5 Verses to Pray that will Help You Fight Your Spiritual Battles

10 / 17 / 1910 / 17 / 19

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I always believed there would be a point in my life when I would anticipate and be ready for life’s inevitable spiritual battles. But unfortunately, there are still times when they catch me by surprise and I’m unprepared.

Honestly, I’m most susceptible after a period of smooth sailing or an awesome mountaintop high. It seems the enemy loves to sneak in with an attack when I’m feeling fine and all is right with the world.

Which is why, I believe, Paul wrote what he called his “final word” to the Ephesians.

Be strong in the Lord and in His mighty power.Put on all of God’s armor so that you will be able to stand firm against all strategies of the devil.For we are not fighting against flesh-and-blood enemies, but against evil rulers and authorities of the unseen world, against mighty powers in this dark world, and against evil spirits in the heavenly places.
Ephesians 6:10–12

Paul was familiar with the enemy’s spiritual battles and the strategies used in an effort to discourage and defeat God’s people. He knew he wasn’t strong enough to withstand these assaults on his own and that he needed to depend on God to help and equip him, making him ready to fight every attack with faith.

I’m thankful the Lord saw to it that you and I were not only told that we need to be equipped and ready but that He made sure we were told how to be equipped and ready.

Paul wrote:

Put on every piece of God’s armor so you will be able to resist the enemy in the time of evil. Then after the battle you will still be standing firm.
Ephesians 6:13

We need the:

Belt of Truth – to defeat the devil’s lies.
Body Armor of God’s righteousness – to protect us from the attacks on our hearts … our emotions.
Shoes of Peace – to take the message of God’s peace to a hurting world.
Shield of Faith – to see beyond our current circumstances with hope.
Helmet of Salvation – to protect us from the doubts that attack our minds.
Sword of the Spirit – to help us fight evil attacks offensively with the truth of the Word of God.

And then Paul followed the armor verses with these words…

Pray in the Spirit at all times and on every occasion. Stay alert and be persistent in your prayers for all believers everywhere.
Ephesians 6:18

Which is why we’re praying today … asking God to give us all we need to be equipped and prepared for all of the spiritual battles we face.

5 Verses to Pray that will Help You Fight Your Spiritual Battles

“Don’t be afraid,” the prophet answered. “Those who are with us are more than those who are with them.”
2 Kings 6:16 (NIV)

Father, I admit that I feel alone when an attack hits. Spiritual battles so often make me feel anxious and afraid.

Please help me remember that I am never alone. You are with and within me giving me the strength and peace I need whatever the day brings. When the enemy confronts me with lies that overwhelm me, Your Word says Your angel warriors fight for me even as the battle rages around me.

Jesus won the victory, Your angels are fighting for me, and Your Spirit is with me … I have nothing to fear. Thank you, Father! Your grace and mercy overwhelm me.

You, dear children, are from God and have overcome them, because the One who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world.
1 John 4:4

Oh, Father, how I love these words. You have made me part of Your family through the gift of faith. You have forgiven me and given me the gift of Your Spirit … the One who is greater.

Greater than anything that comes against me in this world. Greater than temptations, lies, and the forces of evil. You, Lord, are greater! You have defeated all that stands against Your children. You have made us Your own. You have made me Yours! I am safe. By that power of Your greatness and love, help me resist all the enemy throws at me as I humbly live each day for Your glory.

No weapon forged against you will prevail, and you will refute every tongue that accuses you.
This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord, and this is their vindication from me,” declares the Lord.
Isaiah 54:17 (NIV)

Father, nothing, absolutely nothing intended to rob me of who I am in You will ever succeed. Every time satan reminds me of my faults and failures, each time I face my spiritual battles, You say I am vindicated, justified, absolved … I am washed clean because of who I am in Jesus.

This is my inheritance as Your child … just because You claimed me as Your own. Not because of any good in me but because You are loving, kind, and good. Thank you, Father. May I always remember Your promise to give me everything I need … I have nothing to fear.

The Lord is faithful; He will strengthen you and guard you from the evil one.
2 Thessalonians 3:3

Father, thank you for the strength and protection You give me when my heart and mind are under attack. I will run to You when temptation overtakes me. I will turn to Your Word when doubts arise. I will cling to Your promises in the middle of my spiritual battles. I will trust Your unfailing love when life is hard and I need hope.

You alone are worthy of all my worship and praise! Thank you, Father! Thank you!

The thief’s purpose is to steal and kill and destroy. My purpose is to give them a rich and satisfying life.
John 10:10

Father, Jesus said He is the Good Shepherd who watches over and protects His sheep … even to the point of sacrificing Himself for them. The enemy is always working to steal, kill, and destroy the people You created. He lies and tempts and taunts and confuses us, all in an attempt to get us to deny Your love. Please forgive us, Lord.

Thank you for the blessings You give to those of us who love Your Son … blessings of Your mercy and grace giving us a rich and satisfying life. Maybe not rich in things of this world but rich everything we need.

Because of Jesus, I am rich in love, peace, mercy and grace, courage and strength, hope, and so much more … all the things I need for a rich and satisfying life. Thank you, Father. The spiritual battles are real and sometimes they’re overwhelming—but by Your grace, I can rest in the truth that although there are battles, the war has already been won and the enemy has already been defeated! I give You my thanks and praise forever. Amen.

The enemy has been defeated.

God has given us everything we need for every battle.

Yet, in those moments when life feels overwhelming and satan is trying to steal, kill, and destroy who you are in Christ Jesus…

Run to God with your need, trust Him to give you everything you need, and praise Him for helping you fight your spiritual battles.

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5 Important Things You Need to Bless Your Prayer Life

10 / 14 / 1910 / 14 / 19

I read a quote that inspired me to dig deep into the Bible to study 5 practical and very doable things I believe will encourage and bless your prayer life. #Prayer #Blessings #PrayerJournal #Faith

Have you ever been among the people who spend way more time reading books and doing Bible studies about prayer than you actually spend praying?

Yeah, me too!

If I’m really being honest, I would tell you that I’ve spent most of my life feeling like I should have done so much more when it comes to prayer. The one thing that reassures me a little is that I’ve never met anyone, even those I’ve considered great prayer warriors, who say they believe they’ve got this prayer thing down pat.

And maybe we’re not supposed to. Maybe we’re supposed to always crave more when it comes to spending time with the Lord in prayer. Maybe we, like Brother Lawrence, should be “practicing the presence of God” … longing for a continuous open line of communication rather than brief one-way monologues of pleas and petitions.

The other morning I was reading a devotion in Andrew Murray’s book, Power in Prayer: Classic Devotions to Inspire and Deepen Your Prayer Life, and well, I can’t stop thinking about the following quote:

Through prayer, God has given to everyone the right to take hold of Him and His strength. It is on prayer that promises wait for their fulfillment, the kingdom for its coming, and the glory of God for its full revelation.

Prayer must be to the glory of God, in full surrender to His will, in full assurance of faith, in the name of Jesus, and with a perseverance that refuses to be denied.
Andrew Murray

I wonder how often I’ve failed to go to the Lord and let Him hold me close … filling me with the peace and strength I’ve needed. I wonder how often I’ve missed promises God wanted to fulfill in my life just because I didn’t ask. I wonder how often I failed to give Him glory because I was just too focused on myself.

Even with all my wondering, it was the second sentence that really grabbed my attention.

Because I wanted to know the Biblical truths behind Murray’s “must”s for prayer. So, I went to the Word because I want to know … if these are truly things that could make a difference. And when I want to know, that’s where I go.

And I believe these things can and will inspire and deepen my prayer life and I believe they will bless your prayer life as well. So, here are:

5 Important Things You Need to Bless Your Prayer Life

1. Pray to the Glory of God

Do you remember the first sentence in chapter one of The Purpose Driven Life by Rick Warren?

It’s not about you.

Only God could take a book that begins that way and turn it into an international bestseller.

And the second chapter…

You were made for God’s pleasure.

Isaiah wrote…

Bring all who claim me as their God,
for I have made them for my glory.
It was I who created them.
Isaiah 43:7

My prayers change when I believe I was created for God’s glory. Whatever He allows, wherever He leads, whatever He asks … I simply pray that He will go with me that I might be used by Him for His glory.

2. Pray Fully Surrendered to God’s Will

Surrender was always hard for me and honestly, I wouldn’t say it’s necessarily easy now. But I do believe that whatever God wills … He will give me the courage and strength I need to trust and obey.

Much of being able to pray the following words of Jesus…

“Abba, Father,” He cried out, “everything is possible for you. Please take this cup of suffering away from me. Yet I want Your will to be done, not mine.”
Mark 14:36

Is trusting that He is able to give us everything we need to endure. We can stand with Paul and say…

I can do all things because Christ gives me the strength.
Philippians 4:13 (NLV)

With God’s help, and the strength only He can give, you and I can pray fully surrendered to His will.

3. Pray Trusting God is Who He Says He Is

You and I have to know who God says He is if we are going to trust that He is who He says He is. And if He isn’t, why do we pray to Him at all?

I gathered 35 “I Am” Verses – God Is Who He Says He Is. Here are a few of my favorites:

“From eternity to eternity I am God.
No one can snatch anyone out of my hand.
No one can undo what I have done.”
Isaiah 43:13

“I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one can come to the Father except through me.”
John 14:6

“The Lord God says, “I am the Alpha and the Omega. I am the One who is and was and is coming. I am the Almighty.”
Revelation 1:8

When you and I trust God to be who He says He is, His promises become life-giving power for every need and circumstance.

4. Pray in the Name of Jesus

God met our greatest need in and through Jesus who lived the perfect life we are unable to live, suffered and died to take our punishment upon Himself and rose to life again proving God’s ultimate power over sin and death.

Paul wrote:

But thank God! He [Jesus] gives us victory over sin and death through our Lord Jesus Christ.
1 Corinthians 15:57

And because of the victory Jesus knew we would have in Him, He said…

I tell you the truth, you will ask the Father directly, and He will grant your request because you use my name. You haven’t done this before. Ask, using my name, and you will receive, and you will have abundant joy.
John 16:23–24

You and I pray in Jesus name … not as some magic formula to get God to fulfill our self whims and wishes but in faith, praying to give God glory, to follow His will, trusting His promises—confident in the name of Jesus, the Father will give us everything we need.

He’s already met our greatest need. He gave us Jesus to bridge the gap that sin created.

5. Pray Without Ceasing

So, back to practicing the presence of God … that is praying without ceasing.

I can be persistent in prayer when I trust and believe that God is with me.

When my circumstances are hard.
When I’m grieving.
When I’m afraid.
When I’m filled with joy.
When I’m at peace and when I’m stressed out.
When I’m washing the dishes and doing the laundry.
When I’m sitting in church and when I’m not.
When I’m running errands, sitting in traffic, or on the job.
Wherever I am…

David wrote…

Even when I walk
through the darkest valley,
I will not be afraid,
for You are close beside me.
Psalm 23:4

Jesus said…

“I am with you always, even to the end of the world.”
Matthew 28:20 (NLV)

And…

“If you love me, show it by doing what I’ve told you. I will talk to the Father, and He’ll provide you another Friend so that you will always have someone with you. This Friend is the Spirit of Truth.”
John 14:15–17a (MSG)

When I am aware of God’s presence, trusting that He is as close as my beating heart … I will simply talk with Him throughout the day.

That’s praying without ceasing.

Bringing every overwhelming or seemingly insignificant, my own or someone else’s to the “I Am” … the One who is, was, and always will be Lord of all.

The One who says…

“Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest.”
Matthew 11:28

That’s prayer – the kind of prayer that is inspired and deep … the kind that changes lives.

Prayers that…

are for God’s glory.
are surrendered to God’s will.
trust God is who He says He is.
are in the name of Jesus.
are persistent.

Prayers that come before the Father with child-like faith … humbly trusting His perfect unfailing love.

I believe by God’s grace these things will inspire and deepen my prayer life and I believe they will bless your prayer life too.

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Simple Prayers that will Help You Praise God in the Storm

10 / 10 / 1910 / 10 / 19

It's hard to praise God in the storm when I just want Him to stop the chaos. So, I've written prayers so I'm ready to praise Him even when life is hard. #Prayer #Faith #PraiseGod #Blessings #Hope

I can sing my heart out along with Casting Crowns anytime I hear – Praise You in this Storm.

And I’ll praise You in this storm
And I will lift my hands
That You are who You are
No matter where I am
And every tear I’ve cried
You hold in Your hand
You never left my side
And though my heart is torn
I will praise You in this storm

Or with Mercy Me when I hear – Bring the Rain.

So I pray…

Bring me joy, bring me peace
Bring the chance to be free
Bring me anything that brings You glory
And I know there’ll be days
When this life brings me pain
But if that’s what it takes to praise You
Jesus, bring the rain

I’ll admit, I’ve often had tears streaming down my face as I sing along because the truth is … sometimes it’s hard to praise and worship in the middle of the mess.

And it’s even harder to surrender the mess when I just want God to take it away. My heart wants to accept whatever it takes to bring Him glory but my stubborn humanness just wants it to go away.

When life is hard, my prayers include way more pleas than praise.

It hit me this week, that in those moments it would be so helpful if I had prayers of praise and worship ready to lift up when my heart hurts and soul aches … when I want to praise God in the storm.

And I thought you might find those prayers helpful too.

So, I’d love for you to join me as I pray…

Simple Prayers that Praise God in the Storm

“You are worthy, O Lord our God, to receive glory and honor and power. For You created all things, and they exist because You created what You pleased.”
Revelation 4:11

Father, when I look at the beauty of Your creation, I’m overwhelmed. You spoke and earth, sea, and sky came to be. Sun, moon, and stars filled the sky in perfect formation. Plants and animals filled the earth showing us Your creativity. Colors and forms beyond anything we could imagine came into being at Your command.

Then You created me and You even created people for me to love. Then when we made a mess of what You made … You gave us Your healing mercy and grace.

Thank you, Lord. I will lift Your name all the days of my life. You alone are worthy of my worship and praise for Yours is the kingdom, the power, and the glory forever.

Let all that I am praise the Lord; with my whole heart, I will praise His holy name. Let all that I am praise the Lord; may I never forget the good things He does for me.
Psalm 103:1–2

Father, life is hard and I’ve prayed and prayed. When I concentrate my attention and energy on my problems, I’m frustrated and discouraged. But when I remember all You have done for me in the past and cling to Your promises to provide for me now and in the future … I can face today with hope and peace.

Thank you, Lord. Life is hard but You are able! When I face the impossible I can trust You to give me everything I need. So, I will praise You. I will tell others of Your goodness and grace and I will live today for Your glory.

O Lord, You are my God. I will praise You. I will give thanks to Your name. For You have been faithful to do great things, plans that You made long ago.
Isaiah 25:1

Father, when I think of Your faithfulness, I am overwhelmed with gratitude and praise. Just a few verses later, Isaiah wrote — “You are a refuge from the storm and a shelter from the heat.”

You invite me to run to You in the middle of the storm and You promise to be my place of safety. Lord, I know You may not choose to change my circumstances but I believe You are forever faithful to give me everything I need to endure through. My days do not come as a surprise to You and with Your Spirit’s help, I can live each one for Your glory.

I prayed to the Lord, and He answered me. He freed me from all my fears. Those who look to Him for help will be radiant with joy; no shadow of shame will darken their faces.
Psalm 34:4–5

Father, this verse is so personal to me. You allowed me to live through one of my greatest fears and taught me that You are truly greater than my worst concern. You have and continue to forgive me … replacing my pain with the joy of Your presence.

David wrote, “Taste and see that the Lord is good. Oh, the joys of those who take refuge in Him!” And all I can say is, “Amen!”

In the beginning the Word already existed.
The Word was with God,
and the Word was God.
He existed in the beginning with God.
So the Word became human and made His home among us. He was full of unfailing love and faithfulness. And we have seen His glory, the glory of the Father’s one and only Son.
John 1:1–2,14

Father, I just want to thank and praise You for Jesus! The Word – who was with You at creation and promised by the prophets. The Word – who became fully human and lived a perfect life … full of inexhaustible love and truth.

And Your Word says, that because of Jesus, I can truly know You. Jesus Himself said, “No one truly knows the Son except the Father, and no one truly knows the Father except the Son and those to whom the Son chooses to reveal Him.” So today, I simply want to thank and praise You for allowing me to know and love You through Jesus by the power of the Holy Spirit.

I surrender my all to You. In the storm or when skies are clear, I will trust Your love, worship and praise Your holy name, and live each moment for Your glory. Help me by Your grace and the power of Your Spirit. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

One of the things I love about the Bible is reading the accounts of people of faith who were able to praise God in the storm.

I’m also thankful for the accounts of people like me, who at times cried out in fear before they felt God’s peace and strength … before their pleas became praise.

So, I will keep these prayers close at hand, always ready to praise God who is with me even in the worst of storms.

When life is hard and I want to praise God in the storm!

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How to Bless Your Mess with Less

10 / 7 / 1910 / 7 / 19

Bless your mess and enjoy your life by choosing less of the mental and emotional junk that hurts you and your relationships, #MentalHealth #Faith #BetterRelationships #BetterLife

We haven’t always been this organized.

But after our last two moves required an overwhelming and frustrating amount of purging … Rev and I decided never again!

To be honest, I’m not the one who’s organized. Rev is. He has arranged spaces and labeled storage boxes. You know the saying … “a place for everything and everything in its place.”

And I love it! I can actually find things. It’s awesome!

Do you want to know something that should be obvious but often isn’t?

It’s easier to be neat and organized when you have less stuff.

Learning the blessing of enjoying a more simplified physical life has inspired me to look into the possibility of simplifying the mental, emotional, and spiritual parts of me as well.

I’ve shared with you that I’m an easily distracted squirrel chaser. My thoughts and emotions too often pursue whatever darts by rather than…

[Breaking] down every thought and proud thing that puts itself up against the wisdom of God [and taking[ hold of every thought and make it obey Christ.
2 Corinthians 10:5 (NLV)

Wow, I can relate to Paul’s struggle to do what he not only knows he should do but what he wants to do! Can you relate to the struggle, too?

So, I’m making adjustments that will bless my inner mess with less so that with God’s help, I’ll live with less stress and anxiety and enjoy more peace and joy.

I’ve already started blessing my spiritual life with less by giving up reading what people say about the Bible and reading the Bible itself. You can read more about that here.

Now I’m working on my thoughts and emotions.

That means I need the Holy Spirit’s help, giving me everything I need to think about the “whatevers”…

Whatever is true, whatever is honorable and worthy of respect, whatever is right and confirmed by God’s Word, whatever is pure and wholesome, whatever is lovely and brings peace, whatever is admirable and of good repute; if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think continually on these things [center your mind on them, and implant them in your heart].
Philippians 4:8 (AMP)

Living with less is an admirable goal but if I just get rid of the mess in my head without replacing it with something better … agitation, anxiety, and all the junk that hurts me and my relationships will return in no time. So, when it comes to taking control of my mental and emotional squirrel chasing, I have to replace the negative triggers with God’s positive “whatevers.”

And here’s how I’m starting…

7 Ways to Bless Your Mess with Less

1. Less Talking and More Listening

I’m a talker! But I’m learning to be a better listener. I still have a lot to learn and I want to be teachable. I also have things to say and I want people to be willing to listen. So, I will…

Ask more questions and patiently listen to the answers.
Wait for the whole answer without interrupting.
Avoid distractions and I will make and maintain eye contact with the person with whom I talking.
Be caring, kind, and compassionate.

Fools think their own way is right, but the wise listen to others.
Proverbs 12:!5

2. Less Technology and More Face to Face

It’s so easy to get lost in the world of apps. Social media connects us with friends all over the world but too often, it keeps us from connecting with those we love who are right beside us. So I will…

Set aside my tablet and phone and enjoy technology-free times with the people I love.
Find other things I can do with family and friends.
Choose one family member to talk with in person or on the phone each day.
Set a technology curfew and take a break.

Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other.
Romans 12:10

3. Less Worry and More Peace

I really need to replace my “what ifs” with “whatevers.” I have spent way too much of my life living worried and I’ve had enough! With God’s help, I will

Admit when I’m worried and identify the problem.
Pray. Give it to God and ask Him to replace my worry with His peace.
Memorize and trust God’s promises.
Live in the present, do what I can today and let go of what I can’t.

Can all your worries add a single moment to your life?And if worry can’t accomplish a little thing like that, what’s the use of worrying over bigger things?
Luke 12:25–26

4. Less Control and More Freedom

It’s funny how much most of us want to be in control. Offering control was the first temptation in the Garden … eat the fruit and “your eyes will be opened and you will be like God.” And since the first sin, a desire for control has been evident in everyone. Just spend time with a toddler!

The freedom I want can only be found in surrendering my life to the Lord, again and again, every single day. So, I will…

Prayerfully give up my will to God each morning.
Stop trying to manage every little detail of my life.
Accept that there are things I can’t change.
Walk away from perfectionism and enjoy the freedom I have in Jesus.

For you have been called to live in freedom. But don’t use your freedom to satisfy your sinful nature. Instead, use your freedom to serve one another in love.
Galatians 5:13

5. Less Complaining and More Celebrating

Grumbling and finding fault seems to be a way of life at the moment but when I chase the miserable squirrel of negativity, I am just that; I’m miserable. I stop noticing the countless blessings God has given me to celebrate. So, with His help, I will…

Count my blessings!
Carefully filter my input – the things I read, listen to and watch.
Intentionally look for the good in people and find joy in simplicity.
Celebrate my blessings … big and small.

Let all that I am praise the Lord; with my whole heart, I will praise His holy name.
Let all that I am praise the Lord; may I never forget the good things he does for me.
Psalm 103:1–2

6. Less Judging and More Forgiving

You’ve most likely heard the Mother Teresa quote…

If you judge people, you have no time to love them.

And God’s Word consistently says that we are to love people…

Continue to show deep love for each other, for love covers a multitude of sins.
1 Peter 4:8

And that forgiveness shows our love…

Love prospers when a fault is forgiven.

Be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.
Proverbs 17:9a and Ephesians 4:32

The truth is … being judgmental and angry ruins my peace, robs me of joy, and keeps me from loving well. So, I will…

Stop to remember how much God has forgiven in me.
Look at the bigger picture . . . there are many things I don’t know about the person you are judging.
Intentionally look for the good in people.
Give up my need to be “right.”

Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love each other. Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples.”
John 13:34–35

7. Less Fear and More Faith

I spent way too much of my life living in fear. I believed and trusted in Jesus for my eternal future but I wasn’t willing to depend on His ability to care for me each day. And let me tell you, that ain’t no way to live!

Jesus often said some variation of the following to His followers…

“Why are you afraid? Just have faith.”

By God’s grace, I now know that the Lord is able to give me the courage and strength I need each day. I believe I can trust His promise to…

“I am leaving you with a gift—peace of mind and heart. And the peace I give is a gift the world cannot give. So don’t be troubled or afraid.”
John 14:27

So, I will…

Remember the ways God has protected me in the past.
Ask myself if my fear is real or imagined.
Pray and give God my fears and ask Him to increase my faith and give me peace.
Memorize God’s promises that He is greater than my fear.

I am so ready to bless my mess with less.

What do you think?

Are you ready to bless your mess with less?

Are you ready to join me in chasing few squirrels so you can enjoy more of the Lord’s wonderful blessings?

Which less are you going to choose first?

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What Happens When You Pray the Promises of God

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God promised to give us everything we need for whatever we're living through. So, when I don't have the words ... I pray the promises of God. #Prayer #Faith #PromisesofGod #Hope

I always struggled to put my prayers into words. And in all honesty, most of the time, I tried to figure things out on my own before I’d pray about them.

When the kids were acting out, I’d read a couple of parenting books.
When one of us had health issues, I’d do a symptom check investigation.
When a relationship was strained, I’d go looking for advice from so-called relationship experts.

Oh sure, I prayed. But they typically went like this…

“Please heal __________.”
“Please help __________. “
“Please fix __________.”
“Please give __________.”

Now, I’m not saying those aren’t valid prayers or that we shouldn’t pray them. In fact, sometimes when I’m in the middle of a crisis and my emotions are frayed and thoughts scattered, those are the only words I can find.

But I’ve experienced something that has blessed and transformed my prayer life.

When I can’t find the words … God has filled Scripture with verses and prayers of His people. God’s Word gives me everything I need to go to Him with my burdens, gratitude, and praise.

The truth is, nothing you and I face is new to God. Solomon wrote…

History merely repeats itself. It has all been done before. Nothing under the sun is truly new.
Ecclesiasted 1:9

Nothing in our lives surprises or shocks our Father.

And He promises to give us everything we need for whatever we’re living through. So, when I don’t have the words … I pray the promises of God.

His Word helps me thank and praise Him, repent and implore. And praying Scripture imprints it on my heart and mind.

I’d love for you to join me as I …

Pray the Promises of God

This hope will never disappoint us, because God has poured out His love to fill our hearts. He gave us His love through the Holy Spirit, whom God has given to us.
Romans 5:5

Father, Thank you for the amazing and overwhelming gift of Your love. Your creation shows Your love and care but the One who came … who lived and died to show us Your love is our promised hope. Through Jesus’ resurrection, You give us the promise of victory over sin, death, and satan’s power. And from His ascension on through time, You give us the Spirit’s presence to fill us with love and the hope that will not disappoint.

I believe Your Word and trust Your promises. Please fill me with all I need today through Your Spirit. Fill my heart with faith, hope, and love – three blessings I can count on now and eternally.

Tell God what you need, and thank Him for all He has done. Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.
Philippians 4:6b–7

Father, I need You!

It’s funny, I can make a long list of things I thought I needed in my life … things I brought to You through pleading whines that bordered on childish tantrums. And the truth I’ve learned is whether You answered me with a “yes,” a “no,” or you asked me to “wait,” You always gave me what I needed. You always gave me Your best. How can I begin to thank you?

And when my circumstances were painful and hard, You gave me what I needed to live through them one moment at a time. Your grace is sufficient! In every high and every low, You are able to give me exactly what I need.

Resting on that truth gives me the peace I need. Today, I ask You to help me remember all You have done for me in the past that I might experience Your peace today and hope for tomorrow.

The Lord is faithful; He will strengthen you and guard you from the evil one.
2 Thessalonians 3:3

Lord, Thank you! You are faithful! You are the same yesterday, today, and forever. Your children are safe under Your care.

When I look around, it feels like the enemy at work everywhere. Your Word says He will use every kind of deception to fool the world. And Jesus taught that we should pray and ask You to deliver us from evil.

Please protect me through the enemy’s attacks on my heart and mind. Give me the strength I need and keep me focused on You, Lord … remembering how You have faithfully given me the strength and protection I have needed in the past.

Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.
Romans 12:2

Father, these words are unsettling. I see churches adjusting to the world’s customs and behavior. James wrote, “If you need wisdom, ask our generous God, and He will give it to you.” I need wisdom. I want to know Your truth that gives freedom from the world’s lies. I want to know, trust, and follow Your will.

Please transform my heart and mind through Your Word and the power of Your Spirit. Make me humble and teachable. Help me listen and fill me with love. Give me the courage and strength I need to obey You even when everyone around me is not. I need You, Lord, and surrender myself to You.

We know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to His purpose for them.
Romans 8:28

Father, I rest my heart, mind, and soul on this beautiful promise. You are always working in my life doing what is best for my eternal future. I’ll admit, sometimes it’s hard to find the “good.” Sometimes people are cruel and life is painful. And in those moments, it’s hard for me to remain focused on You.

Help me cling to the promises that…

You are good. (Psalm 119:28)
You are love. (1 John 4:16)
You are my refuge and strength. (Psalm 46:1)
You are merciful. (2 Corinthians 1:3)
You are my Savior. (Psalm 68:20)

Whatever is going on around me … You are at work for my good and Your glory. I can trust this promise because I know that my ultimate good is to spend my life now and forever surrounded by Your glory and love.

Thank you, Father. In Jesus name. Amen.

So…

What Happens When You Pray the Promises of God

God promises to hear you. (1 John 5:14)

We are confident that He hears us whenever we ask for anything that pleases Him.

God gives you hope that does not disappoint. (Romans 5:5)
God gives you hard to understand peace. (Philippians 4:6–7)
God reveals His will for you. (Romans 12:2)
God gives you strength and protection for your circumstances. (2 Thessalonians 3:2–3)
God works in your life for your good and His glory. (Romans 8:28)

What is your favorite of the promises of God?
Think about how you might add it to your prayers.

Blessings!

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How to Read the Bible in a Way that will Change Your Life

9 / 30 / 199 / 30 / 19

Why I believe reading and studying the Bible is so important. But actually sitting down to read the Bible and letting God speak through His Word. #Bible #BibleStudy #BibleReading #Blessings

I get religion.

It’s always been a part of my life.

I grew up in church, attended parochial schools, became a church organist in high school, a parochial teacher after college, and I married a minister.

Like a piece of modeling clay, I was poked here and pinched there until I was shaped into what I call a “good little church girl.”

I’ve attended more Bible Studies and church services than I can count.

Some might say, I have been indoctrinated even “brainwashed.

And there was a time in my life when they would have been right. You see, everything I knew about my faith … I’d learned from other people.

Oh sure, I read and memorized the required parts of the Bible when I was in school and studied the verses that were listed in every Bible Study I’ve attended but through most of my life … I allowed other people to teach me their understanding of what the Bible taught and that greatly influenced what I believed.

Now please don’t misunderstand, I believed in Jesus as my Savior! This post is not about questioning whether or not I had faith.

It is about…

What I was missing in my life because I was sitting at the feet of people rather than sitting at the feet of Jesus.

So, I want to tell you why I believe reading and studying the Bible is so important. Not just reading what people say about the Bible. Not just attending topical Bible Studies. Not just listening to sermons and “messages.”

But actually sitting down to read the Bible and letting God speak through His Word.

In response to some of the comments I received at – You Need to Answer the Most Important Question about Jesus … I want to answer a few questions.

What initiated my love for the Bible.
Why I trust the Bible.
Why I don’t read many books written about the Bible.

And tell you…

How to Read the Bible in a Way that will Change Your Life

1. I love the Bible because…

I fell in love with reading the Word of God almost 15 years ago.

At the time, I was in a pit of despair … so completely broken that it was hard to function. I was having trouble getting out of bed and living my life. I didn’t want to see anyone or do anything.

By God’s grace, I picked up my Bible and a pen and I spent every spare moment reading and taking notes. Not a verse here and there but Genesis through Revelation … Creation through the Promised New Creation.

And as I prayed and asked Him to teach me through His Holy Spirit, God spoke to my broken heart…

He lifted me out of the pit of despair,
out of the mud and the mire.
He set my feet on solid ground
and steadied me as I walked along.
Psalm 40:2

Ever so slowly with each turn of the page, the Spirit filled me with hope, peace, and even joy. He showed me that even when others reject and forsake me … God never will. And I began to fall in love with my Creator and my Savior.

Like reading an amazing autobiography, I identified with the people of God’s Word. I could see myself…

taking a bite of the apple in the Garden.
depressed like Sarah.
grumbling like the wilderness wanderers.
broken like Job.
running like Jonah.
hiding and afraid like the disciples.

I’d love to see myself in the heroes of faith … but I identify more with the broken and needy. Because in their accounts, I see God’s constant and unwavering love.

And if He loved them like that, I can trust His love for me.

You see, I don’t see the Bible as a bunch of stories or a list of rules. For me, it is the greatest love letter ever written.

It is a message from God to His creation that He loves them so much He would rather die for them than live without them.

2. I trust the Bible because…

The Bible was written:

over a 1500 year span (from 1400 B.C to A.D. 100)
over 40 generations
over 40 authors from many walks of life (i.e. – kings, peasants, philosophers, fishermen, poets, statesmen, scholars)
in different places (i.e. – wilderness, dungeon, palaces)
at different times (i.e. – war, peace)
in different moods (i.e. – heights of joy, depths of despair)
on three continents (Asia, Africa, and Europe)
in three languages (Hebrew, Aramaic, and Greek)

At yet, it contains one message … one truth from Genesis through Revelation.

“For this is how God loved the world: He gave His one and only Son, so that everyone who believes in Him will not perish but have eternal life. God sent His Son into the world not to judge the world, but to save the world through Him.
John 3:16–17

Throughout history, as artifacts and historical documents have been unearthed and discovered … not one refutes the details of the Bible.

I’ve noticed through commenters online and conversations I’ve had in person … that most arguments against Christianity point to the failures and flaws of the Church – it’s leaders and members.

And you know what?

They’re right! People are messed up! Even people in the church. As much as we want to represent Christ well, we fail.

Paul wrote…

I want to do what is right, but I can’t. I want to do what is good, but I don’t. I don’t want to do what is wrong, but I do it anyway.
Romans 7:18b–19

And Paul’s right! But he’s not excusing bad behavior, he’s reminding the people reading his letter why they need Jesus.

A few verses later, he wrote…

What a miserable person I am! Who will free me from this life that is dominated by sin and death?Thank God! The answer is in Jesus Christ our Lord.
Romans 7:24–25a

For me, the message of the Bible – the truth I want people to trust … is that God’s love made evident in Scripture culminates in the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus. And a life surrendered to Jesus, no matter how broken by sin, will be transformed into a life of love that will live forever.

3. I don’t read many other books about the Bible because…

Although, I used to be an avid reader of books written by Bible teachers.

Lately, I’ve observed that although there are, I’m sure, many books which are Biblically sound … there are also others that contain a culture pleasing bias.

I don’t have the time or the energy to join the arguments about what teachings are Biblical and true and those that aren’t.

I feel God has called me to tell people about His transforming love.

Jesus said…

So now I am giving you a new commandment: Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love each other. Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples.”
John 13:34–35

I want to tell people and, to the best of my imperfect ability, show people the love of Jesus. I want them to know His power to lift them out of the “pit” and place them on a firm foundation built on His love. I want them to enjoy the freedom He gives to live with peace, hope, and joy.

So, I read my Bible and I write and tell my story.

Because I want people to know the One who says … I love you and I want to change your life.

Finally,

I’m often asked about my preferred Bible choice.

Rev once asked a theology professor, who was an expert in ancient Greek and Hebrew texts, what translation of the Bible he recommended and his answer…

The one you will read!

I agree.

My favorite translation is the New Living Translation.
My favorite Bible is the Life Application Bible. (The notes are so helpful!)

The past two years I’ve read it in the Genesis to Revelation – format. Next year I’m reading it Chronologically.

I always have a notebook, pen, and highlighter with me when I read … marking and writing the verses that speak to my heart.

If you’re struggling with any part of life or even if your not … if you’d just like to change your life for the better, let the Holy Spirit speak to you through the pages of the Bible.

You don’t have to spend hours a day. Just start with the time you have. Leave your Bible open on a counter and read a few verses here and there throughout the day. Read a couple of verses from Proverbs in the morning and a Psalm before bed.

If you want to fall in love with the God of the universe and His Son, Jesus, if you want to know the difference His love can make in your life … read the Bible!

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5 Prayers that Thank God for the Gift of Life

9 / 19 / 199 / 19 / 19

We've been counting Bonus Days for 12 years when a life-changing event made us realize that every day is a gift of life and a reason to rejoice. #BonusDays #GiftofLife #Miracles #CountingMyBlessings #Livewithhope

September 20th, 2019 is Bonus Day 4,383.

How do I know? Because Rev writes the number on his calendar every single morning.

It is sometimes hard to believe it’s been 12 years since the miracle – since Bonus Day #1.

I have so many memories imprinted on my heart and mind … moments from days, weeks, and yes, months all leading up to September 20, 2007.

To name a few. There were:

Symptoms that looked like heart failure which continued to get worse all without a diagnosis or explanation.
Trips to doctors for tests and procedures we hoped would lead to cures and answers.
The times they had to drain liters of fluid off his lungs.
And family and friends who covered us in prayer as we waited for God’s peace and healing.

Finally, after almost a year … we learned that something called a Pericardial Stripping was the only way, short of a miracle, to save Rev’s life. However, it’s a surgery that most cardiac surgeons don’t want to do and one they were doubtful Rev’s body was strong enough to survive at the time. If you would like to read more of the story, you can find it here and here.

Most families celebrate birthdays, anniversaries, and holidays.

In the Bible, God told His children to celebrate festivals. Days they were to rejoice and remember His deliverance and protection. His miraculous grace and mercy.

Days of praise and prayers.

So, today … I’m going to God with a festival of praise and I’d love for you to join me.

You may not have a specific life and death situation where you saw God’s miraculous intervention … but through Jesus, we have God’s divine protection in the greatest life and death situation of all. We have been offered an endless supply of Bonus Days and more reasons to thank and praise God than we can count. We have been forgiven and set free to celebrate forever … one day at a time.

So, let’s pray and thank God for the gift of life … today!

5 Prayers that Thank God for the Gift of Life

You saw me before I was born.
    Every day of my life was recorded in Your book.
Every moment was laid out
    before a single day had passed.
How precious are Your thoughts about me, O God.
    They cannot be numbered!
Psalm 139:16–17

Father, how do I begin to thank you the way I should for the gift of life. Your Word says You knew me before I was born. You knew the plans You had for me and prepared a path for me long ago.

When I think of Your grace and mercy, the people You have brought into my life, the opportunities You’ve placed before me, the ways You pursued me with Your love … it fills me with humble gratitude and overwhelming awe. Thank you!

I am so thankful for the gift of every Bonus Day! There are no promised days in this life … so every one is a gift, a day to celebrate and serve. Please help me. Fill me Your Spirit and help me trust, follow, and obey Your will for me today.

Give thanks to the Lord, for He is good!
    His faithful love endures forever.
This is the Lord’s doing,
    and it is wonderful to see.
This is the day the Lord has made.
    We will rejoice and be glad in it.
Psalm 118:1,23–24

Lord, You are so good! Your love is evident in the beauty of the world You created. It is realized in the gift of Jesus. And it is known in our hearts through the power of Your Spirit.

This day, today, is a gift from You! A Bonus Day to thank, praise, and serve You. A festival, a day to celebrate and rejoice in the simple gift of life. Whatever the day brings, may I live for Your glory. Thank you!

Let all that I am praise the Lord;
with my whole heart,
I will praise His holy name.
Let all that I am praise the Lord;
may I never forget the good things
He does for me.
Psalm 103:1–2

Father, I want to praise You with all I am. I love this reminder to never forget all the good things You have done for me … to remember to count my blessings.

It can be so easy to allow everything from little annoyances to big problems distract me from the countless good You pour into my life. Please forgive me.

Thank you for Your grace and mercy, for Your peace and protection, for the gift of family and friends, for hope and happiness, for love and forgiveness. Thank you for Jesus! Thank you for Bonus Days!

But then I recall all You have done, O Lord;
I remember Your wonderful deeds of long ago.
They are constantly in my thoughts.
I cannot stop thinking about
Your mighty works.
Psalm 77:11–12

Father, thank you for the gift of Your Word. I love reading about all You have done from creation to the promise of Jesus and a future forever in Your presence.

Thank you for the gift of faith and the ways You work in my heart and mind to draw me closer to You and to the knowledge of the Truth.

Thank you for giving us days to celebrate! Days like birthdays and anniversaries … days of deliverance and protection.

Please give me eyes to see Your hand at work around me each day and a heart of thanks and praise for Your loving presence in my life.

Praise the Lord!
Give thanks to the Lord, for He is good!
His faithful love endures forever.
Who can list the glorious miracles of the Lord?
Who can ever praise Him enough?
Psalm 106:1–2

Lord, I thank you! You have been so good to me! You have shown me Your faithful forever love over and over again! Your miracles surround me. Please give me … eyes to see, a heart full of gratitude, and an attitude of praise!

This is the day the Lord has made. I will rejoice and be glad! Amen.

Friend, I pray you have many reasons to celebrate God’s gift of life today!

It’s so easy for us to get caught up in the routines and busyness of life that we forget today is not just another day … it’s a blessing to celebrate. It’s a reason to rejoice.

It’s a gift. It’s a miracle.

It’s a Bonus Day!

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You Need to Answer the Most Important Question About Faith

9 / 16 / 199 / 16 / 19

Someone attacked my faith on social media and it inspired me to publicly ask and answer the most important question about faith. I invite you to answer it too... #religion #faith #atheism #thoughtprovokingquestion #questionaboutfaith

Last week, my friend, Beth, at Messy Marriage, shared my post – 5 Things Found in a Heart Being Changed by God on Twitter.

In response, someone who self-identified as an atheist tweeted a list of hashtags to both Beth and myself with the following … #ChristianFairyTale #Indoctrination#BlindFaith#Delusion#ImmoralBible#ChildishNonsense

In a later tweet, this person wrote the following…

Calling you out is an attempt to allow you to question what you’ve been taught, an invitation to reject the fairy tales and join the real world. You can do it. I know you can.

Since it seems that more and more people feel justified and almost self-righteous, if you will, in attacking those who have placed their faith in Jesus; and because I also feel like everyone from politicians to pastors are telling people what they want to hear and preaching a non-Biblical view of Christianity … I felt it might be time to rerun an older post that encourages all of us, Christians and non-Christians alike, to question what we believe.

I replied to the “atheist” on Twitter with a link to the post. You may have someone you would like to invite to stop, read this, and answer the question as well.

You Need to Answer the Most Important Question About Faith

I’ve asked God again and again if I’m really the person He wants to write these words.

It’s much easier to write feel-good grace-filled posts that remind us of God’s abundant goodness and mercy.

But the Lord just kept prompting me … so, I finally gave in.

And with His help:

I’m writing this for the person who wants to know what they believe and why they believe it.

I’m also writing it for the person who finds it easy to ridicule and mock those who (like me) have surrendered their lives to God through faith in His Son, Jesus Christ.

And I’m writing it for:

The person who has rejected the “crutch” of Christianity.
The person who has decided Jesus is one of the countless ways to God.
The person who believes there is no hell.
The person who is self-sufficient and too strong to need God.
The person who is too busy and doesn’t have time for God.
The person who puts their political views ahead of God’s Word.
The person who believes “good people” will go to heaven.
The person who believes this life is all there is.

So, to everyone listed above … I’d like to challenge you with a question about faith.

A question I hope will make you stop and think — and pray. One that will invite you to keep SEEKing until you know the answer.

So, here it is…

The Most Important Question

When it comes to what you believe…

What if I’m wrong about Jesus?

What if Jesus really is the Way, the Truth, the Life, and no one comes to God, the Father, except through Him? John 14:6

What if there is life after death? John 3:16

What if both heaven and hell are very real places? Revelations 20:12,15

What if I will have to stand before a holy and righteous God at the time of my death to give an account for the way I lived? Matthew 12:36

What if my good isn’t good enough? Ephesians 2:8–9

What if Jesus really is the only way to heaven? John 3:36

What if?

These questions are more important than where you’ll go to school or who you’ll marry, where you’ll live or what you’ll do.

Those questions are important … they’re just not the most important.

Why? Because the way you and I answer them determines our today, our tomorrow, and our forever.

Here is my answer to – When it comes to what I believe … what if I’m wrong?

Let me start by telling you what I believe.

I believe the Bible.
I believe in the Triune God – Father, Son, and Spirit … Creator, Savior, and Comforter.
I believe I am a sinner.
I believe Jesus, the Son of God … lived, died, and rose again to live forever.
I believe through faith in Jesus – I am forgiven and promised the gift of life forever in heaven with Him.
I believe God wants me to love and trust Him with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength. And I believe He wants me to love others in ways that show them how much He loves them.
I believe Jesus will return to judge everyone.

And I asked myself … what if I’m wrong?

What if there is no God. No Creator. No Resurrected Savior. No Comforting Holy Spirit. No life after death.

And my answer…

If I’m wrong and there is no God. If I’m wrong and Jesus isn’t the Way, Truth, and Life … I wouldn’t change a thing.

My life has been full of hope, unexpected joy, impossible to understand peace, indescribable strength when I needed it most, and miraculous healing.

And if I get to the end of my life and discover there is no life after this one … I can’t imagine having lived my life any other way. The things I chose to sacrifice out of obedience to the God of the Bible, protected me from so many problems and potential consequences … I don’t believe I missed out on a thing.

Have you ever stopped to think about that?

When I listen to people who believe followers of Jesus are weak, foolish, believe a “faith” tale, or even border on “mental illness,” I can’t help but notice how miserable and angry many of them seem.

So, whatever you believe, and everyone believes something—I’m inviting you to ask…

What if I’m wrong?

Consider what the Bible says about the “what if” questions I asked above.

What if there is life after death?

For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Romans 5:23

Jesus answered him, “Truly I tell you, today you will be with me in paradise.”
Luke 23:43

What if both heaven and hell are very real places?

“Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.
Matthew 7:13–14

What if you and I will have to stand before a holy and righteous God at the time of death to give an account for our lives?

I saw the dead, both great and small, standing before God’s throne. And the books were opened, including the Book of Life. And the dead were judged according to what they had done, as recorded in the books.

Anyone whose name was not found recorded in the Book of Life was thrown into the lake of fire.
Revelation 20:12,15

What if my good isn’t good enough?

^“And I tell you this, you must give an account on judgment day for every idle word you speak. The words you say will either acquit you or condemn you.” (Jesus to religious leaders)
Matthew 12:36–37

What if Jesus really is the only way to heaven?

Jesus told him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one can come to the Father except through me.” (to His disciples)
John 14:6

One more word from Jesus…

Jesus told a story of The Rich Man and Poor Lazarus. You can read it here.

One of the most moving parts of this story is when the rich man pleads with Abraham to allow Lazarus to return from the dead to warn His family…

“Then the rich man said, ‘Please, Father Abraham, at least send him to my father’s home. For I have five brothers, and I want him to warn them so they don’t end up in this place of torment.”
Luke 17:27–28

So, I’m inviting you to consider one more important question…

What if my loved ones – children, parents, siblings …. my relatives and friends are being influenced for eternity because of my beliefs?

So, please ask yourself…

What if I’m wrong?

And if it makes you stop and think for just moment or two, if you’re not sure about your relationship with God through Jesus, and wonder about your life today, tomorrow, and eternally…

Please seek the truth!

Ask questions. Pray. Ask God to reveal the truth to you. Talk to people who have placed their trust in Jesus. Don’t quit until you have answers.

I’ve never known anyone who sought the truth, who didn’t realize the only truth that matters is Jesus is the Way, the Truth, and the Life and that God is who He says He is in the Bible.

And…

This is good and pleases God our Savior, who wants everyone to be saved and to understand the truth. For, there is one God and one Mediator who can reconcile God and humanity—the man Christ Jesus. He gave His life to purchase freedom for everyone.
1 Timothy 2:3–6

God loves you so much, He sent Jesus to pay the price for every wrong you have ever done, every thoughtless or cruel word you have ever spoken, every single foolish mistake you’ve made.

You can trust Him. Nothing you have ever done can make Him love you less. He wants to cover you with His grace and mercy sacrificed in and through Jesus on the cross.

He loves us so much, He used 40 writers (prophets, priests, and kings; a fisherman, a doctor, and a tentmaker), taking over 1500 years, to write 66 books full of history, poems, letters, and prophecies all pointing to His plan to save sinners through Jesus.

I’d like to challenge you to read the Bible with an open heart and mind, asking God to reveal Himself to you through its pages.

Because I promise you…

There is no better way to live than faithfully trusting God’s promises.

Because even if I’m wrong and I don’t believe I am.

I wouldn’t change a thing!

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5 Prayers that will Help When You Want to Focus on Jesus

9 / 12 / 199 / 12 / 19

It's hard to focus on Jesus when circumstances are hard and life is crazy but the Bible says it's the way to have peace, strength, and the change you want. #Faith #Prayer #Jesus #Blessings

I don’t know about you, but one of the hardest parts of walking in faith for me is keeping my focus on Jesus.

It’s easy for me to get tossed around by my circumstances and my thoughts about those circumstances. Like the disciples, I can get so frightened by the storms that I fail to remember I have the One who calms the storm with me.

I can hear Jesus say…

“Why are you afraid? Do you still have no faith?”
Mark 4:40

And I realize it’s because even though the Lord has revealed His power countless times (His power to calm storms and/or to strengthen and calm me), I can still let life’s concerns distract and unsettle me.

I take my focus off Jesus and deny myself the blessings He wants me to have … blessings He wants to give me.

Today, I’m going to the Bible and praying God’s Word, asking for help to focus on Jesus and receive the strength and peace I need when the storms blow in and rock my boat.

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5 Prayers that will Help When You Want to Focus on Jesus

“Be still, and know that I am God!
I will be honored by every nation.
I will be honored throughout the world.”
Psalm 46:10

Father, when the enemy uses the noise of this world, the lure of negativity and controversy on social media, and circumstances in my life to distract, discourage, and distress me … please help me. Please forgive me for the times I’ve joined in on the noise and negativity. Forgive me for the times I’ve agonized over the way things might be without trusting You to give me everything I need to live today with the way things are.

Please help me to “be still and know” You. Help me remember the many times You have met my need in the past. The times You have calmed the storm and delivered me. And the times You have allowed the storm to continue but given me strength and peace. You are Lord of all – worthy of all my worship and praise. Thank you!

Let us run with endurance the race God has set before us.We do this by keeping our eyes on Jesus, the champion who initiates and perfects our faith.
Hebrews 12:1b–2a

Father, Forgive my stumbles and weaknesses. Forgive me for the times I’ve gotten off track because of fear, worry, and doubt. You have plans and purposes prepared for me as I run my race. Please help me. Give me the endurance I need to keep moving along the path. Help me keep my focus on Jesus, the One in whom my faith is found.

Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise.
Philippians 4:8

Father, Please help me focus my heart and mind on You and on Your truth as You have revealed it through Your Word. You tell us what is true, honorable, pure, lovely, and admirable. Please forgive me for the times I have listened to and entertained distortions of Your Word. By the power of Your Spirit, please help me.

Father, I love You! By Your grace, help me SEEK You first. love You with all I am, and focus my heart and mind on that You have made excellent and praiseworthy!

My child, pay attention to what I say.
    Listen carefully to my words.
Don’t lose sight of them.
    Let them penetrate deep into your heart,
for they bring life to those who find them,
    and healing to their whole body.
Guard your heart above all else,
    for it determines the course of your life.
Proverbs 4:20–21

Father, may I make time with You a priority in my life. May I sit at Your feet through the study of Your Word and may I prayerfully talk with You throughout each day. Lord, may Your truth be so imprinted on my heart and mind that I rely on them when the enemy tempts me and the world unsettles me.

Father, there are so many things I could do better that would guard my heart. I could carefully limit my time on social media and show more discernment in the things I choose for entertainment. Please help me make wise choices on the teachings I absorb, the books I read, and the things I hear and observe. By the power of Your Spirit, help me make decisions that are pleasing to You.

Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.
Romans 12:2

Father, I give my life to You. I surrender my heart and mind and ask You to transform me into the person You want me to be. Mold me. Change me. Focus my heart on mind on You that I might know and follow Your will for me. Your Word says that when I seek You first … You will give me everything I need. What an awesome and amazing blessing! Thank you! Help me, in the name of Jesus, trust and obey Your good, pleasing, and perfect will for my good and Your glory. Amen.

Sometimes I wish God’s transformation was more like flippin’ a switch than remodeling a house. The process of knocking down walls, tossing the junk, replacing and rebuilding with new … is slow and tedious.

It takes patience.

Once again, I’m thanking God for His patience and persistence with me as He works to change me. I’m praising Him for the gift of His Spirit who helps me focus on Jesus and receive peace and strength when I’m impatient and discouraged.

God’s grace is sufficient. It is well with my soul.

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5 Things Found in a Heart Being Changed by God

9 / 9 / 199 / 8 / 19

The Bible says the Holy Spirit transforms us but what does that mean. How should I look if I'm being changed by God? Here are 5 changes God is making in us. #Faith #Bible #HolySpirit #Seekfirst #Truth

There certainly seems to be a wide range of views on what it takes to be a Christian and unfortunately, there seems to be more finger-pointing and judging of other people’s Christianity than there is humble and prayerful introspection.

So, I decided to take a look to see what the Bible says about the ways God wants to transform His children.

I started by asking myself the following question…

If I didn’t actually speak the words that said, “I’m a Christian” would people be able to tell just by the things I say and do? Would they know I’m a follower of Jesus in the process of being transformed by God?

Jesus told the people who followed Him…

From that time Jesus began to preach, saying, “Change your hearts and lives, because the kingdom of heaven is near.”
Matthew 4:17

And Paul said it’s the Holy Spirit who makes it happen.

All of us, then, reflect the glory of the Lord with uncovered faces; and that same glory, coming from the Lord, who is the Spirit, transforms us into His likeness in an ever greater degree of glory.
2 Corinthians 3:18

We don’t talk about that much anymore, do we? Often the message we’re hearing is that we’re perfect—just the way we are.

Although, I truly believe God loves us the way we are … I also believe He loves us so much He wants better for us than the messes we make for ourselves by excusing worldly ideas and values.

But there is good news!

When it comes to godly transformation you and I are not left on our own to figure out where we need to change! Praise God, the Holy Spirit is at work within us.

Yet, the Holy Spirit doesn’t work in a vacuum. If you and I only fill our hearts and minds with the world’s views and values … we will begin to believe the persuasive lies of the world.

Which is why, I believe, Jesus told His followers to be SEEKers.

To SEEK His truth and surrender to the Spirit’s transforming power … that we would be “changed by God.”

So, I’m going to the Word looking for the qualities God says He wants in His children and surrendering my heart and mind … asking the Holy Spirit to teach me the Truth and work transforming power in my life.

I’d love for you to join me…

5 Things Found in a Heart Being Changed by God

1. A changed heart begins with love for God.

It sounds easy, doesn’t it? Simply love God. But we throw around the word “love” so easily … I want to know what it means to “love God” the way He wants me to love Him.

Jesus said…

You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, all your mind, and all your strength.
Mark 12:30

I wrote a post about loving God heart, soul, mind, and strength … you can find it here.

The word “all” is a big word, isn’t it? With all I am … with everything I’ve got!

When I love someone, I want to spend time with them. I want to do things for them and show appreciation for the things they do for me. And I want to show them I love them by doing things that please them.

So, when it comes to loving the Lord, I want to spend time in His Word and in prayer. I want to live in ways that show how grateful I am for all He’s done for me. I want to know His will, trust His Word, and follow His commands … to show Him my love by doing what pleases Him.

Which is why #2 is…

2. A changed heart continues through knowing and trusting Jesus’ teaching.

If I’m going to do what pleases God, I need to know what pleases Him.

Jesus said,

“You are truly my disciples if you remain faithful to my teachings. And you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”
John 8:31–32

I want to know the truth that gives me freedom!

Jesus went on to say,

So if the Son sets you free, you are truly free.
John 8:36

Jesus is the Truth that gives me freedom.

I want to know, trust, and follow Jesus’ commands because I love Him but I also know that no matter how hard I try … I will fall short of His perfect will.

Knowing and following Jesus’ teaching is doing my best to please Him while completely trusting that is His sacrifice alone that saves me.

God saved you by His grace when you believed. And you can’t take credit for this; it is a gift from God. Salvation is not a reward for the good things we have done, so none of us can boast about it.
Ephesians 2:8–9

3. A changed heart demonstrates itself through living with thankfulness for God’s gift.

Be thankful in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you who belong to Christ Jesus.
1 Thessalonians 5:18

I’ve done nothing to deserve the gift of God’s grace, mercy, and love.

I have always loved Lysa Terkeurst’s quote…

“God’s love isn’t based on me. It’s simply placed on me. And it’s the place from which I should live . . . loved.”

When you and I know the blessing of living under God’s grace, mercy, and love we can’t help but respond with gratitude and thanksgiving. They become our natural reaction to all of God’s past, present, and future work in our lives.

4. A changed heart wants to obey Jesus’ command to love others.

Jesus commanded His followers…

“Love each other in the same way I have loved you.”
John 15:12

This is hard, isn’t it? Honestly, much of the time it feels impossible.

It seemed difficult enough when Jesus affirmed…

“Love your neighbor as yourself.”
Matthew 22:39

But to love as He loves.

I can’t do that without His help. Which is why I need the Spirit’s transforming help to not give up to “impossible” but trust that with the Holy Spirit’s transforming help, I can love others even when it’s hard.

Paul wrote…

Instead, be kind to each other, tender-hearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.
Ephesians 4:32

I want to glorify God by showing kind, tender-hearted, forgiving love to others. Can you imagine the difference God’s children could make it the world if we all surrendered to the Holy Spirit … inviting Him to love others through us. Letting Him help us love like Jesus.

5. A changed heart trusts God’s will one day at a time.

God is working in you, giving you the desire and the power to do what pleases Him.
Philippians 2:13

Something I’ve always struggled with is living focused on the present. It’s always been easy for me to relive the past and worry about the future.

I am so thankful the Lord continues to work on me and in me. By His grace, I have experienced peace, strength, and courage at times when I knew it had to be God’s transforming work in me.

During my morning prayer time, I surrender every day to the Lord. Whew, that’s not me. That could only happen with God’s help.

One of life’s greatest blessings is knowing God is able to transform surrendered hearts.

This is important…

People whose hearts are being changed by God aren’t perfect. They are forgiven! They trust and love God’s promise to continue the work He began in them when they first believed.

I am certain that God, who began the good work within you, will continue his work until it is finally finished on the day when Christ Jesus returns.
Philippians 1:6

What an awesome promise!

Will you join me in trusting God’s love and power to change hearts by His grace and use those He is changing for His glory!

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Prayers that will Strengthen When You Have Weak Faith

9 / 5 / 19

We want to be strong. We want a mountain-moving faith. But fear and doubts get in the way. These prayers will give you strength when you have weak faith. #Faith #Prayer #PromisesofGod #Bible

This verse has been rattling around my head and stirring my heart this week…

Why do you have so little faith?
Matthew 6:30

I keep thinking about the times Jesus’ followers allowed their fears and worries to overshadow their trust in the Lord.

And if I’m being honest, I have to admit I have times when I’m guilty.

Like Peter, I can jump out of the boat enthusiastic about walking on water only to get distracted by the strength of the wind and the water that’s splashing around my ankles.

And before I know it, I’ve taken my eyes off Jesus and the water is up around my knees as I allow fear to take over.

Maybe you can relate.

But the more I’ve thought about it … I’m noticing the blessing of the moments that followed.

You see, there is grace for our sinking moments of weak faith. Look at what happened next between Jesus and Peter.

“Save me, Lord!” [Peter] shouted.

Jesus immediately reached out and grabbed him.
Matthew 14:30–31

Peter cried out and Jesus reached out. And…

When they climbed back into the boat, the wind stopped. Then the disciples worshiped Him. “You really are the Son of God!” they exclaimed.
Matthew 14:32–33

The Good News is that when we have weak faith, we can cry out to Jesus trusting that He will reach out and grab hold of us.

And when we’ve climbed back into the boat with our eyes fixed on Him … we will worship and praise Him for lifting us up yet again.

So, if you feel like you’re sinking today. If the wind and the waves of life are pulling you under … join me as I cry out to Jesus asking Him to grab hold of me and strengthen my faith.

Prayers that will Strengthen When You Have Weak Faith

The father instantly cried out, “I do believe, but help me overcome my unbelief!”
Mark 9:24

Jesus, Please help me. I believe You are my Lord and Savior. I believe You are able to answer this prayer. But right now I feel overwhelmed. I’m worried about people I love. The enemy’s attacks leave me unsettled and anxious. Please help me overcome my doubts. Help me trust You in my circumstances whatever they are. And please help me keep my focus on You as I pray, “not my will but Yours be done.”

And the Holy Spirit helps us in our weakness. For example, we don’t know what God wants us to pray for. But the Holy Spirit prays for us with groanings that cannot be expressed in words.
Romans 8:26

Father, thank you for giving us the gift of Your Spirit. When problems distract me and I feel like I’m sinking into the sea of doubt and confusion, when I can’t find the words to express my feelings or put my needs into prayers, please help me. Your Word says Your Spirit prays for me. He brings my “wordless sighs and aching groans” (MSG) to You in ways that align with Your will. And Father, You not only hear those prayers for me but You take action in ways that bless me and give You glory.

Please help me trust this promise today and every day.

Let your roots grow down into Him, and let your lives be built on Him. Then your faith will grow strong in the truth you were taught, and you will overflow with thankfulness.
Colossians 2:7

Lord, this is my prayer … may my life might be built on a foundation of Your grace, mercy, and love. That I would know, trust, and follow Your truth as it is revealed in Your Word. Fill me with Your Spirit and give me all I need to stand strong in the faith You have given me. Give the faith I need to walk on water.

When the enemy tempts me with doubts and lies … please help me remain focused on You, the One who began my faith and makes it perfect. Thank you for giving me all I need to walk with You one day at a time.

When the Spirit of truth comes, He will guide you into all truth. He will not speak on His own but will tell you what He has heard. He will tell you about the future.
John 16:13

Thank you for giving Your Spirit of truth to us.

The father of lies is intent on causing chaos and confusion and there are times when all the unsettling noise troubles me. But I have Your Spirit, the Voice of Truth, with and within me. He reminds me of Your promises. He fills me with hope. He helps me climb back into the boat where I will give You thanks and shout Your praise.

Whatever the future brings … You are with me to give me the courage, strength, and guidance I need.

I pray that from His glorious, unlimited resources He will empower you with inner strength through His Spirit. Then Christ will make His home in your hearts as you trust in Him. Your roots will grow down into God’s love and keep you strong.
Ephesians 3:16–17

Father, You are the Creator of all things. You maintain and sustain everything by Your infinite power. The same power, that strengthens me when my faith is weak.

Your intimate compassionate love reaches every corner of my life. You are with me no matter what is happening to me or around me. Help me see my circumstances from Your perspective. Increase my faith and give me all I need to trust Your love and live for Your glory.

Friend, I’m worshipping and praising Jesus in the boat and with His help, I believe I can walk on water even when the winds grow strong and the water is rough.

Not because of who I am or even because of my faith but because the One in whom I have placed my faith will always hear my cries, reach out and grab me.

I believe that’s true for you, too. That’s just how much He loves us.

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When You Need to Know How to Be Strong – Put God First

9 / 2 / 199 / 2 / 19

When you and I know and trust God's promises we can put God first and live with the strength we need to follow His will even when life is crazy and hard. #Bible #Promises #Seek #Blessings #Faith

Would you describe yourself as someone who is strong? What about your faith? Is your faith strong?

I would like to be able to answer with a resounding “yes” consistently but the fact is, I’ve had times when I’m humbled by the strength God has given me and times when I’m ashamed at the way I’ve allowed fear to overwhelm me.

I’ve heard Jesus say…

Why do you have so little faith?

The truth is, my faith is weak when I fail to trust Jesus’ promise…

All the people in the world are trying to get these things, and your Father knows you need them. But seek God’s kingdom, and all your other needs will be met as well.
Luke 12:30–31 (NCV)

My faith is weak when I fail to seek God first … when life gets crazy busy and distractions lead to worry and anxiety.

You see, I’ve learned that I struggle most when I fail to consistently seek God first.

Which made me ask myself … what does seeking a God-first life look like?

I believe the answer is…

A God-First Life Trusts God’s Promises and Surrenders to God’s Will.

Before I can trust God’s promise … I need to know God’s promises!

Promises like:

For Your unfailing love is as high as the heavens.
Your faithfulness reaches to the clouds.
Psalm 57:10

For Jesus Christ, the Son of God, . . . is God’s ultimate “Yes,” He always does what He says.For all of God’s promises have been fulfilled in Christ with a resounding “Yes!” And through Christ, our “Amen” (which means “Yes”) ascends to God for His glory.
2 Corinthians 1:19–20

But if we confess our sins to Him, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all wickedness.
1 John 1:9

For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.
Jeremiah 29:11

“I am leaving you with a gift—peace of mind and heart. And the peace I give is a gift the world cannot give. So don’t be troubled or afraid.
John 14:27

The next thing I need to surrender is my will to the truth of God’s promises.

But I’m going to be honest with you. I fall short! I look around and see the many bad things happening in this sinful world and that’s when doubts creep in tempting me to hold back a little, trust a little less and do a little more of whatever I can to be in control my of own circumstances.

Yes, I’m guilty.

Like Eve, I have LISTENED TO THE ENEMY’s WORDS IN THE GARDEN. “DID GOD REALLY SAY?”

Maybe you can relate.

The problem is, when you and I fail to take those “Did God really say” doubts to the truth of God’s Word, we start to question His absolute truth and give ourselves permission to tweak His will a little here and there to make it align more comfortably with culture so we can be in control.

It’s crazy how many painful consequences we experience because we, like Eve and Adam, listen to the original words of temptation and allow our doubts to not only question but edit God’s will.

Imagine what would happen if we stopped before we grabbed the apple and took that bite? If we took our questions and doubts straight to God … surrendering our will again and trusting His promises one more time to give us the strength and power we need?

I love these words of Isaiah…

Have you never heard?
    Have you never understood?
The Lord is the everlasting God,
    the Creator of all the earth.
He never grows weak or weary.
    No one can measure the depths
of His understanding.
He gives power to the weak
    and strength to the powerless.
Isaiah 40:28–29

God wants us to bring our doubts and questions to Him, so He can replace them with the truth. Absolute truth which is able to give us His power and strength.

Which is what we need to live a God-first life.

So, I’ve written 5 steps I want to consistently apply to my life to have the power and strength I need.

Power and strength He is able to give me.

Power and strength God wants to give me.

5 Steps to Help You Put God First

1. MAKE SPENDING TIME WITH GOD A PRIORITY.

I like the saying, “Make time for quiet moments, as God whispers and the world is loud.”

It’s true. The world is shouting ideas and values that are contrary to God’s Word. I know I need to spend time in prayer, read my Bible, memorize His promises, and spend time with people who put God first if I want to know His truth and trust His will.

Jesus said, “You are truly my disciples if you remain faithful to my teachings. And you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”
John 8:31–32

2. TAKE EVERY DOUBT AND QUESTION TO GOD.

When the enemy tempts me to doubt and question God’s will … I need to take those feelings and frustrations to God. I need to ask Him to show me the truth and give me everything I need to surrender my will to Him.

Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.
Romans 12:2

3. TAKE A PRIORITY ASSESSMENT.

I’m taking a look at my calendar and budget. I’m assessing my emotional health. I want to know where I’m spending my time, money, and effort. Then I will evaluate my attitudes and decide if the way I’m living really demonstrates God-first living.

Trust in the Lord with all your heart;
do not depend on your own understanding.
Seek his will in all you do,
and he will show you which path to take.
Proverbs 3:5–6

4. ASK GOD FOR HELP TO START MAKING CHANGES.

When I know where my time, money, and efforts are being spent, it’s time to pray. I need God’s help to completely surrender every area of my life but I believe He will help me trust His will and start making choices that put Him first.

Keep on asking, and you will receive what you ask for. Keep on seeking, and you will find. Keep on knocking, and the door will be opened to you.
Matthew 7:7

5. TRUST GOD’S LOVE

I plan on repeating the following phrase as often as necessary… “God loves me. I am His child. He knows and wants what is best for me in every situation and every relationship.”

Despite all these things, overwhelming victory is ours through Christ, who loved us. And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love.No power in the sky above or in the earth below—indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Romans 8:37–39

I have victory in Jesus and with His help, I can put God first and love Him with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength.

I FOUND THE FOLLOWING BY RICK WARREN On Ways to Put God First:

Finances. If you want God to bless your finances, even during a recession, you must tithe. Sorry! There’s no other alternative.
Interests. Put Him first in your hobbies, your career, and your recreation. Give God first consideration in every decision.
Relationships. Put Him first in your family, your marriage, and your friendships.
Schedule. That means you give Him the first part of every day. You get up and sit on the side of your bed every morning and say, “God if I don’t get anything else done today, I just want to love you a little bit more and know you a little bit better.”
Troubles. You need to turn to God first when you have a problem. Prayer should never be your last resort. It should be your first choice.

When you and I put God first in everything … life is better.

We will have the strength we need and be blessed with the joy we want no matter what is going on around us.

Don’t believe me?

Look around. How does the other way seem to be working for people?

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6 of the Best Ways to Calm Back to School Anxiety

8 / 12 / 198 / 12 / 19

Back to school anxiety is normal for students, parents, and teachers. There are helpful things you can do to prepare and start the year with less stress. #schooltips #firstdayofschool #anxietyrelief #prayer #planning #schoolplanning #teachers

Does it feel like the summer passed by in a blink? Our summer break was shortened because of last year’s numerous snow days. So, it seems even harder to believe that it’s time … already!

Whether you’ve taken your first day of school photos or you have a few more days or weeks of anticipation … going back to school can be stressful and filled with apprehension.

I’ve experienced back to school anxiety as a student, teacher, and parent; so, I thought I might be able to share a few tips for calming back to school anxiety and help you can begin the year with as little stress as possible.

The fact that everyone is feeling a little anxious shouldn’t surprise us…

Students are Wondering…

Will I make friends?
Will I like my teachers?
Will my teachers like me?
Am I smart enough?
Will I get bullied?
Will kids make fun of me?
Will I get lost?
How much homework will I have?
Will I miss the bus?
Will I be bored?
Will I make the team, the choir, or get a part in the play?
Will I like school?

Parents are Wondering…

Will my children like their teachers?
Will their teachers like them?
Will they get a good teacher?
Will they succeed academically?
Will they make friends easily?
Will they make the team, the choir, or be chosen for the play?
How many extra activities are too many?
How can I make sure they get enough sleep?
Will they eat a good lunch?
Will my child get bullied?
Will they be happy?

And Teachers are Wondering…

Will my students like me?
Will my students respect me?
How many authority challengers will I have in my class?
How many learning challenged students will I have?
What can I do to keep their attention?
Will this year’s staff be helpful and supportive?
Will I have enough time to get everything done?
Will my family suffer as I try to do it all?
Will I be an effective motivator?

Whew! And it’s possible I missed the thing that’s making you or your child the most anxious.

After years of coping with my own apprehension, nerves, and questions while also trying to calm my children as they struggled with back to school anxiety … I created a list of tips I believe will make the transition back to school a little less stressful and more enjoyable for everyone involved.

6 of the Best Ways for Calming Back to School Anxiety

1. Talk About School Positively

It’s fine to say you’ll miss the extra time you’ve enjoyed this summer as you reminisce about all the fun you’ve shared; but as you do, remind yourself and your child of the things you enjoy about the school year, too. Talk about sporting events and concerts, seeing their friends every day, and the new things you will learn together.

Be positive and enthusiastic.

Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise.
Philippians 4:8

2. Get a Little One on One Time

Maybe it’s a little school shopping or a lunch or ice cream date. Take an hour or two for alone time with each child going back to school. A time to talk about what they’re looking forward to as well as what they’re not.

“Affirming words from moms and dads are like light switches. Speak a word of affirmation at the right moment in a child’s life and it’s like lighting up a whole room full of possibilities.” ~ Gary Smalley

Just listen and affirm their feelings. Don’t be quick to have an answer or solve things for them.

Then you’ll be ready to…

3. Help Your Child Problem Solve

When you know the things making your child anxious, you’re ready to start helping them plan and prepare ways they might react if some of them happen. Ask questions, “How do you think you could react in that situation?” or “What do you think is the best thing to do if that happens?”

You might even share some stories from your own childhood … things that worked and things that didn’t!

“Thirty years ago my older brother, who was ten years old at the time, was trying to get a report written on birds that he’d had three months to write, which was due the next day. We were out at our family cabin in Bolinas, and he was at the kitchen table close to tears, surrounded by binder paper and pencils and unopened books about birds, immobilized by the hugeness of the task ahead. Then my father sat down beside him put his arm around my brother’s shoulder, and said, “Bird by bird, buddy. Just take it bird by bird.” ~ Anne Lamott

That’s some good advice!

4. Prepare and Organize

Teachers are busy planning, organizing, and preparing . . . parents and students can do the same.

Start by setting goals for your family’s schedule. Make a list of possible meals to make when you’re short on time. Have your children help set up a homework space, and work on a central information station to keep the never-ending stack of papers and busy schedules organized.

“Always plan ahead. It wasn’t raining when Noah built the ark.” ~Richard Cushing

Noah was trusting God and following His plans…

Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek His will in all you do, and He will show you which path to take.
Proverbs 3:5–6

5. Ease into the New Schedule

Start adjusting bedtime and gradually move wake up time … especially for younger children. Begin the week before school starts and try to move the time ahead in 15-minute increments as needed.

Gradual change will make the adjustment easier. And encouraging more sleep and a healthy diet will help everyone manage their feelings of stress and anxiety in more positive ways.

And remember…

Aim for success, not perfection. Never give up your right to be wrong, because then you will lose the ability to learn new things and move forward with your life. Remember that fear always lurks behind perfectionism.” ~ David M. Burns

Give yourself and your children grace when you miss the goal today. Just don’t give up! You can always try again tomorrow!

6. PRAY

Pray for your children, their friends, and their teachers.

Pray they will be kind and patient, healthy and protected, wise and understanding.

Ask God to equip them for any challenges they face and to help them stand strong when they’re faced with temptation.

Ask the Lord to place people around them who will encourage them to honor Him and grow in faith.

Ask Him to bless each classroom with a healthy environment for learning; one that is encouraging and filled with respect.

Pray with your child.

Encourage him/her to take every concern and anxious thought to God and assure them that they can trust Him to give them the courage and strength they need each day.

“Our prayers may be awkward. Our attempts may be feeble. But since the power of prayer is in the one who hears it and not in the one who says it, our prayers do make a difference.” – Max Lucado

And encourage them to memorize…

Give all your worries and cares to God, for he cares about you.
And…
I can do all things through Christ, because He gives me strength.
Philippians 4:13 and 1 Peter 5:7

I’m praying for you and your families today … asking God to calm your back to school anxiety and bless the year ahead!

And you need to know … these things apply if you homeschool, too! Adding teacher to your role of parent needs a whole lot of patience, preparation and prayer.

You may want to check out:

5 Verses to Pray for Your Son to be Strong, Courageous, and Wise
5 Verses to Pray for Your Daughter’s Spiritual Sensitivity and Growth

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God’s Love Is the Only Thing that Will Stop the Hate

8 / 5 / 198 / 4 / 19

The media wants us to believe hate is winning and we need to be afraid but the truth is God's love is greater and with His help, we can stop hate. #RacialEquality #LoveYourNeighbor #ChooseLove #God'sLove #EndHate #StopHate

I had another post written for today but…

Yesterday morning after church, my Bible study time included 1 Corinthians 13.

If I had the gift of prophecy, and if I understood all of God’s secret plans and possessed all knowledge, and if I had such faith that I could move mountains, but didn’t love others, I would be nothing. If I gave everything I have to the poor and even sacrificed my body, I could boast about it; but if I didn’t love others, I would have gained nothing.
v. 2–3

All I could think about was the shooting in El Paso, Saturday morning.

I was at our local Wal Mart at the exact time that shooting was taking place in Texas.

The store was mobbed with people. I couldn’t even maneuver my cart down the school supplies aisles as parents and children were preparing for the new school year while taking advantage of Tax-Free Weekend.

And I found myself smiling my way through the store. 1. Because I remember the angst and excitement we felt as our children prepared for the year ahead. 2. Because I love my community. People of all races, ethnicities, and backgrounds smiling and chatting with each other.

No, I don’t live in some small town where everyone knows each other. I live in an eastern suburb of Kansas City.

I feel safe here.

But the people of El Paso felt safe as they started shopping too. And the people of Dayton felt safe as they went out with friends Saturday night.

Until they weren’t.

And my heart is breaking!

I believe with God’s help, people are better than this! However, if you watch the news or listen to the presidential candidates all you hear is how much hate there is in this country!

They say we need to stop hate but…

The problem is, for the most part, people are pointing fingers and blaming others.

And the other problem is their solutions won’t change anything!

Because hate is a heart issue that comes from fear and those who talk about it the most are doing everything they can to continue to stoke fear.

The only thing truly able to stop hate and fear is God’s love!

This is what the Bible says about love…

God is love!
1 John 4:8

This is how much God loves humanity…

God showed how much He loved us by sending His one and only Son into the world so that we might have eternal life through Him. This is real love—not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son as a sacrifice to take away our sins.
1 John 4:9–10

And this is how love looks…

Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
1 Corinthians 13:4–7

This weekend’s events happened after a personal spiritual high we experienced just the day before.

Friday morning, Rev and I had a visit with Matt, from Samaritan’s Purse. We sat for over an hour and talked about the ways we have seen God at work in our lives. We talked about ministry and the ways God is pouring out His love through people around the world.

Matt is back in the states after serving with Samaritan’s Purse at relief and refugee centers in Hanoi, Afghanistan, Greece, and a few others I can’t remember.

He told us about homes being rebuilt and lives being changed, encouragement and support being offered to refugees and military families, and shoeboxes that give children not only a moment of happiness but hope and faith through the message of Jesus.

And many of these things are happening both internationally and domestically.

Then on Friday afternoon, we went to the closing program for Camp Kanakuk, Kamp Out! Day Kamp, to celebrate with our grandson. We watched more than a hundred children enthusiastically bubble over with the love of God.

The following is from Kanakuk’s about page:

KampOut! is a 1-Week high energy, non-stop excitement, traveling Christian day camp experience from Kanakuk for 5 to 12 year olds! Every KampOut! Kamper will see and hear that God is a loving Father and wonderful Creator who loves them and desires for us to love others.

And that is the truth!

God is a loving Father and wonderful Creator who loves us so much He sent Jesus and desires us to share that love with others.

Love that is patient and kind! Love that never loses faith and is always hopeful! A love that is able to stop hate!

And that is my message to myself and to you today!

I refuse to become fearful! I will stand on the truth of God’s Word and believe that God’s love is more powerful than the hate the enemy is trying to grow. Friend, he has already lost the war … Jesus is the victorious Lamb of God seated on the throne.

And yet today, until He returns—the spiritual battle is real. But even in the battle, I will choose to remember…

“Don’t be afraid!” Elisha told him. “For there are more on our side than on theirs!” Then Elisha prayed, “O Lord, open his eyes and let him see!”
2 Kings 6:16–17

May the Lord open our eyes to see and know…

He is with us.
He is fighting for us.
His love never fails.

Will you please pray with me?

Father, our hearts are hurting. We grieve with the families and communities touched by these senseless acts of violence. Please be their Comforter. Hold them close and surround them with Your love.

Lord, please forgive us. Our country needs You.

Your Word says,

If my people who are called by my name will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, I will hear from heaven and will forgive their sins and restore their land.
2 Chronicles 7:14

Please forgive us. We call evil good and good evil. We have taken our eyes off of You and looked for worldly answers for soul problems. Please heal and restore us through Your love.

Help us to see every person we meet as a person who is dearly loved and precious to You. Remove skepticism and fear and fill us with Your love. Help us see people as You see them.

Father, give us eyes to see what You are doing. Make us aware of the wonderful ways You are working in and through Your children every day. We are not alone! You are with us … guiding and helping.

Jesus said,

“I am with you always, even to the end of the age.”
Matthew 28:20

Fix our eyes, our thoughts, our hearts on Jesus … the One who began our faith and who gives us everything we need to live with love today and every day until we see You face to face.

In His name. By Your grace and for Your glory, I pray. Amen.

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Important Things to Do When You Need to Be Patient

7 / 29 / 197 / 29 / 19

You and I are always waiting for something and it's hard to be patient when the wait gets long. Here are some do's and don'ts that will help. #PatienceQuotes #BePatient #Faith #Howto

How are you doing with the whole patience thing?

I think consistently practicing patience is one of life’s most difficult challenges.

Whether I’m waiting in a long check out line, stuck in a doctor’s waiting room or anxious for the results of medical tests, dealing with an irritating individual or waiting for the answer to a long prayed request … exercising patience is hard.

It’s something I used to pray for until I realized the Lord doesn’t magically infuse patience into us – He typically chooses to teach us the benefits of patience by giving us opportunities to use it.

And those lessons in practicing patience although they have not been something I’ve enjoyed, I have learned that with God’s help I can remain calm and positive when I’m stuck in a challenging foot-tapping wait.

The truth is, you and I are always waiting for something. Always.

You may be waiting for…

a baby to be born.
school to start.
a relationship to be restored.
an important phone call.
a job or promotion.
healing.
the kids to go to bed.
someone who’s running late.
a celebration.
Friday.

The list could go on and on, couldn’t it?

Some things are relatively easy to wait for but others…

Are downright frightening.

So. why would God, through the Apostle Paul, tell us to be patient?

Rejoice in our confident hope. Be patient in trouble, and keep on praying.
Romans 12:12

I believe it’s because He is waiting with us. We are not alone!

Do not be afraid or discouraged, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.
Joshua 1:9b

And…

Be sure of this: I am with you always, even to the end of the age.
Matthew 28:20b

Because of the Lord’s presence, you and I can say…

I can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength.
Philippians 4:13

Even be patient when everything within us is screaming, “I can’t do this!”

If you’re like me, you could really use some practical do’s and don’ts to help when you’re in a season of waiting or suffering.

So, I thought you might like to know the things I’ve found helpful and those that definitely were not…

Things to avoid when you need to be patient...

Don’t Panic

Some waits are exciting but when you and I are waiting on news, or a job, or financial help … it can feel like the air is being sucked out of the room, making it hard to breathe. But this time is temporary and I can tell you I’ve lost precious days due to completely unnecessary fear-filled worry.

Don’t Pout

It’s so tempting to whine and complain when the wait is long and life is hard. But that too doesn’t really help. Pouting just makes me more miserable and unpleasant to be around.

Don’t Plot

After panicking and pouting, I have past experience with plotting my strategy to fix things myself. Working to manipulate my circumstances to facilitate this thing I want that’s not happening fast enough.

Don’t Proceed

This is where I would tell God my plans and expect Him to get on board and make them happen. Moving ahead with plans is not in itself a problem … the problem here is that I’d been praying about my circumstances. I’d just grown impatient on God’s timing. But moving ahead when I sense I’m outside of His will for me never works out well in the long run.

And let me tell you, panicking, pouting, plotting, and proceeding on my own just made me difficult to live with . . . I didn’t even like myself very much.

Things to do when you need to be patient…

Do Pray

Always! In all circumstances!

Praise God in good times, and pour out your heart to Him when life is hard.

Never stop praying.
1 Thessalonians 5:17

In His Word, God promises to hear us, to be with us, and to guide and direct us according to His perfect will. Those are things that can give us patience when everything in us wants to give up.

For the Lord your God is living among you.
    He is a mighty savior.
He will take delight in you with gladness.
    With his love, he will calm all your fears.
    He will rejoice over you with joyful songs.”
Zephaniah 3:17

Do Practice Presence

Not only does God promise to be present with us but has given us each other to care and console, to just be there for each other when life is hard and the wait is long. He wants us to be connected … to listen, to hold, and to help.

Be happy with those who are happy, and weep with those who weep.
Romans 12:!5

And…

Share each other’s burdens, and in this way obey the law of Christ.
Galatians 6:2

Do Prepare

Don’t give up. Live with faith and hope like you believe the wait is temporary and the answer is right around the corner.

Now may our Lord Jesus Christ Himself and God our Father, who loved us and by His grace gave us eternal comfort and a wonderful hope,comfort you and strengthen you in every good thing you do and say.
2 Thessalonaisn 2:16–17

Do Practice Peace

In all honesty, I can’t practice peace on my own … especially when I’m tempted to be impatient. But remember, the Lord promises His presence and that is the presence of His Holy Spirit. The Spirit of peace…

May the Lord of peace Himself give you His peace at all times and in every situation. The Lord be with you all.
2 Thessalonians 3:16

And praise God, He is willing to give us hard to explain or even understand peace one day at a time.

Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.
Philippians 4:7

So, you can…

Be Patient!

I know, often living with patience seems like it is beyond our ability. And the truth … it is!

But…

For I can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength.
Philippians 4:13

And Paul says that as the answer to the following…

I know how to live on almost nothing or with everything. I have learned the secret of living in every situation, whether it is with a full stomach or empty, with plenty or little.
Philippians 4:12

Whatever is going on, however long the wait with the Spirit’s help you and I can…

Praise God!

I will praise the Lord no matter what happens. I will constantly speak of His glories and grace.I will boast of all his kindness to me. Let all who are discouraged take heart^.Let us praise the Lord together and exalt His name.
Psalm 34:1–3

With the Spirit’s help, maintaining hope, joy, and faith. And praise God, when it’s all said and done, that is the very definition of living with patience!

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