When You Don’t Understand Why God Allows People to Suffer

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It's hard to understand why God allows suffering. Sin in this world was not His plan but by His grace, He provided a way to give us what we need when we do.  #Suffering #BibleStudy #Jesus #CountingMyBlessings #WWGGG

After decades in ministry, I have to admit that it’s often hard to understand why God allows people to suffer.

And I think most of us would admit that it’s especially hard when the sufferer is someone who is kind, loving, caring . . . good. Or when that person is an innocent child.

Somehow we want to believe that suffering is deserved because if that’s true . . . then maybe we can avoid it personally.

In today’s verses, Jesus dispelled the idea that all suffering was the result of God’s judgment unleashed on those who are especially sinful.

“Do you think this happened to them because they were more sinful than all others from Galilee?”

Luke 13:2 (NCV)

Jesus quickly said, “No, not at all.”

Then He addresses the more important point…

“You will perish, too, unless you repent of your sins and turn to God.”

Luke 13:3

And it’s so important, He said it again…

“I tell you again that unless you repent, you will perish, too.”

Luke 13:5

Why does God allow suffering?

Because we live in a world permeated by sin. And living in a sinful world includes suffering.

So, the question is not why people suffer but what God has done about it and how He can work in and through it in our lives.

We can take sin seriously and make it personal. We don’t ask why God allowed it but ask Him to show us how He might use it our lives and the lives of those around us.

Jesus calls each of us to take our suffering to Him, to let Him help us through it, and then to use our stories to help others by inviting them to find His grace and mercy through the “narrow door.”

Later in Luke 13, it says…

Someone asked him, “Lord, will only a few be saved?”

He replied, Work hard to enter the narrow door to God’s Kingdom, for many will try to enter but will fail.”

Luke 13:23–24

When Jesus said to “work hard” He wasn’t talking about working to earn God’s favor, we can’t. But by God’s grace, we can admit our sin and our need for God’s mercy and grace, we can ask Him to forgive us, and help us trust Jesus to save us.

Why does God allow allow people to suffer?

Because He knows suffering is the result of sin and He wants all people to trust His love and grace, a gift that will save them eternally.

It's hard to understand why God allows suffering. Sin in this world was not His plan but by His grace, He provided a way to give us what we need when we do.  #Suffering #BibleStudy #Jesus #CountingMyBlessings #WWGGG

A Prayer to Have Strength
Whatever God Allows

Father, I hate the suffering part of life. It does help to know that You hate it, too! It was never Your intention for us to struggle with the consequences of sin and evil in this world. You wanted and created a beautiful perfect world where we would live with joy in Your presence. And even though we fail You, You love us so much that You sent Jesus to save us and make it possible for us to one day experience the joy of that perfect world with You.

Please forgive me. I don’t want to give in to sin. I want to trust Your will and obey You faithfully. I need Jesus. I believe that He is the Way through the “Narrow Door.” I trust He is Truth and Life (John 14:6) I believe that I can only come to You through Jesus by the power of Your Holy Spirit. (John 6:44)

I ask that You will guard my heart and soul, and give me strength to endure when I am hurt by sin . . . my own or someone else’s. Please help me to focus on You, to live with the hope of Your promises, and trust and obey Your will to show You my love. I pray all of this in the precious name of Jesus. Amen.

It's hard to understand why God allows suffering. Sin in this world was not His plan but by His grace, He provided a way to give us what we need when we do.  #Suffering #BibleStudy #Jesus #CountingMyBlessings #WWGGG

The Good News is that Jesus is the Way through the narrow door. Based on all of His other teachings . . . “working hard” comes through our sincere desire to KNOW Him and heartfelt desire to trust and obey Him.

The blessing is that when we do, we have the promise that God will give us everything we need . . . even when He allows us to suffer.

On today’s note write:

With His help, I will trust God to help me live through whatever He allows.

May He bless you as you trust God to help you endure whatever He allows.

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  1. Hi Deb.

    How many times have I asked this question? I needed this today. It eased the burden on my heart. Thank you.


    1. I’m so very glad it blessed you, Tammy! Thanks so much for taking the time to visit and add to the conversation! God bless you!

  2. Beautiful post, Deb. So, relevant with everything taking place right now. I’m thankful that I can keep my eyes on the One who has saved me. Praying to be a beacon of hope for those who are suffering while pointing them to Jesus!

    1. Amen, Horace! You are a beacon of hope for those who are suffering as You testify to His love and ability to see you through! God bless you, my friend!

  3. Mariyn Laite says:

    Beautifully said. How we like to throw the blame on someone else for things of our own doing. Yes, we live in a world of sin. Satin’s play ground. Responsibility for something we have created is redirected to someone or something else. If only we would believe and lift our eyes to the Lord and repent. Thank you God for loving me enough to send your only Son to save me. Let me never forget the cost and what it takes to get through that narrow door. Things happen in life that causes suffering but I know you have my back and there is light at the end of it all. Bless you Deb.

    1. Thank you, Marilyn! What a blessing to know God is always with us through both good and bad. Oh, that we would simply keep our eyes on Him. God bless you!

  4. Sandra Nietfeld says:

    Question first–Why do you want us to put such long headings on comments. It is a turn-off for me.
    What I do not understand is–Why so many children suffer?They are innocent, should not have to suffer for those who have sinned.

    1. Hi, Sandra, thanks for visiting. I’m a little confused by your first question. There is no need for a heading for your comment. Please just feel free to add your thoughts. As for second thought – it is so sad that children suffer. I agree. We are however all born with sin as we come into this sinful world. Suffering is not necessarily a consequence for our personal sinful behavior . . . it may be the result of someone else’s or simply because this is a broken sinful world. It is especially sad when children are the victims. Yet, I believe that God is good and loving. I believe He hates it too when children suffer. And I believe that He wants to use all suffering to draw people to Himself. God bless you!

  5. Praise God ???? I thank God for using people like you to minister to those who are fully not understand why we don’t understand the consequences or any problems that we suffered as living in this world,
    Thank you for the nice message ???? of encouraged to continue serving the living God.

    1. Thank you, Elsa! Your kind encouragement blesses me. Praying God blesses you as you serve Him today.

  6. Suffering is inevitable in this sinful world. Yet we have hope because we have Jesus to help us get through it and overcome it when all is said and done.
    Blessings, Deb!

    1. Amen, Martha! I am humbled and grateful when I think of the things God has gotten me through. It gives me the hope I need for whatever He allows in the future. God be with you, my friend!

  7. I often wonder how much of our suffering is caused by mankind – pollution, chemicals in everything, poisoning the air and the water. God created a perfect world and mankind has made a mess of it. We need to trust God and keep on praying for those suffering and lost .

    1. You’re right, Angela. We are called to be good stewards of all that God has created. To care for one another and for all He has made. God bless you!