How to Have More Joy – Make Obedience Worship

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Obeying God has less to do with "doing it right" and everything to do with love. Make obedience worship of who God is and for all He's done.

I’ve been reading through Leviticus and Numbers lately. I know. Who reads through Leviticus and Numbers?

Obedience. Worship. Lists. Rules. Count this group. Assign this task. Offer that sacrifice.

And we can’t help but wonder why?

What is the message of these two hard to read and harder to process Old Testament books?

In Leviticus, Israel is camped around the base of Mount Sinai while God meets with Moses giving laws that set His people apart from the nations around them.

What set God’s laws apart?

Love. His love for people and His desire for them to love Him and love each other.

Every law of God is based on love.

Jesus summed it up in His conversation with an expert in Moses Law:

Jesus replied, “What does the law of Moses say? How do you read it?”

The man answered, “‘You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, all your strength, and all your mind.’ And, ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.'” Luke 10:26–27

Obeying God is an act of love and failure to obey . . . well, it feels like a lack of love.

Obedience is not a way to earn God’s love and favor. God has already given us His love and favor. Obedience is our worshipful loving response to everything He has already given.

Obeying God has less to do with "doing it right" and everything to do with love. Make obedience worship of who God is and for all He's done.

I remember when our children would stand up tall, puff out their little chests, cross their arms and say, I can do it myself.” 

And you know what? That’s exactly what I’m doing when I regress into a “good little church girl” mode . . . I know the rules and I can keep them all by myself

Or the times they said, “I don’t want to.” AKA “NO.” 

I have a friend who tells the story of the day her young son ran out in the street. She’d told him a million times it was dangerous but they day he decided to test the boundaries.

So, she grabbed him out of the street and took him inside and had a moment of “discipline.” She asked him to sit and think about it and after several minutes asked him if he was ready to go outside and try again.

He said he was . . . so out they went.

Guess what? As soon as they got outside he looked over at her and promptly ran out into the street.

She told that pattern repeated a half dozen times that day.

I’m happy to say her strong-willed child has grown into a wonderful adult.

Truth is, I’m like that too.

When I’m impatient, quarrelsome, selfish, jealous . . . you get the idea.

Any time I fail to love well, I’m disobeying. I know God wants me to love well but I still “run out into the street.”

So, I’m trying to change my thinking. I don’t want to think of obedience as following God’s list of rules. Going forward I want to think of obedience as an act of worship.

I made a simple acrostic to help me remember.


O – Only = Without the addition of anyone or anything. Alone. Solely. Exclusively. Only God’s Way – given in love for my good. 

B – Because = For this reason or due to the fact that. I choose to obey because of all that God has done for me. 

E – Empty = Containing nothing of its own. Being empty of my own stubborn selfish attitude. Worshipful obedience is not about me. 

Y – Yielding = To give up, give in . . . to surrender. Yielding to God’s will. Surrendering to His plans and purposes by the power of His Holy Spirit.  

Put it all together…

I am able to obey God’s Law of Love—Only Because (I am) Empty and Yielding.

Yielding love reminds me of the movie The Princess Bride. I love the moment when Buttercup realizes that every time Westley says, “As you wish,” he is really saying, “I love you.” 

It’s what Jesus said in obedience in the Garden of Gethsemane.

“Please take this cup of suffering away from me. Yet I want your will to be done, not mine.” Mark 14:36

When you and I empty ourselves of stubborn pride and selfishness yielding to God’s plans and purposes with an attitude of loving worship we’re saying, “as You wish,” — “because I love You.” 

“I want your will to be done.”

A theme of the Bible from beginning to end is that God loves people . . . every rule and command comes from a loving Father who wants our lives to be blessed and beautiful. And obedience is our loving worshipful response to Him.

The fact is, I can’t do it myself. On my own, I will continue to try to be “a good little church girl” or “run into the street.” But with God’s help, I can surrender . I can be empty and yielding.

For I can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength. Philippians 4:13

With my heart and mind focused on God’s all-sufficient grace, His healing mercy and perfect love I can surrender all and worshipfully obey trusting His will is for my good and His glory.

That’s exciting.

It takes obedience out of the “have to follow the rules” category and puts it into the “get to worship” one.

And like everything else, it’s all about my attitude. Where my heart is.

 Wherever your treasure is, there the desires of your heart will also be. Luke 12:34

And the desire of my heart is to trust and obey my Father.

To know without any doubt His will is best because He loves me. Then I will enthusiastically respond with “As You wish, Father.”

Obeying God has less to do with "doing it right" and everything to do with love. Make obedience worship of who God is and for all He's done.

Quotes to Remember Obedience is Worship 

“True worship is obedience to God for no other reason than that you delight in God.” ~J. D. Greear

 Loving God means keeping His commandments, and His commandments are not burdensome. 1 John 5:4

“It’s one thing to worship and praise God at church; it’s quite another to move out into the real world and worship Him through daily obedience.” ~Dave Branon

So brothers and sisters, since God has shown us great mercy, I beg you to offer your lives as a living sacrifice to him. Your offering must be only for God and pleasing to him, which is the spiritual way for you to worship. Romans 12:1

“God created us for this: to live our lives in a way that makes him look more like the greatness and the beauty and the infinite worth that he really is. This is what it means to be created in the image of God.” ~John Piper

Father, by your grace, help us to worship You through obedient living. In Jesus name. Amen.

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  1. Mary Flaherty says:

    Deb, I love the O.B.E.Y. acronym. Spot on! But the best part (I don’t know if it was intentional) is how you need to insert “I AM” into the equation. While those two words complete the sentence, they also convey the impossibility of completing the other actions without “I AM.” So cool, right? I just love your blogs!

  2. Hi Deb,
    I’m my reading Leviticus and on Chapter 15 today. It’s tough reading, but it’s wonderful to know I’m not under the old law because of Jesus’ saving grace. Might be interested in A two-year Bible reading journey with Rev. David Mainse here in Canada.
    Thank you for your joy-filled post.
    Have a wonderful weekend. ❤️

  3. I love what you said about how every law of God is based on love. That’s such a significant truth.
    I feel so honored to have my post featured! Thank you!
    I hope you have a great weekend.

  4. Deb- I love the quote, ““True worship is obedience to God for no other reason than that you delight in God.”

    I’ve read so many posts about “The Princess Bride” lately, I guess I need to watch it as I’ve never seen it!

    Your words are a blessing to me!

  5. Beautiful post.
    Great reminder that obedience is about emptying ourselves and yielding to God out of love not compulsion.
    You are blessed.

  6. True worship is obedience to God, is a profound statement! I enjoyed reading your post today!
    Sue @ mamaofthreeboys

  7. Beautiful post! I’m convinced – and this post has convinced me further – that the more we truly see how much He loves us, the more in love with Him we fall, and the more obedient we become. Your post unpacks this so well. I pray I will keep learning more about his limitless love, and how to love Him through obedience. Thanks for sharing this!

  8. So beautiful, Deb! Thank you! Love your O-B-E-Y acronym!