that passes understanding, faith that rejects the enemy’s lies, the promise of an eternal future with You, Your all-powerful life-giving Word, and the Spirit who makes it all work together in my life. Your grace is sufficient. Thank you! Amen.

5 Verses to Pray the will Help You Win the Spiritual Battle by Deb Wolf at Counting My Blessings #SpiritualWarfare #Prayer1 Corinthians 10:13

The temptations in your life are no different from what others experience. And God is faithful. He will not allow the temptation to be more than you can stand. When you are tempted, He will show you a way out so that you can endure. 

Oh Father, how I love this promise. When I am tempted by sin, lies or distractions … You are willing to give me the strength and direction I need to follow You to safety. I face so many unpleasant consequences because I fail to keep my heart and mind focused on You. When the enemy attacks it’s so easy for me to look inward and feel sorry for myself or look at the problem trying to “fix” it. Forgive me! I need You. Help me remember that You faithfully go before me. You stand beside me. You are my rear guard. And Your Spirit is within me. I have everything I need. Amen.

Philippians 4:8

Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise.  

 Father, whatever I allow to fill my mind lives out in my words and actions through my attitude. When I think about things that are true, honorable, pure, lovely, admirable and worthy of praise … I am prepared for the battles that are sure to confront me. Help me, Lord. Strengthen me through Your Word and prayer and help me apply it to my life. Amen.

And finally…

Father, You give me all I need to prepare for the battles ahead. You give me all I need to live with victory. You give me the blessings of hope and joy in Jesus. You give me the power of Your Holy Spirit. With Your help, I am prepared and equipped. As I read through Your Word, I know that even Your most faithful followers struggled with discouragement sometimes. Thank you for Your Word, Your promises, Your help. With You, there is hope and joy! Thank you, Father. In Jesus name. Amen.

I’m so thankful God does not leave us on our own to fight each spiritual battle. What a blessing to know He wants us to pray about everything … the good, the bad, and the random spiritual attack funk.

This Week’s Friday Favorites

Highlights from the Week!

What Hatred Taught Me About Love

by Rachel Lee

@ Be Thee Inspired

What Hatred Taught Me About Love by Rachel Lee at Be Thee Inspired

Seasons

by Katy Watters

@ Single Yet Engaged

Seasons by Katy Watters @ Single Yet Engaged

6 Ways to Improve Your Love Language Deficit

by Beth Steffaniak

@ Messy Marriage

6 Ways to Improve Your Love Language Deficit by Beth Steffaniak @ Messy Marriage

 

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Faith ‘n Friends Link Party

Counting My Blessings

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May your week be blessed with faith, love, and friendship! 

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I always enjoy hearing from you! Please take a minute to say ‘hi’ and share your thoughts in the comments below.

Have you visited the Faith ‘n Friends Link Party Board on Pinterest? It’s a great place to catch up with past posts you may have missed here at the party and/or save them for a future read! If you’d like to become a contributor to my Pinterest Group Boards – email me at deb@debwolf.com with a link to your Pinterest home page.

I’m always looking for stories that will encourage and inspire readers to live in faith, stay faithful in hope, and find joy in loving Jesus and others. If you’re interested in sharing your story here at Counting My Blessings –check out my Contributor Guidelines page. 

And if this article blessed or helped you today — would you share it with someone? Maybe a friend, family member, coworker, or through the links below…

Thank you and God bless!