Happy Christian Should Not be an Oxymoron

Are you happy? Do you want to be?

What are you doing about it?

In 2010, I worked through The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin, and wrote about the experience for Women’s Day Magazine – Happiness Blog.

I loved it.

One rainy afternoon, while riding a city bus, Gretchen Rubin asked herself, “What do I want from life, anyway?” She answered, “I want to be happy”—yet she spent no time thinking about her happiness. ~Gretchen Rubin

Rather than waiting for people or circumstances to make her happy, Gretchen asked the question – can I make positive changes, improve my life, and become happier? She added one change each month for a year. The Happiness Project is an account of her experience. (Find out more about Rubin’s books here.)

I learned something important that year. (I think I knew it before, but I lived it out and learned this absolute truth.)

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Your happiness is up to you.

Abraham Lincoln once said, “Folks are usually about as happy as they make their minds up to be.”

I’m not talking about happiness conquering depression. If you or someone you know suffers with depression (I’ve been there) please talk to your doctor and get counseling. Chemical depression is not overcome by willpower.

But the crankies, orneriness, whining, complaining . . . those are things you can conquer.

The funny thing is . . . as I’ve searched for more information on pursuing happiness most of the sites I’ve found are New Age, Dalai Lama, etc. Except for one I’ll tell you about later.

Why do Christians so often come with a cantankerous label?

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What does happiness mean to you?

Google says – Happiness, gladness or joy is a mental or emotional state of well-being defined by positive or pleasant emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy.

I love the Message translation of Galatians 5:22–23, 25–26

But what happens when we live God’s way? He brings gifts into our lives, much the same way that fruit appears in an orchard—things like affection for others (love), exuberance about life (joy), serenity (peace). We develop a willingness to stick with things (patience), a sense of compassion in the heart (kindness & goodness), and a conviction that a basic holiness permeates things and people (faithfulness, gentleness, & self-control).

Since this is the kind of life we have chosen, the life of the Spirit, let us make sure that we do not just hold it as an idea in our heads or a sentiment in our hearts, but work out its implications in every detail of our lives. That means we will not compare ourselves with each other as if one of us were better and another worse. We have far more interesting things to do with our lives. Each of us is an original.

Choose life. Make positive changes. Stop comparing.

Comparison is the thief of happiness.

It’s impossible if you are comparing yourself, your children, your job, your faith, your experiences, or your stuff to anyone else.

Happiness comes from being who God created you to be. Say it again . . . Happiness comes from being who God created you to be.

Are you happy Do you want to be Here are 5 tips to help you become a happy christian. You will be blessed and be a blessing.

Start today –

Repent of your cranky, ornery, whiney, complaining and comparing behaviors and attitudes.
Ask God to grow spiritual fruit in your life – joy, peace, patience, etc.
Talk about things that make you happy. Ask your family and friends to join you and hold you accountable. Be intentional about it.
Keep a happiness journal. Record every little thing that makes you happy.
Praise and thank God for the gift of happiness.

6. Make up your mind that for you . . . Happy Christian will not be an oxymoron!

Happy Christians Around the Blogosphere

3rd Week in September 2015

Mandy at Motherhood—Ruckus and Rubies

Keeping Our Focus – Motivational Monday

Elizabeth at Guilty Chocoholic Mama
(Don’t you love that name?)

Chocolate-Covered Popcorn…and
5 Other Habits of a (Mostly) Happy Family

As promised – My favorite Happiness Site

Michelle at Realistic Happy

visit her site and stop to read

These 10 Simple Questions Will
Bring You One Step Closer To Happiness

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What Happened? Remember 9/11 and the Need for Prayer

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I remember dates.

Mostly good. Anniversaries of special events. New beginnings. Celebrations. Joys.

But then there are the not so good. The downright terrible. Days we’d like to forget but must remember.

Some dates pull up powerful images. Like a scrapbook of life living inside our heads. Dates. Pictures. Remembrances.

Today we remember.

9/11 Flag of Honor – Remembering those Lost

Most of us remember the moment we heard the news of the attack on our country 14 years ago. We remember standing frozen in front of the television finding the images playing across the screen hard to believe.

Remember 9/11. The things that changed. The losses and pain. We all felt vulnerable. Less secure. Less trusting.

But we rallied together. And in the months following . . . people loved on each other and on this place we call home.

America

I sometimes wonder what has happened in the past 14 years.

When did the decline begin? When did we start noticing our differences over our similarities? When did we turn on each other? When did we get so angry?

And then I wonder . . . what will it take to turn it around.

Some look to leaders believing a “new” Washington will “make America great again.” But I’m not so sure.

Although leadership is important this problem will not be solved in the halls of congress or the oval office.

This is a heart problem that can only be solved on our knees when we drop indignation and put on humility. In prayer with repentance. Surrendering everything to God.

Where our “War Room” pleas lay us open . . . allowing God to change our homes, neighborhoods, office buildings, schools, and churches.

Pray for America

I urge you, first of all, to pray for all people. Ask God to help them; intercede on their behalf, and give thanks for them. Pray this way for kings and all who are in authority so that we can live peaceful and quiet lives marked by godliness and dignity.This is good and pleases God our Savior,who wants everyone to be saved and to understand the truth.For, there is one God and one Mediator who can reconcile God and humanity—the man Christ Jesus.He gave his life to purchase freedom for everyone. 1 Timothy 2:1–6

1. Pray that God will turn hearts and minds back to Him . . . that there will be a revival of faith in our nation.

2. Pray that God will strengthen our families.

3. Pray that God will protect us and give us peace.

4. Pray that God will increase our love for Him.

5. Pray that God will strengthen us to do a better job of loving each other.

6. Pray that God will guard and protect the hearts and minds of our children.

7. Pray that God will give us leaders who will honor and glorify Him.

8. Pray that God will strengthen our churches.

9. Pray that God will help us to care for those in need.

10. Pray that God’s name will be glorified and Jesus professed as Lord and Savior by the power of the Holy Spirit.

We put our hope in the Lord. He is our help and our shield. In him our hearts rejoice, for we trust in His holy name. Let your unfailing love surround us, Lord, for our hope is in you alone. Psalm 33:20–22

Quotes to Inspire

“If we learn nothing else from this tragedy, we learn that life is short and there is no time for hate.”
—Sandy Dahl, wife of Flight 93 pilot Jason Dahl

“We will never forget 911. And neither will future generations. The story, images, and human cost will always conjure up horror and tears but will also forever be identified with stories of incredible bravery, determination, and personal sacrifice.” ~Joe Gandelman

“I will never forget seeing what hate can destroy… I will never forget seeing what love can heal…”
― Steve Maraboli

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2nd Week in September 2015

When You Wish They’d Come With Instructions – Free

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Each child is born with a unique personality, individual talents, and specific abilities. Wouldn’t it be nice if they’d come with instructions too?

I want to tell you about a beautiful princess. She was a daughter of the most awesome King, the King of Forever and Ever. On the day Sarah was born a shout rang out across the land that began a grand celebration.

Sarah’s parents taught her, laughed with her, hugged her, and kissed her. They loved her and helped her prepare to fulfill her purpose as a daughter of the King.

The next part of the ceremony was very special and mysterious. The planting of Sarah’s garden—a garden started from a unique mixture of seeds chosen just for her. No one else had a garden exactly like Sarah’s.

This was to be Sarah’s special place with beautiful beds of flowers to reflect her outer loveliness and represent the beauty of her tender heart. A place to remind her that she was extraordinarily precious to the King.

Sarah’s Garden
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Free 9/4 – 9/6

Sarah’s Garden is a parable for girls of all ages. It tells of the struggle in each of us to flourish in our strengths rather than persisting in our weaknesses.

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You will join Sarah as she deals with confusion and frustration trying to care for her special garden.

Find out who the King sends to help her after the ogre, the nasties, and the “trashy” villagers make a mess of her garden, and discover the thrill she experiences when she learns of her true identity and the fabulous future that awaits her.

Sarah’s Garden
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I wrote Sarah’s Garden in 2008, and dedicated it to my mom, Sarah Eunice, the guardian of my childish heart, and the first caregiver of my garden. A garden planted of personality, talents, and gifts . . . a one of a kind mixture of seeds given by God for His plans and purposes.

Do you ever feel overwhelmed with the responsibility of caring for your young child’s garden? Do you feel anxious as she transitions to caring for that precious garden herself? Do you find yourself frustrated over gardening challenges—your child’s? Your own?

There is hope! And that is the message of Sarah’s garden. The hope of a beautiful garden. Unique. Personal. Beautifully planted by and for the King of Forever and Ever.

I loved writing this story
and would love to give away hundreds of copies this weekend.
Get one for yourself. Tell your friends and family.
Share it on Social Media.

After Sunday – it will go back to its usual price.

One last thing, my friend, Rebecca Mueller was only 12 years old when she created the illustrations for Sarah’s Garden. Share this with any budding artists you know. Encourage them to keep drawing and use those artistic seeds for the glory of the One who made them and loves them more than they can ever imagine.

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Sarah’s Garden

1st Week in September 2015

Debbie at Blogger Loves the King wrote:

Finding Time with God

Kaitlyn Bouchillon at Every Story Matters wrote:

Holy Spirit You are Welcome Here

Ceil Ryan writes at Surrounded by the Spirit –
Connecting Every Day to the Divine

I found myself breathing in deep peace as I read her post:

The Sacred in the Ordinary

Now it’s time for Blessing Counters Link Party

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When You Need to Know God’s Perfect Love

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You've prayed for something forever and you're starting to doubt God's perfect love. That's when He says, Tell them I love them...

Early one Saturday morning I packed my car and drove over the bridge to the other side of the Mississippi River . . . ready to speak to a wonderful group of women, at a beautiful site, about one of my favorite subjects—prayer.

Driving and tapping my fingers on the steering wheel to the beat of one of my favorite tunes . . . I felt the nudge to ask the Lord a question, “What is the one thing You want me to tell these women today? What do you want them to hear?”

And my heart heard, “Tell them I love them.”

I thought, “Really, Lord, we know You love us. Isn’t there anything else?”

And my heart heard, “Someone in that room has been praying for a long time and is doubting my love, tell them I love them.”

Toward the end of my presentation I shared the conversation with the group.

Later as I talked with friends a woman approached me and said, “God told you that for me . . . I know He was speaking directly to me!”

That happened almost 8 years ago. This week, God reminded me with another nudge to my spirit saying, “Tell them I love them.”

So today I’m here to tell you…

It doesn’t matter what you’re going through, waiting on, or praying about – God loves you.
It doesn’t matter what you’ve done or what you’ve failed to do – God loves you.
It doesn’t matter when you were last in a church, lifted your Bible, or fell to your knees in prayer – God loves you.
It doesn’t matter what the people think about you – God loves you.

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Not because of who you are, but because of who He is and whose you are.

God’s perfect love for you is unconditional, faithful, holy, everlasting, and personal.

You've prayed for something forever and you're starting to doubt God's perfect love. That's when He says, Tell them I love them..

David said the following about God’s love:

Your unfailing love is better than life itself; how I praise you! Psalm 63:3

Your unfailing love is wonderful. Psalm 69:16

Your unfailing love is higher than the heavens. Psalm 108:4

And Paul said:

May you have the power to understand, as all God’s people should, how wide, how long, how high, and how deep His love is. May you experience the love of Christ, though it is too great to understand fully. Then you will be made complete with all the fullness of life and power that comes from God. Ephesians 3:18–19

We have distorted the idea of love believing it has to do with feelings and approval. But perfect love does not always give warm fuzzies nor does it always approve.

You've prayed for something forever and you're starting to doubt God's perfect love. That's when He says, Tell them I love them.

Perfect Love Does…

Want what is best, what is true, what is caring and compassionate.

Perfect Love is…

Willing to wait. Willing to give freedom.

Perfect Love is grace and mercy.

Today, no matter how you feel . . . KNOW GOD LOVES YOU WITH PERFECT LOVE!

Feelings come and go – God’s perfect love never begins and it never ends. His love never changes.

You may not feel it, understand it, or explain it.

But believe it and trust it.

Dear one, He wants you to know, believe, and trust His promises:

I see you. I know you. Everything about you. Your hopes and dreams. Your failures and frustrations.

I know your first and your last breath and will be with you always.

I see your day. I see how hard you’re trying. I see you loving and caring for your family. I see you nurturing and encouraging your friends. I see what gives you joy and I see what hurts your heart. (Psalm 139)

My child, I love you. I always have and I always will. Nothing will ever change my love for you. I made you. You are mine. Forever and always.

For the Lord is good. His unfailing love continues forever, and his faithfulness continues to each generation. Psalm 100:5

i-heart-u Around the Blogosphere

4th Week in August 2015

I’m changing up Around the Blogosphere a little.
Going forward the 3 posts featured will be:
1. Post with the most traffic from last week’s link party.
2. My favorite post from last week’s link party.
3. An inspirational post found while exploring the blogging world.

Question of the Day – Why Do You Write?

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Why do you write?

If someone had asked me that question five years ago I’m not sure how I would have answered. But today…

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My story…

Tells about a gracious God who allowed me to come face to face with the things I feared most to prove that He is greater than my fear. It’s a story of the way my faith grew as it intersected with the hard parts of life. And of the ways I learned that God’s grace, mercy, and love was and is sufficient for every situation.

I didn’t always know that. I could put a doubt at the end of every statement of faith. Because I was trying “to be good” always wondering, no—always knowing that my good wasn’t good enough.

You may have heard teachers talk about living “under the protection of God’s umbrella.” That was me. Trying to be good enough to stay under His umbrella. While constantly worrying and wondering if it was even possible.

That’s why I write. Because I now know that I’m not good enough but God’s loving grace is more than enough. When I end up out in the storm He will give me strength. Sure I’ll go through all the normal emotions when hard life happens, but I won’t wonder if God can give me all I need. I know He can and He will. That’s my story.

What’s your story?

What are you passionate about?

Why do you write?

Those thoughts about my writing came from just the first lesson of Arabah Joy’s – Christian Blogger Bootcamp.

My friends were so enthusiastic about CBB I decided I had to sign up.

I’ve attended other bootcamps and blogger training sessions, but I never felt like they spoke to me. They could give techniques and disciplines, but they didn’t speak to my heart as a faith writer. This is a course that is not only teaching me what I need to know about blogging, but it’s doing it from a Biblical perspective. Yay!

So today I’m here as a friend telling you…

YOU NEED THIS!
Really.
You’ll thank me.

Click here to learn more and sign up.

It’s only $69 – $62.10 today with
discount code – DBW10

You can do the lessons at your own pace.
You don’t have to finish it in six weeks.
You have life-time access to the lessons.

You can start the course as soon as you enroll.
Arabah Joy even offers a money-back guarantee
if you complete the course and don’t see increased
blog traffic. You have nothing to lose.

So what are you waiting for..?

You were born pre-packed! God looked at your entire life,
determined your assignment, and gave you the tools to do the job!
God packed you on purpose for a purpose!” (Max Lucado)

i-heart-u Around the Blogosphere

Last week of July 2015

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Paige Givens shares at My Story, My Song

She’s wife, mom, musician and kindergarten teacher.
My bio lists those as well. That’s why I love her page…
Teaching Kindergarten: You Can’t Make This Stuff Up!

Her post – In Spite of Myself is beautiful,
and you will love her song by the same name.

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Courtney Stanford pours into Let Every Heart –
Preparing Him Room in Every Season

She says “our home is full of guys (young and old)
singing church hymns or playing “superheroes”
…loudly…always, always loudly.”

Her post – Does My Response to Sin Look
Anything Like My Jesus made me stop and think.
She inspires me to want to love better.

Take a minute to visit Courtney and say hello.

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Dianne Thornton is the writer of Sweeter Than Honey –
Taste and See that the Lord is Good

She is a busy wife and mom to three teens, who says,
“each stage of parenting is wonder-filled and difficult.”

Her post – Do You Skim or Do You Soak?
will motivate you to slow down, soak in the Word,
and grow closer to the Lord.

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This photo makes me think summer.
My mom canned every year.

Do you have a garden?
Do you can or freeze the harvest?

Photo by bossfight.

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Today – Tomorrow . . . It Can All Be So Confusing

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Our daughter had a terrible time learning the difference between today and tomorrow. The lesson I learned along the way...

When our daughter was a very little girl she had a terrible time understanding the difference between today and tomorrow. We couldn’t even talk about yesterday.

For example –

We’d say, “We’re going to do __________ tomorrow.”

Daughter reacted with great enthusiasm.

The next morning she’d get up and ask, “Is it tomorrow?” (Who knew this was a hard question.)

We’d reply, “No, it’s today.”

She’d say, “But I want it to be tomorrow so we can do __________.”

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We would quickly tell our disappointed girl, “Honey, we are going to do that.”

And of course our sweet girl would say, “But it’s not tomorrow.”

Kiddos aren’t the only ones who have trouble with today and tomorrow.

You and I can worry about tomorrow. Wait for tomorrow. Procrastinate until tomorrow. Start over tomorrow. But we can only live today.

You can worry about tomorrow –

“Anxiety does not empty tomorrow of its sorrows, but only empties today of its strength.” ~Charles Spurgeon

“So don’t worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will bring its own worries. Today’s trouble is enough for today.” Matthew 6:34

“If and When were planted, and Nothing grew.” ~ Proverb

You can wait for tomorrow –

Biblically, waiting is not just something we have to do until we get what we want. Waiting is part of the process of becoming what God wants us to be. – John Ortberg

In the morning, Lord, you hear my voice; in the morning I lay my requests before you and wait expectantly. Psalm 5:3

“Darkness comes. In the middle of it, the future looks blank. The temptation to quit is huge. Don’t. You are in good company… You will argue with yourself that there is no way forward. But with God, nothing is impossible. He has more ropes and ladders and tunnels out of pits than you can conceive. Wait. Pray without ceasing. Hope.” ~John Piper

You can procrastinate until tomorrow –

“Tomorrow is often the busiest day of the week” ~a Spanish Proverb

Do not withhold good from those who deserve it when it’s in your power to help them. If you can help your neighbor now, don’t say, “Come back tomorrow, and then I’ll help you.” Proverbs 3:27–28

“You cannot escape the responsibility of tomorrow by evading it today.” ~Abraham Lincoln

You can start over tomorrow –

“Courage doesn’t always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I’ll try again tomorrow.” ~Mary Anne Radmacher

Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a huge crowd of witnesses to the life of faith, let us strip off every weight that slows us down, especially the sin that so easily trips us up. And let us run with endurance the race God has set before us. We do this by keeping our eyes on Jesus, the champion who initiates and perfects our faith. Hebrews 12:1–2a

“Isn’t it nice to think that tomorrow is a new day with no mistakes in it yet?” ~L.M.Montgomery

But you can only live today –

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“Even if I knew that tomorrow the world would go to pieces, I would still plant my apple tree.” ~Martin Luther

Help each other. Speak day after day to each other while it is still today so your heart will not become hard by being fooled by sin. Hebrews 3:13

“Did I offer peace today? Did I bring a smile to someone’s face? Did I say words of healing? Did I let go of my anger and resentment? Did I forgive? Did I love? These are the real questions. I must trust that the little bit of love that I sow now will bear many fruits, here in this world and the life to come.” ~Henri Nouwen

Celebrate today. Live it with confidence that it is covered by grace. Hope for tomorrow, but don’t wait . . . follow where the Lord leads you filled with the blessings only He can give.

i-heart-u Around the Blogosphere

4th Week in July

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Jenny German is Creatively Jenny.

She says, “Living Joyfully. Transforming Lives.
GIVE. BLESS. ACT. TRANSFORM.
Four words that can change a person, community,
business or even as big as the world.”

I’m excited to share her new project –
#IMGRATEFUL365

Join Jenny as she offers ideas . . . ways to become more grateful
and invites her readers to get involved in by blessing
those around them through gratitude.

I’m excited. This truly has the power to transform lives.

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Karen Woodall writes at Switchbacks @ Christian Post.

She says, “God longs for us to come to know Him
in a fashion that moves us way beyond what passes
for ‘normal’ Christianity into a deep relationship of love.”

Have you read about Kim, the college student who spent through
her $90,000 college fund in 3 years?

Karen has a very interesting message to share
based on the story. Read – Squandered to
see where we may have more in common with
Kim than we think.

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Chris Peek is blogger, writer, photographer who
shares his thoughts at Trail Reflections.

Chris says, “I’m the hiking guy who spends much of
his time on the trails (and off) reflecting
on life calling and adventure.”

Chris wrote about cultural trends and Truth
in – July 4th Blues & Building the
Foundation for a Story that Matters.

An important challenge to look closely at
the foundation of our lives.

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Arbor HG

A quick peek at our backyard.
You can see more at designHappy – HomeGoods…

How to Host a Relaxing Evening Outdoors

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What’s Your Favorite Way to Share Your Faith?

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For years it’s been considered inappropriate to discuss religion, sex, or politics in most social settings. Today in our politically correct society some would say it’s even argumentative and hateful.

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I don’t think so. I hope not anyway. What in the world would I talk about?!

Still there are times when I’m in a new situation with people I don’t know that I get nervous…

You too?

Nervous before you share your faith story? Worrying about what others will think? Afraid they won’t like you or they’ll make fun of you? Do you feel awkward and maybe even a little embarrassed?

Me too.

But I have encouraging news…

The Apostle Paul known for his strong choleric personality said the following to the people of Corinth:

I came to you in weakness—timid and trembling. And my message and my preaching were very plain. 1 Corinthians 2:3–4

Wow, if Paul was nervous and apprehensive what does that mean for you and me? How can we have courage let alone the right words when we need them?

I decided that while I was with you I would forget everything except Jesus Christ, the one who was crucified . . .Rather than using clever and persuasive speeches, I relied only on the power of the Holy Spirit. I did this so you would trust not in human wisdom but in the power of God. v. 2, 4–5

Paul didn’t use big “theological” words. He didn’t try to impress the people of Corinth with his knowledge or wisdom. He kept the message simple and plain relying on the Holy Spirit to use him and to touch the hearts and minds of those who were listening.

I can do that. I bet you can too.

I can tell people my story—how God’s love through Jesus has blessed us.
I can keep the message simple – “I was a mess until Jesus touched me with His love and the more I spend time getting to know Him the better I’m doing.”
I’m willing. I can pray and ask the Spirit to give me the words to say.
I can trust the Spirit to use my words and touch the hearer’s heart.

Finally, the last verse of 1 Corinthians 1 and the words just before those above say:

Therefore, as the Scriptures say, “If you want to boast, boast only about the Lord.” v. 31

This sums it up best. The easiest way to share our faith is simply to tell people how God is working in our lives. Our weaknesses, failures, and fears. His love, forgiveness, and ability to change us.

I can definitely do that.

One of my favorite ways to share my faith:

I don’t have all the answers. Not even close. All I know is my life fell apart and God met me in the mess and pieced me back together. I trusted Jesus for heaven, but I didn’t trust Him for earth. And now I do.

After that I just answer any questions I’m asked, focusing on Jesus – the One who unites us not on the issues that stir up differences and debate.

Okay . . . let’s talk.

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What if you didn’t have a blog? Do you have a short statement ready to share with someone who asks you about your faith?

The 3rd Week in July

Kim Hyland writes – Winsome Woman . . .
because I want to be.

She says, “While the story IS mine,
I am not the main character. My loving Father
wrote it, and He is my story’s hero.”

I love that!

Her post,
Dear Me, A Letter FROM My Eighty Year Old Self
is beautiful. I promise . . . it will bless you.

Lauren Gaskill at Making Life Sweet shares
“Inspiration for happy, healthy, redeemed living.”

She says, “Life should be sweeter –
rich in stories, and full of good food,
love, encouragement and inspiration.”

Don’t you want to run over and get to know her?

Her post, How to Stay Creative + Innovative,
will inspire you with four ways to have a positive
influence on others.

Anna Rendell is a Minnesotan who is Girl with Blog
and Social Media Coordinator for incounrage.me.

She says, “I share here with simple honesty
on the lovely & the difficult parts of mothering,
family, and faith as if you & I were chatting
in our backyards, over a picket fence.”

I loved her post, On Hard Days and Do Over Grace.
You will too!

This week’s Top Pic
and great reminder is from
Gail Burton Purath
at 1–Minute Bible Love Notes.

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What is Your Story? I Want to Know

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What is your story?

I want to know.

There are more that 7 billion people in the world. No two alike. Each person unique and wonderful.

You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body
    and knit me together in my mother’s womb.
Thank You for making me so wonderfully complex!
    Your workmanship is marvelous—how well I know it.
You watched me as I was being formed in utter seclusion,
    as I was woven together in the dark of the womb.
You saw me before I was born.
    Every day of my life was recorded in Your book.
Psalm 139:13–16

I live in St. Louis, where the first thing people ask when meeting someone new is . . . “where did you go to school?”

I did a Google search of the most common questions people ask when they meet someone and found the following answers:

Where did you grow up?
What do you do?
Do you have children?

I’ve decided that although that tells a little bit about your life, it doesn’t really tell me about you. Unique wonderful you.

I want to know you.

What makes you laugh?
What makes you sad?
What thrills you?
What breaks your heart?
What makes you angry?
What frightens you?
What is your favorite time of the day?
What’s your best memory?
What’s one thing you’d like people to know about you?

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We’re more connected than ever; yet I wonder if we’re not lonelier and less satisfied. We compare and contrast, talk about our children, spouses, parents, friends, politics, and…

But do we share our hearts. Who we are.

I love to read a posts where writers pours their heart into words. They’ve faced the fear of rejection or ridicule and still pour out into those who crave connection.

Some of us protect our hearts because we’ve been burned. We poured out and had it used against us, used to hurt us. And we’ve built walls of protection preferring safe surface conversations to real stories. But…

You and I were created for relationship—first to God and then to each other.

I want to know you. Your story. I don’t want to just know about you; I want to know you.

The Story of My Heart

What makes you laugh? Rev makes me laugh. I think life is funny. So many things amuse me and it doesn’t take much to make me laugh loud and long.
What makes you sad? Cruelty makes me sad. Words or actions. I grieve when I see people intentionally hurt each other. Yep, that makes me sad.
What thrills you? God’s love thrills me. His patience with me overwhelms me. Grace and mercy through Jesus awes me.
What breaks your heart? Children who live without their basic needs being met. Without family, healthcare, food, clean water, etc. That, and anyone choosing life without Jesus.
What makes you angry? Lying makes me angry. Ooh, I hate lies.
What frightens you? I’m not afraid very often, which is amazing considering I grew up afraid of almost everything. I have moments of fear, but get over it pretty quickly.
What is your favorite time of the day? The end of the work day about 5:30 or 6, when we sit down to talk over our the events of the day.
What’s your best memory? Just one… Hm. The first time Rev and I said, “I love you.” And yes, I said it first. Well, kind of. I sang along to “This Girl’s in Love With You” playing on the radio, and he whispered in my ear . . . “I love you, too.”
What’s one thing you’d like people to know about you? I have more scars than people know and I’m tougher than people think.

Now it’s your turn. You can leave your answers in the comments or write a blog post and link it here next week. Because I really do want to know you.

What’s your story?

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The 2nd Week in July

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Andrea is the host of Make This The Day.

She invites her readers to, “let go of your insecurities and
realize that every day is a gift, not a guarantee?

Her post,
Seeking Out Blessings in the Midst of the Mundane
will remind you that although your day seems like an
endless cycle of . . . Wash. Rinse. Repeat. It is in those
precious relentless moments we find many of
our most precious blessings.

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This week’s inspiration is at HomeGoods –
designHappy Blog.

I’m what they call a Legacy Blogger –
I think that means old. 🙂
I’ve been writing for the HG Blog since it launched in 2007.

My post – Summer Side Dishes Your Guests Will Love
has links to several yummy side dishes and a bonus…
My Mom’s Best Potato Salad Recipe.

Head over to share or pin the recipe to save it.

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Debi Stangeland is a great motivator for this blogger.

Debi’s blog is full of helpful information.
Her Facebook page is a great source for ideas.

And…

She’s written a book!
Delicious Blogging –
The Ingredients You Need to Create a Better Blog

It’s a fantastic help. I love it!
Each chapter is short with easy to implement
tasks to make your blog the best.

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Inspired by June
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June takes beautiful photographs of
God’s creation.

“Every good and perfect gift is from above,
coming down from the Father of heavenly lights…”

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A Declaration – One of My Most Embarrassing Moments

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One of my most embarrassing moments and the lesson I learned from it. What's the point of having an embarrassing moment if you don't learn from it.

This is one of my life’s most embarrassing moments and the lesson I learned from it. I mean, what’s the point of having an embarrassing moment if you don’t learn something from it.

About a dozen years ago on the Fourth of July, Rev and I were out for date night . . . ready to enjoy an evening of dinner and conversation. I was relaxed and mellow.

As we climbed out of the car, I noticed a TV news crew walking down the street in our direction.

My first mistake was making eye contact with the reporter and showing interest. My second mistake was agreeing to answer her question on tape.

Seriously . . . BIG MISTAKE. Take my advice. Look away or better yet, get back in the car.

The reporter put the mic in my face and asked, “Why do we celebrate the Fourth of July?”

I am a former elementary school teacher, and all I could think was – I don’t know, fireworks, barbeques, picnics. I’m just out for a relaxing evening, and you have asked me to engage my brain on history of all things. (Not my best subject.)

Are you kidding me?!

Unfortunately, instead of keeping my mouth shut, I said, “It is the anniversary of the signing of the Constitution.”

She politely corrected me saying I must have meant the Declaration of Independence.

And I began begging her to leave my little moment of brilliance off the air.

I know this kind of mental lapse could never happen to any of you, but if it does—here’s a quick history lesson.

The Declaration of Independence was approved on July 2, 1776.

A committee of five: John Adams, Benjamin Franklin, Thomas Jefferson, Robert R. Livingston, and Roger Sherman were appointed the previous month, on June 11, by the delegates of the Continental Congress to write a draft of their intent to be free of the British Government.

The next two days were spent going over actual wording and by the Fourth, the final draft was approved and sent off to the printer for publication.

On July 19, 1776 the New York delegation joined the others, having been the only ones to deny their approval initially, making the decision to secede from Britain unanimous. At that point the handwritten copy with which we have become familiar was prepared, and signed by most of the Congressional delegates on August 2, 1776.

If you will allow me . . . Why do we celebrate the Fourth of July? (Okay, I know it still has nothing to do with the Constitution.)

Whenever the Declaration of Independence was signed, it was approved in the draft we know – on July 4, 1776.

I’m thankful for this courageous group of men, for their dream of freedom and willingness to sacrifice everything.

So, if someone should ask you this weekend, “Why do we celebrate the Fourth of July.” You can answer with confidence, “It is the day a group of very brave men approved the Declaration of Independence so that you and I might live in freedom.”

Oh, one more thing…

My hope of my little brain lapse not getting air time were shattered the following morning at church when several friends told me, while laughing hysterically, that they’d seen me on TV.

And that was embarrassing!

i-heart-u Around the Blogosphere

The 1st Week in July

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Grace Houle shares her faith beautifully at
Poured Out His Love.

She says, “when I witness or hear testimonies of lives
that are changed I know it is a miracle, and
I am thrilled to be a part of it.”

Her post – Why I Choose to Say Blessed Instead of Lucky
is not only an excellent read, but shares perfectly
why I have chosen the same.

Go over to be blessed by her words and her
beautiful photography.

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Tara is An Aiming High Wife

She describes herself as, “an active duty spouse,
new mommy, overzealous crafter and Pinterest addict.
This blog is for those out there that find the fun and
adventure out of daily mishaps and never take
themselves or their attempts at Pinterest too seriously!”

Please take a moment to read
What the 4th of July Means to Us –
a look at the holiday from a military wife’s perspective.

Then stop to look at her DIY inspiration.

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Brenda is Chasing Holiness –
Footpaths of Faith in the Everyday Places.

She says, “So much of God’s presence falls to rest
in the ordinary corners of our lives—oh,
that we’d have eyes to see.”

I love her thoughts on being a “reserved extrovert” in
the post – Alone in a Crowd.

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May your celebration be blessed and joy-filled.

But first…

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Have More Fun Every Day – Live, Laugh, and Love

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Seriously, wouldn't you just love to have more fun? Now's the time to live, laugh, and love. There will never be a better day than today. Live. Laugh. Love.

If we practiced these three little words every day, we would have much more fun.

And with God’s help . . . we can do it! We can live with peace and contentment, laugh more often, and love with abandon.

I’m going to keep them before me this weekend. Maybe you want to also.

Have More Fun – Live, Laugh, and Love

Live Well: Do something you love! It doesn’t have to be big or expensive. Just make it something you really enjoy. Take a hike. Blow bubbles. Garden. Go to the beach or sit by the pool. Grab a good book. Get together with friends. Live.

Laugh Often: Look for reasons to laugh! Rent a comedy. Read the comics.Tell a funny story. Get the giggles for no reason at all.

Love Much: Love completely with all you’ve got! With God’s help love even when you want to grumble, scream, or walk away! Just love . . . it will do your heart good!

Quotes about Living Well

“When it comes to life the critical thing is, whether you take things for granted or take them with gratitude.” ~Gilbert K. Chesterton

Life is a daring adventure or nothing at all. – Helen Keller

“Live each day with thankful gratitude.” ~Lailah Gifty Akita

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Quotes about Laughing Often

Laughter is an instant vacation. ~ Milton Berle

Hearty laughter is a good way to jog internally without having to go outdoors. ~Norman Cousins

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“Laughter is more than just a pleasurable activity…When people laugh together, they tend to talk and touch more and to make eye contact more frequently.” ~Gretchen Rubin

“If there is no laughter, Jesus has gone somewhere else. If there is no joy and freedom, it is not a church: it is simply a crowd of melancholy people basking in a religious neurosis. If there is no celebration, there is no real worship.” ~Steve Brown

Quotes about Loving Much

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“She loved me coming and going, at my worst and at my best. She had a bottomless well of love for me.” ~Mitch Albom

“There is no remedy for love but to love more.” ~Henry David Thoreau

“The best use of life is love. The best expression of love is time. The best time to love is now.” ~Rick Warren

Dear friends, since God loved us that much, we surely ought to love each other. No one has ever seen God. But if we love each other, God lives in us, and his love is brought to full expression in us. 1 John 4:11–12

Live life to the fullest by filling each day with life, laughter, and love!

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The 4th Week in June

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Melanie Redd shares a Ministry of Hope.
Offering hope through God’s Word, practical illustrations,
a little wit and a whole lot of common sense.

Take a few minutes to read…
An Apology Letter (to you) for the Way You
Were Treated at My Church

This is a post you’ll want to share with friends.

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Sobremesa Stories – Letting Stories Unfold Around the Table
is the inspirational home of Lauren English.

Lauren is a Spanish Teacher who shares DIY ideas, recipes,
her love of languages and travel, and her faith.

I can’t wait to get to know her better.
You’ll want to get to know her too!

Her post…
What I’m Scared to Ask God For
will inspire your prayer-life and touch your heart.
Don’t miss this!

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Lynn Mosher writes Encouraging Hearts – Uplifting Souls.

She will “Welcome to my little cubby hole on the internet.
So glad to have you visit! My door is always open.
Make yourself at home.”

Don’t you want to go over and get to know her?

You want to read her post…
The Lost Art of Giggling.

Go on over and get your giggle on!

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Go out and have fun with your family.
Play. Giggle. And Love Big!

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Do Your Friends Have These Characteristics? Do You?

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“A true friend knows your weaknesses but shows you your strengths; feels your fears but fortifies your faith; sees your anxieties but frees your spirit; recognizes your disabilities but emphasizes your possibilities.” ~William Arthur Ward

Are you blessed with good friends?

People who believe in you, encourage you, and point you toward hope when you don’t have any of your own?

Are you a good friend?

Do Your Friends Have These Characteristics? Do You? 10 Ways to Know…

1. Loves and cares about you.

Dear friends, since God loved us that much, we surely ought to love each other. 1 John 4:11

2. Listens to you.

“Friends are those rare people who ask how we are, and then wait to hear the answer.” ~Ed Cunningham

3. Tells the truth and is trustworthy.

“When you choose your friends, don’t be short-changed by choosing personality over character.” ~ W. Somerset Maugham

Do your friends have these characteristics? Do you? This is a list of the things you want your friends to have and they want to see in you...

4. Compliments you but doesn’t flatter.

5 Differences Between Flattery and Encouragement.

5. Gives you personal space.

“Balanced relationships are always based in freedom, not obligation.” ~Michael Thomas Sunnarborg

6. Forgives you.

Love prospers when a fault is forgiven, but dwelling on it separates close friends. Proverbs 17:9

7. Appreciates you and tells you so.

Want Happy Strong Relationships? Say Thank You!

8. Is real and accepts the real you.

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9. Celebrates and cries with you.

Be happy with those who are happy, and weep with those who weep. Romans 12:15

10. Respects you.

“Life has taught me that respect, caring and love must be shared, for it’s only through sharing that friendships are born.” ~Donna A Favors

More Friendship Quotes

“The glory of friendship is not the outstretched hand, not the kindly smile, nor the joy of companionship; it is the spiritual inspiration that comes to one when you discover that someone else believes in you and is willing to trust you with a friendship.” ~Ralph Waldo Emerson

“Friendship is the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person, having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words.” ~George Eliot

“Friends—they’re kind to each other’s hopes. They cherish each other.” ~Author Unknown

“When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives means the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand.” ~Henri Nouwen

“You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.” ~Jim Rohn

“I cannot even imagine where I would be today were it not for that handful of friends who have given me a heart full of joy. Let’s face it, friends make life a lot more fun.” ~Charles Swindoll

Good friends make you laugh, make you smile, and just make life more fun!

Thank you for being my Friend!

Now it’s time to go…

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3rd Week in June 2015

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Ifeoma Samuel pours herself out at Purposeful and Meaningful–
Appreciating and Living a Life Full of God’s Love

Ifeoma, a Veterinarian, says she stands for:
“No person is better than the other. What privileges and
opportunities we enjoy are purely from God and For God.
So, I should use my God given gifts to bless those around me.“

Her post – 3 Strategies for Intentional Living
will encourage you to “dig deeper into what is most important in life.”

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Becky Hastings writes My Ink Dance.

She says, “I realized in this crazy dance of life that I’d
rather get the steps wrong than sit on the sidelines with an
empty dance card. So I’m here exploring life through
writing and writing through life.“

I loved her post – It’s Time to Stop Living Life in the Middle.
It will both bless and inspire you.
I promise it will make you think.

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Betsy DeCruz is the writer of Faith Spilling Over –
Getting God’s Word in, so Our Faith Can Spill Out

She says about her writing, “I try to open my eyes wider
to seebeyond my crazy, stress-filled moments and
recognizethe gifts God gives me every day.”

If you’ve ever had a stinky attitude you’ll want to read
her post – What To Do When Your Attitude Stinks.
Her honesty will motivate you and make you smile.

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You Need to Know and Live Your Plan with Purpose

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When you plan with purpose you know your goals and values and work toward them. Here's help to get you started...

“I believe that Jesus would have given His life for just one person. Jesus emptied Himself, He humbled Himself and He so yielded Himself to His Father’s love that He had no ambition of His own. He was not looking to build an empire, He did not want praise or adulation or to impress people with who or how many followed Him. He stopped over and over again for just one person, for just one life.” ~Heidi Baker

Jesus knew His mission. He knew the plan and lived it with purpose, and in the process He gave us a clear example of how living intentionally looks.

Although you and I may not be able to change time and history. We may not affect countless lives for all eternity . . . wouldn’t you like to know that by living your plan with purpose you made a positive difference in the lives of the people around you.

I promised you I’d share my Personal Mission Statement with you today.

In a nutshell my mission is – Love the Lord God with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and love my neighbor as I love myself. Mark 12:30–31

Spelled out – To love God completely with all my mind and my emotions and spending time every day in prayer and Bible study. To get enough rest, eat a healthy diet, and exercise so I’ll have strength to love and care for the people in my life. To never stop learning, spend face to face time with friends and family and treat everyone (even me) with kindness and forgiveness. To celebrate each days blessings and glorify God with gratitude for His loving care. I will do this with God’s help and by His grace.

Ideas to help you get started:

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It should be easy to remember, because:

It will help you clearly identify the things most important to you.
It will be your foundation for making major, life-directing decision.
It will help you make daily decisions clearly in spite of circumstances and emotions.
It will help you live intentionally, with focus and confidence.
It needs to be positive and inspirational – do not use any negative words or phrases.

Quotes about Living Your Mission

“When God gives you a mission, He also gives you everything you need to fulfill that mission.” ~Elizabeth George

“When you discover your mission, you will feel its demand. It will fill you with enthusiasm and a burning desire to get to work on it.” ~W. Clement Stone

“When you have vision it affects your attitude. Your attitude is optimistic rather than pessimistic.” ~Charles R. Swindoll

“The life of Christ was a life of humble simplicity, yet how infinitely exalted was his mission. Christ is our example in all things.” ~Ellen G. White

“It’s not about finding ways to avoid God’s judgment and feeling like a failure if you don’t do everything perfectly. It’s about fully experiencing God’s love and letting it perfect you. It’s not about being somebody you are not. It’s about becoming who you really are.” ~Stormie Omartian

The purpose of my instruction is that all believers would be filled with love that comes from a pure heart, a clear conscience, and genuine faith. 1 Timothy 1:5

Do you have a Personal Mission Statement? What is it?

And now it’s time to go…

Around the Blogosphere

2nd Week in June 2015

Beauty Tara Ulrich writes at Praying on the Prairie.

She is inspired by this Laura Ingalls Wilder quote:
“The real things haven’t changed. It is still best to be
honest and truthful; to make the most of what we have;
to be happy with simple pleasures; and have
courage when things go wrong.”

Would you like to know more about the best fear?
Read her post Godly Fear –
where she turns “what ifs” into beautiful truth.

Inspiration2 Katie talks about the imperfect adventure of living
Every Day Glorious – Seeing Ordinary Life Through an Eternal Lens

She wrote, “My name is Katie, and my life
hasn’t turned out at all like I expected.”
(Don’t you want to know more?)

Do you need a reminder to push through, to keep going?
Read – Zeroing In On the Truth
I loved it!

Motivation2 April is the author of Cup of Delight –
Enjoying the beautiful, fun, and creative.

She says, “I started “Cup of Delight” in 2009 to
share my creative hobby experiences,
ideas, information and inspiration.”

Her post about “performance ministry” titled –
Prove Your Worth by Doing Something
blessed me with truth about our freedom in Christ.

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A Prayer for When You Don’t Want to Surrender

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For I know the plans I have for you,’ says the Lord, ‘plans for well-being and not for trouble, to give you a future and a hope. Jeremiah 29:11

Father, It’s hard to give in and give up control, to surrender my wants and wishes, my hopes and dreams to You.

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Please help me Lord. I know Your ways are best, but my inner two-year-old whines to get what I have set my heart on.

If you're like me . . . you want your own way and you want it now. Here is my prayer to surrender control...

So, I foolishly do things by myself and end up in a mess. You’ll rescue me, won’t You?

I pray, “Your will be done and in Jesus name,” to get Your stamp of approval. You want what I want. You want my happiness . . . don’t You?

I listen to people who tell me what I want to hear, even when I know it’s wrong. You understand, don’t You?

Just as the heavens are higher than the earth, so my ways are higher than your ways and my thoughts higher than your thoughts. Isaiah 55:9

Father, Help me trust You completely. Help me focus on Your promises. Help me remember the ways You’ve proven Yourself true and faithful.

Lord, forgive me. I’m ashamed of myself.

Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not trust in your own understanding. Agree with Him in all your ways, and He will make your paths straight. Proverbs 3:5-6

Father, by Your grace and with Your help I will surrender my all to You.

I am only the manager of blessings You’ve given. Believing anything else is selfish, stubborn, foolish, and idolatry.

There is freedom, comfort, contentment, joy, peace, and understanding in trusting You completely.

In You there is no need to manipulate people, things, circumstances, or truth. In You I have all I need, and by the power of Your Spirit . . . I have all I want.

Father, by Your grace help me to begin each day surrendered completely to You with this prayer:

I have surrendered this day to You, Lord. I will follow where You guide and I will do Your will as You show it to me. Father, help me this day to fulfill this vow – that my life might glorify You alone . . . in the name of Jesus and by the power of the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Thank you Father for Your grace and mercy. Thank you for Your forgiveness and love.

Around the Blogosphere

Beauty I’ve shared a post by Jenni DeWitt at Genuflected before.

Her story is powerful and beautiful, filled with hope and love.
It’s faith-building for each of us to read the words of a mom,
whose young son has leukemia, share hope, faith, and
truth of the emotional roller coaster of life with an ill child.

Please go over and read her post –
Sometimes God Says No.
And remember to keep Cooper and the
family in your prayers.

Inspiration2 Carla Gasser is joining Ifeoma Samuel at
Purposeful and Meaningful.

You can visit her At the Crossroads.
She says she likes to think of life as a journey,
and she ponders, writes, and speaks about those places
where faith and life intersect.

Her post Be Still is sure to bless and inspire you.

Motivation2 Anita Ojeda shares a journey through caregiving, depression,
and stress, at Blessed (but Stressed).

She says, ” The caregiver’s journey often seems interminable,
lonely and uncontrollable. There IS hope.” You’re not alone.

Her post – Three Things You Need to Take Out of Your Purse
is an excellent read for everyone. Can you guess what the 3 things are?

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My Heart Changed When He Changed My Focus (Link Party)

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Jesus changes hearts.

Hearts broken by sin.

Jesus has made two major changes in my heart.

1. He helped me understand that no matter how hard I try, how many church services I attend, how many songs I sing or people I help . . . I am a sinner. Oh, I knew my faults; but really, they weren’t that bad.

I worked hard to be a “good girl.” In reality, I was a good Pharisee. And you know what Jesus called Pharisees. “Hypocrite.”

“And why worry about a speck in your friend’s eye when you have a log in your own? How can you think of saying to your friend, ‘Let me help you get rid of that speck in your eye,’ when you can’t see past the log in your own eye? Hypocrite!” Matthew 7:3–4

2. He showed me how much He loves sinners. Jesus doesn’t say, “Change and then you can follow me.”

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He says, “I love you. Perfectly. Completely. Unconditionally. Continually. Fiercely. Triumphantly. I love you!”

He gave His all that you and I might have all we need . . . now and forever..

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When my heart and mind are focused on Jesus, on His sacrifice and love . . . I naturally think less about me. I fear less. I trust more. I compare less. I love better.

Let us put every thing out of our lives that keeps us from doing what we should. Let us keep running in the race that God has planned for us. Let us keep looking to Jesus. Our faith comes from Him and He is the One Who makes it perfect. Hebrews 12:1–2

Have you ever known someone who “tried” Christianity, but gave up because they didn’t feel:

good enough?
approved?
accepted?
like they fit in?

Don’t show them the “speck” in their eye. Don’t show them how to “be” a Christian. Don’t teach them how to “fit in.” Don’t be a hypocrite.

Show them Jesus. Show them a heart changed.

Love them.

How has Jesus changed your heart?

Changed Hearts
Beauty Kenzel invites her readers to shine at
Shining Light in the Darkness

She wants to help you
“find the spark inside and illuminate the dark.“

When God Speaks: You Listen
tells her story of what God asked her to
give up because it was interfering with her focus.

Michelle Viscuse is the Pink Princess –
The Journey of a Princess in Need of a King

She writes, “Pink hasn’t always been my favorite color,
but it is now because it reminds me of
Jesus and His extravagant love.”

Go over for a visit to find out why…

And while your there read – I Blew It! Again.

My friend Kari Scare always encourages me to keep my focus on Jesus.
She writes at Struggle to Victory – Because Focus Determines Reality

“This introvert loves discussing ways to live in
victory while still struggling this side of Heaven.”

Her post – The Way Things Appear
will move you to look beyond appearances to relationships.

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Be Happy – Your Name is Perfectly Safe with God (Link Party)

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Four-year-old Billy said, “When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know your name is safe in their mouth.”

When someone loves you can tell by the way they speak to you and of you.

God loves you. Your name is perfectly safe in His mouth.

Friends, I love you! I carry you in my heart! Your name is safe in my mouth! But I also believe that my love for you is just a glimpse of the love God has for You. Any love you and I experience here and now is the tiniest fraction of God’s amazing grace and love.

““Though we are incomplete, God loves us completely. Though we are imperfect, He loves us perfectly. Though we may feel lost and without compass, God’s love encompasses us completely. … He loves every one of us, even those who are flawed, rejected, awkward, sorrowful, or broken.” ~Dieter F. Uchtdorf

God showed how much He loved us by sending His one and only Son into the world so that we might have eternal life through Him. This is real love—not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son as a sacrifice to take away our sins. 1 John 4:9-10

“The sin underneath all our sins is to trust the lie of the serpent that we cannot trust the love and grace of Christ and must take matters into our own hands” ~Martin Luther

See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! 1 John 3:1a

“An infinite God can give all of Himself to each of His children. He does not distribute Himself that each may have a part, but to each one He gives all of Himself as full as if there were no others.” ~A. W. Tozer

This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. 1 John 3:16a

[Tweet “Lord, settle my heart until my heart is set on You and Your gift of love.”]

Dear friends, God loves you perfectly, completely, and eternally!

You know what’s next…

Love Around the Blogosphere

Molly is a contributor at 5 Minutes for Faith.
She writes her story at All the Grace Between
…. the good-byes of an Army wife, the good-hellos of an Army life,
and all the grace poured out between …

She says about herself, “I am an Army bride,
one-time helicopter pilot, and daughter of the King.

Please don’t miss her post –
Reintegration: Where I Tell You About Oceans
Oh, it will grab your heart and fill you with gratitude.

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Jessica Bolyard is a speaker and writer who is
“Offering a Quiet Place for the Hearts of Women.”

She writes that her goal is ” to help others – especially women –
see God’s presence in those easily overlooked moments of life.

Take a few minutes to read her post –
The Hardest Kind of Kindness

I promise it will bless you.

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Are you content to be yourself?
That’s the goal of Kristine Brown at On Being Yourself and Being Content

She writes stories and lessons of giggles and goof-ups.

Her post – What Breaks My Heart
and what I intend to do about it,
will motivate you to…
“keep growing, keep learning, keep drawing closer to Jesus.”

It’s not exactly a pic, but this animal lover couldn’t resist this
adorable video from Paw My Gosh.